Showing posts with label Shalom Israel. Show all posts
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Sunday, April 2, 2023

Jewish-American woman's sexual revolution

Amy Spiro, Times of Israel/MSN, April 1st; Sheldon S., A. Wells (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly
As Jewish attacks on Christians become more frequent, a crisis looms for Israel | ToI

This Israeli-American "Bohemian Balabusta" seeks a religious sexual revolution
Malka Chana Amichai wants us to talk about sex. The Jewish yogini headscarf-wearing Israeli-American religious mother of four has devoted much of her career to focusing on women’s reproductive health.

And in recent years – through her website and on Instagram – she has focused on breaking down taboos against publicly discussing such issues in many Orthodox circles.
American JewBu: Jews, Buddhists, Religious Change
Drawing on her experience as a doula for labor and postpartum, her training as a “kallah teacher” – one who instructs religious brides on family purity laws – as well as a prenatal yoga instructor and Lamaze educator, Amichai aims to get religious Jewish women talking about their bodies.

Amichai didn’t even own a smartphone for much of her life, but after opening an Instagram account for the first time in November 2020 she racked up 5,000 followers within the first year. Today she has close to 57,000 followers from all around the world.

“I’m a religious, Orthodox, Jewish woman who covers her hair [like a modern Muslim or old-time Catholic], and I’m speaking openly about sexuality and menstruation and birthing -- that’s super taboo stuff,” she said in a recent interview with The Times of Israel.

“I think it’s probably what I represent that is intriguing to a lot of people and normalizing it. Because I’m not a show. I’m going through all the same things.”

The Jew in the Lotus
Calling herself the “Bohemian Balabusta” [Ball Buster?], a Yiddish word that generally means "homemaker," Amichai, 34, has pivoted in recent years from active work as a doula and women's coach to become an influencer, with digital workshops, seminars, workbooks, even a coloring book of the female anatomy titled “Sacred Womanhood.”

Amichai, who lives with her family in the Etzion Bloc [of internationally-illegally occupied Palestine], said she sees all of her work in women’s health leading her, as it were, backwards.

Why do Jews where "Mecca" [Black Cube], a possibly Satanic artifact, on their heads?
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Is there a Jewish Voice for Peace?
Shortly after she was married, she trained as a postpartum doula, coaching new mothers and families through their adjustment.

While she enjoyed the work, “I just kept feeling like I had to get to this woman sooner,” she said, before she was “depleted and not feeling supported.”

She then trained as a birth doula, “but the same thing – I felt like I had to get to them sooner.”

Malka Chana Amichai coloring in her ‘Sacred Womanhood’ coloring book. (Chava Abrams/Simple Wonders)
Coloring in her Sacred Womanhood (Chava Abrams/Simple Wonders/The Times of Israel).
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She became a prenatal yoga teacher then trained as a childbirth educator and took a course to become a kallah teacher.

“It seemed like an organic, great fit: I’ve worked with women. Let’s keep getting to them sooner so that they’re already starting these lifecycle journeys from an empowered place.” More

Friday, August 1, 2014

God is love? Not in the early Bible (video)

Wisdom Quarterly; Shalom Auslander Judeo-Christian God in Foreskin's Lament memoir

4. And the Lord said unto Moses,
"This is the land I promised you,
but you shall not enter. Psych."

5. And Moses died.

DEUTERONOMY
Please, Almighty, don't kill me.
1. When I was a child, my parents and teachers told me about a man who was very strong. They told me he could destroy the whole world. They told me he could lift mountains. They told me he could part the sea. It was important to keep the man happy. When we obeyed what the man had commanded, the man liked us. He liked us so much that he killed anyone who didn't like us. But when we didn't obey what he had commanded, he didn't like us. He hated us. Some days he hated us so much, he killed us; other days, he let other people kill us. We call these days "holidays." On Purim, we remembered how the Persians tried to kill us. On Passover, we remembered how the Egyptians tried to kill us. On Chanukah, we remembered how the Greeks tried to kill us.

—Blessed is He, we prayed.
  • Buddhism and the God-Idea (PDF)
  • My religious education in brief: First Christianity (all of the Abrahamic faiths) tells us, "This is sin, that is sin, and all that over there is sin. Don't do any of those! You're free to go, have fun, but remember: If you do do any them, you had better feel afraid and guilty because, you just wait, you're going to get it! Welcome to Earth. That's just the way it is. Merry Christmas, motherf----r!"
Thou shalt fear, read this book, and obey it!
As bad as these punishments could be, they were nothing compared to the punishments meted out to us by the man himself. Then there would be famines. Then there would be floods. Then there would be furious vengeance. Hitler might have killed the Jews, but this man drowned the world. This was the song we sang about him in kindergarten: "God is here, God is there, God is truly everywhere!."
 
Then snacks, and a fitful nap.
 
I was raised like a veal in the Orthodox Jewish town of Monsey, New York, where it was forbidden to eat veal together with dairy. Having eaten veal, one was forbidden to eat dairy for six hours; having eaten dairy, one was forbidden to eat veal for three hours. One was forbidden to eat pig forever, or at least until the Messiah arrived; it was then, Rabbi Napier had taught us in the fourth grade, that the wicked would be punished, the dead would be resurrected, and pigs would become kosher.
 
—Yay! I said, high-fiving my best friend, Dov.
 
—You should be so excited, said Rabbi Napier, peering with disgust over the top of his thick horn-rimmed glasses, —on the Day of God's Judgment.
 
Cut it, or you're not kosher. (GR)
The people of Monsey were terrified of God, and they taught me to be terrified of Him, too — they taught me about a woman named Sarah who would giggle, so He made her barren; about a man named Job who was sad and asked, —Why?, so God came down to the Earth, grabbed Job by the collar, and howled, —Who the f*ck do you think you are?; about a man named Moses, who escaped from Egypt, and who roamed through the desert for forty years in search of a Promised Land, and whom God killed just before he reached it—face-plant on the one-yard line—because Moses had sinned, once, forty years earlier. His crime? Hitting a rock. And so, in early autumn, when the leaves choked, turned colors, and fell to their deaths, the people of Monsey gathered together in synagogues across the town and wondered, aloud and in unison, how God was going to kill them: —Who will live and who will die, they prayed, —
  • who at his predestined time and who before his time,
  • who by water and who by fire, 
  • who by sword, 
  • who by beast, 
  • who by famine, 
  • who by thirst, 
  • who by storm, 
  • who by plague, 
  • who by strangulation, and 
  • who by stoning.
Then lunch, and a fitful nap.
 
Man, they had it rough. So actually I helped God.
It is Monday morning, six weeks after my wife and I learned that she is pregnant with our first child, and I am stopped at a traffic light. The kid doesn't have a chance. It's a trick. I know this God; I know how He works. The baby will be miscarried, or die during childbirth, or my wife will die during childbirth, or they'll both die during childbirth, or neither of them will die and I'll think I'm in the clear, and then on the drive home from the hospital, we'll collide head-on with a drunk driver and they'll both die later, my wife and child, in the emergency room just down the hall from the room where only minutes ago we stood so happy and alive and full of promise.
 
That would be so God. More
 
Why good Christians must side with Israel
(Corey Gil-Schuster) Want to know what Israelis and Palestinians in the Middle East think about Israel's war? Ask and I will get answers. Want to contribute? Go to gofundme.com/Ask-Project. People ask Israeli Jews, Who is Jesus to you? (Thanks, Sheldon).

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Holocaust Remembrance Day

Wisdom Quarterly (COMMENTARY); Huffington Post.com
How many days did Anne Frank, diary writer, spend in Nazi Germany? Answer: zero. She wrote in a land far away (AP/HuffingtonPost.com).

On Holocaust Remembrance Day, traffic will stop as a siren rings throughout the state of Israel. Throughout the world, synagogue members will light memorial candles and children will recite poems as well as the names of those who died.

But after sundown, when Holocaust Remembrance Day concludes, the responsibility to preserve the memories of those who tragically perished and fought to live will carry on.

Consider how you will bear that responsibility by learning how you can support, and get involved with, the organizations that are committed to educating about the horrors of the Holocaust and to never allowing the world to forget. More

Questioning the Holocaust
Wisdom Quarterly (COMMENTARY)

My wife says I'm a "Holocaust denier." She should know. Maybe you are, too The definition is very flexible. And it's a crime in a growing number of places in Europe. How long will we be able to question history here? Already the consequences are massive. You will not be voted into office, you will be denied tenure, you will get a punch in the nose in the Catskills, and worse. You may even be called the worst thing we people nowadays, "racist." Of course the war happened, of course Jews (among others) were targeted, of course war crimes and atrocities were committed by Nazis.


What I question is the details, the numbers, the boring stuff behind the headlines. To question is to doubt, and that is what is not allowed. It's not PC. And the PC Police, like the Nazi Gestapo, do not allow dissenting opinions when it comes to corporate and governmental policies.

Thank goodness for organizations like CodePink, J Street, and luminaries like Medea Benjamin. Every supporter of Israel in America, just as every American with regard to the wars on geopolitically Middle Eastern countries like Palestine and Iraq and Afghanistan, needs to stand firm and say: NOT IN MY NAME.

They do not event tolerate implications. There is a story, special interests are served by that story, and (history and reality be d*mned) that story will not be subject to inquiry. Maybe the atrocity of the Holocaust was that only 200,000 human beings were unfairly rounded up, tortured, and exterminated. It is not acceptable if the number is only 2. But we are indoctrinated, without much evidence, to accept as an article of faith that the number was 6,000,000 even 30,000,000. The bigger the disinformation, the more believable it is. Hitler (the figurehead for Goebbels and worse Nazis), it is said, advocated bigger lies for the success of propaganda campaigns. Is it disinformation? I don't know. I'd like to know. But it can't be questioned. It can't even be brought up.

Who is profiting form this story, and who is suffering today? Why is the hypocrisy of Israel's treatment of Palestinians/Arabs unspeakable, unutterable, unquestionable? Why is our complicity, actually that of our government and tax dollars, unquestionable? Does any group, as Sarah Silverman jokes, have a disproportionate control of news and entertainment? (How dare you promote racist stereotypes! Why? Because to question is to "promote" in this arena). Zionism, banking, Flotillas and Flytillas threatened, double-standards galore, human rights abuses, AIPAC, Israeli PM Netanyahu browbeating the US Congress, the sexist religious roots of our culture? I think there's something going on here. Something's rotten in Denmark.

My wife won't talk to me. But in a Buddhist twist, someone more important -- with regard to this subject anyway -- would: the reborn Anne Frank. More on what she said to come.

Orthodox Jews are only following what their holy scriptures command them, scriptures sacred to many Christians. And for that they are called "ultra-orthodox," even when they stand with Iran's president on certain issues. Such integrity or the courage of their convictions is only used to discredit them as "extremists." And we never hear why they would oppose this or be for that. That is how censorship harms us all (alarbiya.net).

Monday, September 22, 2008

Last Jews of India

Ancient Hindu symbol/Star of David, Janardhana Temple, India.

To the extent that Jews gave birth to Christianity, Judaism seems to have borrowed a great deal from ancient Hinduism and more recently continues to borrow from Vajrayana Buddhism, just as Jesus Christ and St. John seem to have. The lines of evidence are obscured by history and obfuscated by vested interests. Nevertheless, Jews not only owe significant portions of their spiritual heritage to ancient Vedic lore and the subcontinent, their presence is ongoing.
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(Interestingly, even the Sri Yantra or Star of David, symbol of the Jewish faith, is pulled from esoteric Hindu teachings symbolizing the union of higher and lower chakras merging at the heart center; likewise the swastika and other Nazi symbolism was appropriated from esoteric Theosophical and Buddhist references to Aryans and the "setting in motion the Wheel of Dharma" by a "world monarch").

Dutch palace wall painting replete wtih ancient esoteric symbolism including star.
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Last Jews of Calcutta have one last guardian
Sam Dolnick (AP, 9/20/08)

CALCUTTA, India -- The stooped man in the yarmulke fights his way through this chaotic city, the weight of generations heavy upon his shoulders. He squeezes past tea stalls and sidewalk electricians, past idle rickshaws, and honking cars. He edges through rows of vendors selling sparkly hair clips and, finally, pushes open a rusty gate hidden from the street.

Today is the Sabbath, and Shalom Israel, one of the last Jews of Calcutta, has reached a cobwebbed synagogue, a once-grand building with imposing doors that nearly always stay shuttered, and spires that soar up toward the monsoon clouds. Israel comes every Friday to light a candle, say a prayer, and check on the three synagogues still standing, however precariously, as relics of a passed era of plenty. Most weeks, he is the only visitor.

There were once 5,000 Jews living in this teeming port city, but today, as the Jewish New Year approaches, there are fewer than 35. Israel, 38 with a thin beard, is the youngest by nearly 25 years. Israel lives inside the only place left where Jews aren't a minority — the Jewish cemetery. He cares for the graves of his father, his great-grandparents, his uncles and his aunts, along with more than 2,000 other Jewish tombs. He also tends to the two dozen Jewish elders still living, handles the last rites when they die, and, to stay kosher, butchers his own meat.

It's not easy being the last of your people.

"It's only a matter of time before people die or leave," said Israel. "There is no future...The inevitable, I can't fight." Indeed, repopulating the community would be tough. There aren't many unmarried Jewish women in Calcutta — Israel is single and doesn't know any women younger than 60. His sister married a Hindu, for which the elders shunned her. The last Jewish wedding anyone can remember was in 1982.

He is weary from Calcutta's midsummer heat, and from the responsibility of caring for his ancestors' legacy. He's well aware that a centuries-old community will likely die with him, but he sees nothing to do but tend to its remnants and blow on the fading embers.

"I've seen what the community was. To see the way it is now..." He trails off mid-sentence.

Israel survives on a combination of odd jobs, but his health is poor, his nerves frayed by his multiple responsibilities. He usually keeps his skullcap in his pocket because he tires of explaining its significance, but at the end of the day, when he's in a taxi heading back to his solitary shed inside the cemetery, he takes it out and puts it on, exhaling for what seems like the first time all day.

In this country of 1.1 billion people, there are believed to be roughly 5,000 Jews — not enough to be counted as a distinct group in the Indian census. Jews first came to India as traders some 250 years ago, and today their largest community is in Mumbai [Bombay], the country's most cosmopolitan city.

Calcutta's first Jews are thought to have come in the late 18th century, descendants of the Baghdad Jews who came from Syria, Iran and Iraq. They thrived as diamond traders, real estate dealers, exporters, spice wholesalers, and bakers — one Jewish bakery famous for its plum cakes still stands, run by the founder's octogenarian grandson. Rickshaws and taxis still ply Synagogue Street and other roads named for prominent Jews.

The Jewish community built at least five synagogues and two schools. Today, there are 700 students at the Elias Meyer Free School and Talmud Torah. Not one is Jewish, and nothing particularly Jewish is taught there. In the 1930s and 1940s, Calcutta was a bustling, raucous hub, and Jews formed a solid minority, their wedding parties and religious feasts flowing down the temple steps. Jews were players at the popular horse track — Israel remembers his father's racehorses, Onslaught, War Dance and Black Toy — and they were regulars at the fashionable restaurants. Jews rarely faced discrimination, mainly because "no one knew who we were," said Ian Zackariah, 64.

As a community, "We were too small to bully," he said. "There were so many other people to beat up — Hindus vs. Muslims, high castes vs. lower castes. Who's going to pick on us?"

The birth of independent India in 1947, and the creation of Israel the following year, marked the beginning of the end for Calcutta's Jews. Many left for the new Jewish state; others moved to Europe or the United States in search of better business opportunities.

Some stayed behind, but life was different. During services, women left the temple balcony, where they used to sit in keeping with Jewish custom, and sat with the men in the main hall — the synagogue felt too empty otherwise. Slowly, the Jewish butchers put away their knives, the bakers turned off their ovens, the teachers boxed up their Hebrew books.

The stalwarts stayed to care for their aging parents, to raise their children or simply because Calcutta was home.

Aline Cohen, 62 was born after the community's heyday, but she still remembers rowdy festivals and packed synagogues. Now, there aren't enough absle-bodied men to form a minyan, the quorum necessary for services, and no one but Israel regularly visits the temples. The Jews rarely get together except at funerals, and sometimes not even then.

"It is lonely," said Cohen, whose three children were raised in Calcutta but have since left. "We all have non-Jewish friends, but ... there's a spiritual loneliness. You miss Sabbath services... You miss the feeling of community."
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Shalom Israel, one of the last Jews of Calcutta, India, lights candles and prays in three existing Synagogues every Friday, shown 8/8/08. In the 1930's and 1940's, Calcutta was a bustling, raucous hub, and Jews formed a solid minority, their wedding parties and religious feasts flowing down the temple steps. There were once 5,000 Jews living in this teeming port city, but now there are fewer than 35 (AP Photo/Bikas Das).

Shalom Israel never really knew what it was to be part of a community. His only Jewish peers are his younger brother, who is preparing to move to Israel, and his younger sister. Israel lives in a small, cluttered shed inside the Jewish cemetery, just steps from his father's grave. Visitors may find the arrangement macabre, but he says it offers him peace inside a frenzied city.

"I find the living more dangerous to deal with than the dead," he jokes. "I have very easy neighbors." Cohen worries about Shalom Israel and what will happen to him after the elders are gone. She says he should move to Israel, but he won't.

"If I go to Israel when I'm 40 or 50, what's the point?" he said.

Besides, he says, the Jews of Calcutta need him. He ticks off his to-do list: take several elders to the doctor, take others to the dentist, take another to a hearing test; check on the temples, trim the overgrown cemetery foliage, visit the infirm living alone. He gets paid by the community for all this, but he says the work is important not because of the money but because "it gives me meaning, a matter of belonging."

"The community is dwindling to almost nothing," he said. "I am trying to keep it surviving as much as I can."