Showing posts with label father. Show all posts
Showing posts with label father. Show all posts

Monday, October 5, 2026

The Buddha's father King Suddhodana


Men are dumb, Dad - I know. I❤️U.
It's easy to love mom, but what about dad? What has the Men's Movement done for males in this patriarchy? (There are feminist men?) In the U.S., whether or not to celebrate "Father's Day" nationwide is a matter of debate. In 1908, Grace Golden Clayton proposed a day to honor men who had died in a U.S. mining accident. It was rejected then.

But in 1909, Sonora Louise Smart Dodd, who along with her five brothers had been raised by a single father, attended "Mother's Day" in a church.

Men's empowerment hike on Father's Day
She then convinced the Spokane Ministerial Association to celebrate Father's Day nationwide [7]. In addition to Father's Day, International Men's Day is celebrated in many countries on Nov. 19th in honor of men and boys [8]: Father's Day

In the Pāli canon, there are only two discourses (sutras) that explicitly reference Suddhodana, the Mahāpadāna Sutta (DN 14) and in the verse prologue of the Nālaka Sutta (Sn 3.11). In each of these discourses, Suddhodana is represented simply as the Buddha's father and as a Sakyan ruler.


Good father had a bad Buddha who abandoned his newborn son?
(Buddha's Wisdom) The Buddha's son: the forgotten story of Rahula: Why did the Buddha abandon his newborn son, leaving him on welfare in flat in the winter with no schooling or support?

Afghan chieftain Indo-Scythia, Gandhara
Who is Prince Siddhattha's father, the Gandharan (Afghan territorial chieftain?*) King Suddhodana? In Theravada Buddhism (a major branch) — Suddhodana is recorded in the ancient Pali canon.

He was a Saka, Sakka, Shakya, Scythian, Sakiyan raja ("king," "leader," "head," "royal") in Kapilavatthu, the father of Prince Siddhattha Gotama, who became the historical Buddha.

He was the son of Sihahanu and Kaccana. His brothers were Dhotodana, Sakkodana, Sukkodana, and Amitodana, and his sisters were Amita and Pamita.

Maya was his chief consort. After her death, her sister Pajapati was elevated to that position (Mhv.ii.15f.; Dpv.iii.45; J.i.15, etc.)


Asita's visit to Suddhodana
When soothsayers predicted that his son Siddhattha had two destinies awaiting him, either that of a universal monarch (cakkavatti, chakravartin) if he stayed in the world or a universal teacher (Buddhahood) if he renounced it, he exerted his utmost effort to provide the prince with all kinds of sensual luxuries and hedonistic pleasures to hold him to the household life.

It is said (e.g., J.i.54) that when Asita, who was his father's [Brahmin] chaplain and teacher, visited King Suddhodana to see the newborn prince, he paid homage to the infant by allowing his feet to rest on his head. Suddhodana was filled with wonder and also worshipped the child.


I wish for you to be a noble warrior, my son.
Seven years later, at the annual Ploughing Festival ceremony, Suddhodana saw that the shadow of the jambu tree under which the child had been placed in the shade when he spontaneously went into meditative absorption (jhana, samadhi) did not move even as the sun traveled overhead. Then the child, seated cross-legged without moving, levitated in the air. So he again worshipped him (J.i.57f).

Life in the luxurious house of Saka
Twenty-nine years later, when in spite of all his father's efforts, Prince Siddhattha renounced and left behind the household life and took to practicing austerities in the East, Suddhodana sent a messenger/private investigator to find his son and see what he was up to.

The investigator returned with news that his son had died, owing to the severity of his penances (tapas). But Suddhodana refused to believe it, saying that his son would never die without achieving his spiritual goal (J.i.67).

When this was afterwards related to the Buddha, he taught the Maha Dhammapala Jataka, showing that in the past, too, Suddhodana had refused to believe that his son could have died even when he was shown the heap of his bones.

I failed as a father. My son left.
Seven years after that, when news reached Suddhodana that his son had reached enlightenment, he sent a messenger to Veluvana in Rajagaha ("Bamboo Grove" in Rajgir, where King Bimbisara reigned) with many others to invite the Buddha to return home and visit the seasonal capital of Kapilavatthu.

But when the messenger and his companions heard the Buddha teach, they renounced worldly life, entered the Monastic Order, and forgot their mission. This happened nine more times with different messengers.

On the tenth occasion, King Suddhodana sent Kaludayi (Sanskrit Kālodāyin) who had advance permission to join the Sangha on the express condition that he give the king's invitation to the Buddha.

The Buddha's family from Gandhara (not Nepal)
Kaludayi kept his promise, the Buddha consented, and seven years after having left home to embark on a massive spiritual quest, he returned home to visit Kapilavatthu [Kabul, Bamiyan, Mes Aynak, ancient Gandhara now modern Afghanistan, "Saka Land," the maha-janapada of the Shakya Clan in Central Asia?], staying in Nigrodharama. There, in reference to a rain shower that fell, he taught the Vessantara Jataka.
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The next day, when King Suddhodana remonstrated his royal (noble, warrior) son, the Buddha, because he was seen "begging" (going on almsround) on the streets of Kapilavatthu, the Buddha told him that surviving on offerings was the custom of all buddhas. Hearing this, King Suddhodana became a stream enterer (sotapanna, the first stage of enlightenment).

Son, at 16, you shall marry the beautiful Bimba.
He then offered to feed his new teacher the Buddha, inviting him to visit the palace, where he entertained him. At the end of the meal offering, the Buddha further taught the king, who became a once returner (sakadagami, J.i.90; cf. DhA.iii.164f).
  • This was when the Buddha was reunited with Princess Bimba (Yasodhara) and his 7-year-old son Rahula, both of whom were "saved" in that they were inspired to renounce their worldly lives in the palace and take up the path-of-practice the Buddha taught as wandering ascetics. In no long time, they both became enlightened. Many Saka/Shakya/Scythian relatives were inspired to follow suit, join the Sangha (spiritual community), and make an end of all suffering.
The king then became a nonreturner (anagami, the third of four stages of awakening) after hearing the Maha Dhammapala Jataka (DhA.i.99; J.iv.55).

Suddhodana was the Bodhisatta or Buddha-to-be’s father in numerous previous births, but he is mentioned as such by name in only a few birth (jātaka) tales, namely:

Tuesday, August 4, 2026

Foolishness of the Ten Commandments

(The Big Why) The foolishness of the 10 Commandments

If the Ten Commandments of Christianity, as borrowed or modified by Judaism because they come in varying official lists from the all-knowing, never wrong, and never ever misquoted or misunderstood God of All Things, are foolish. Not because rules are bad. Rules good. Clear instructions good. Boundaries good. Kindness and fairness to all, very good.

The foolishness derives from the fact that the religion can't even agree and these rules straight. Then we hear that the Black Egyptian Jew Moses (of the founding myth, aka the Exodus that never happened, who has now been scrubbed and completely Ashkenazified) dropped another list and broke the tablet, or perhaps he threw it in anger. In any case, the list changes. Who knew the list ever changed?

Henotheistic Judaism loves their bloody gods
The Ultimate Creator (the Demiurge, the El, the god, Baal, Molech, Yahweh, YHWH, Yaldabaoth, Jehovah, God thirsty for sacrificial blood when nothing else will do but black magic for the forgiveness of sin even if it means killing His son, the Big Whomever, Lord of the Universe and Children's Playgrounds and Hell because He rules all, knows all, decides all, wills all, controls all, and is never wrong not to the slightest, which is why He never changes His mind or His word or His law, unless someone talks to Him and gets a personal variance or exception) is said to have decreed them, so who can argue with them? They are the law, the Ritual Decalogue, the Finger of God pointing and cursing when He doesn't get His patriarch way. So OBEY and shut up.

But what about Buddhism's "Ten Precepts"?

Some Jews make God look bad
What about them? The Buddha advised all human beings to restrain themselves and keep the precepts -- five, eight, ten, 227, 311, or more, in accordance with one's wishes for the future. A minimum of the basic five should remain inviolate because the wholesome (skillful) karma (actions, deeds) of doing so benefits beings here and hereafter, in this world and the next (a reference to many future worlds one finds oneself in in the future). These are not "commandments," not even for Buddhist monastics (nuns, monks, maechis, anagarikas, temporary novices and spiritual retreatants). They are undertaken voluntarily and violated voluntarily. The goal is not to "please" some god or God. It is to bring about peace of mind and purification of view by insight, which leads one to see things as they truly are. And in seeing them that way, one wishes no harm or suffering on anyone.

How dare Buddhism outline a standard of conduct for individuals/communities! Is that "Zen"?
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How did the Buddha know and care so much?
Also note that none of the precepts is self-serving. There's no "Love Thy Buddha and worship Him above all" or "I am Thy Lord Your God, Obey me, you speck of dust!" or any such thing. All human societies would agree and have agreed for millennia and aeons (kalpas), that everyone is happier and has much more peace of mind when no one is going around killing, stealing, sexually misconducting themselves, lying (bearing false witness), or becoming so intoxicated that they are heedless to these guidelines for human conduct. The additional vows or precepts to temporarily abstain from luxuries, adornments and self-beautification, or eating at inappropriate times are all excellent aids to mindfulness (presence of mind), meditation (absorption), health (vigor and longevity), and undistracted focus.

Right action is just one factor of eight
What a heavenly world this would be if living beings here just kept these five. Rebirth in better worlds is possible just from better conduct here. And liberation from rebirth in any world is possible, making an end of all possible future suffering, is within reach. Maybe that's not what most people want or are aware of, but it is attainable. If all anyone ever wanted out of Buddhism were health, wealth, wishes, beauty, fame, and influence, that is all within reach through karma, here and now and there and then.

Thursday, July 9, 2026

Driving Under the Influence (of Shrooms)


Tales from the Trip (Comedy Central)
Phish concert at Alpine Valley Music Theatre, Wisconsin, July 2003, lights by Chris Kuroda
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(Animated) Road-tripping on shrooms with my family (featuring Rosemary "Rosebud" Baker) | Tales from the Trip Pothead culture, marijuana addiction, glassblowing major, Phish as white gypsies reliving the glory of the Grateful Dead, traveling around the country so people can get high and enjoy their long jams.
Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys with Sahil
Rosemary "Rosebud" Baker (born March 16, 1985) is an American comedian, actress, and writer. Based in New York City, she is known for her dark humor based on personal and often satirical stories. In 2010, she worked as an actress in independent films, non-union TV projects, and off-Broadway. She later began appearing in a recurring role on the Hulu series Life & Beth. In 2013, she received praise for her performance in the critically acclaimed independent film Turnabout. Baker started her career in stand-up in 2014 by performing at open mics throughout NYC. In 2021, her debut comedy special, Whiskey Fists, premiered on Comedy Central. She became a writer for the HBO Max television series That Damn Michael Che in 2020 and a writer for Saturday Night Live from 2022 to 2025. Her second comedy special, The Mother Lode, was released on Netflix on Feb. 18, 2025. More

Monday, June 29, 2026

Husband catches wife having sex with her son


Not to be judgmental about those males who have an Oedipal complex, sexually fantasizing about their own biological mothers (like females who harbor an Electra complex), but c'mon. This seems biologically repugnant and gross, not to say it is. Maybe we are just trained by our society to regard it so, as seems to be the case in all societies. There seems something built into the human experience to give us a natural aversion to incest, which may be nothing more than the very powerful "familiarity breeds contempt." If we grow up with someone, see too much of them, it seems natural we are not interested sexually in them. This seems to hold most of the time. There are aberrations, of course. But who is for this? Who is for incest? It is hard to believe that it appears to be such a strong feature of the Judeo-Christian mentality. "Judeo-Christian" is a made-up term, invented for Zionist Jewish Israeli hasbara or propaganda to conflate American culture with Jewish culture on account of shared roots through the embrace of Christianity by many WASPs and Europeans. Jews, particularly biblical ones, may be all right with incest, judging from Bible stories, and a strong patriarchal attitude, but do Christian patriarchs feel the same? Are no children in such families safe? Why would it be more prevalent, or seem to be more prevalent, in the South? (We're looking at you, West Virginia). Is it lack of opportunity? Is everyone related? Is it in the zeitgeist so people just go with it? What is going on?

To what depths do we fall? Bestiality
(Ape Huncho) Florida woman caught having sex with family dog

Tuesday, December 16, 2025

Zionist Jewish false flag in Australia

(Sabby Sabs) Three false flag (pretext) attacks to justify war?
  • Hanukkah, the lowest of the Jewish high holidays, invented completely by rabbis (Jewish clerics) and never mentioned in the Bible (Jewish Old Testament or Christian New Testament)
  • Pakistan Digital TV: Indians, not Pakistanis, did it
  • Chabad: Zionists disguised as "Jewish Unitarians"
  • Anti-Defamation League (ADL): Jewish phonies virtue signaling they only exist to defend Judaism and Jews they like [who serve Israel for the imperial dream of Greater Israel]
  • "ISIS" is working with Israel in Syria
  • The Grayzone with Max Blumenthal
(Sabby Sabs) Zionists for Genocide want to control all U.S. media


Lies are what we are told by "official" narratives, contradicted by evidence

(Jimmy Dore on YouTube) The Jimmy Dore Show website: jimmydore.com
  • Evil snake eyes Erika Kirk looks like evil Evangelical Pastor Kenneth Copeland (both possessed by Reptilian spirits?)
  • Zionist Jewish Israeli Agent Bari Weiss runs CBS News

Tuesday, October 21, 2025

Epstein Files: Virginia G's 'Nobody's Girl'


From the Grave: Virginia Roberts Giuffre names Israeli Prime Minister as her Epstein rapist abuser
Nobody's Girl: Surviving Abuse
(Kim Iversen) Oct. 21, 2025: Virginia Roberts Giuffre’s final book drops bombshells about Israel’s political elite and the rich and famous tech bros who raped children on Epstein's Pedophile Island.

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Saturday, October 11, 2025

What's worse, being a parent or a kid?


The new girl will kick your @$$ then steal his heart | Clip from The Gangster's Daughter
  • 200 Pounds Beauty is Korea's all-time box office comedy (#8 overall) leader and winner for best film, director, and actress in Korea's Grand Bell (Korea's Oscars). It is the story of a singer that resorts to drastic head-to-toe plastic surgery in order to become a huge star. Cast: Kim Ah-joong 김아중, Joo Jin-mo 주진모, Sung Dong-il, Ji Seo-yun.
(AsianCrush) ABOUT: Don't mess with a gangster's daughter. When her mom dies unexpectedly, a rebellious teen is reunited with her dad, a small-time Taipei, Taiwan, gangster. The reunion causes dad to question his life of crime, until a corrupt cop turns their world upside down. Cast: Ally Chiu, Jack Kao. Director: Chen Mei-juin. Clip from 'The Gangster's Daughter'

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Friday, October 10, 2025

Ghislaine Maxwell: perverted Israeli agent



Robert Maxwell, Israel's Superspy: The Life and Murder of a Media Mogul

My Dad: Israel's Superspy
Authors Gordon Thomas and Martin Dillon have 4.6 out of 5 stars with 128 ratings in this book published in 2003.

Jewish Israeli spy [Ghislaine's father] Robert Maxwell -- ruthless, volatile, defiant, a man of gargantuan appetites for food, wine, women, power, money -- unabashedly bared his ambition to the world, as he strove to build a publishing empire in the UK and US.

But throughout his career he also nurtured another, more driving, and until now altogether hidden ambition, and that was to spy for Israel's CIA, the Mossad.

A Mossad spy? Zionist Jeffrey just liked to broker deals for Israel.

Trash: Encounters with Ghislaine Maxwell
Gordon Thomas, an author who has long been trolling the murky waters of international intelligence, shows in this gripping narrative, the conflict between this tycoon's public interests and spy's secret pursuits led to his mystifying death, officially by drowning, in Nov. 1991, off the Canary Islands.

According to the author's well-placed sources in Israel, Washington D.C., and London, Maxwell first came into Mossad's orbit in the 1970s, when the crack Israeli spy organization stole from the United States its most sophisticated piece of intelligence-gathering software, Enhanced Promis.

Of it Mossad made an electronic Trojan horse, secretly amassing strictly classified [blackmail material] information from inside the very organizations worldwide to which they were selling it.

Hunting Ghislaine (John Sweeney)
The Mossad's representative for these extremely sensitive transactions costing tens of millions of dollars in China, Russia, India, and 20 other countries was Robert Maxwell.

Only Maxwell was also helping himself to some of Mossad's profits -- as well as $750,000,000 from his employees' pension fund -- in desperate attempts to maintain his empire and to meet the demands of increasingly intolerant creditors.

Is transparency in U.S. gov't too much to ask?
Aboard his yacht that November night in 1991 Maxwell no doubt still clung to the hope of a bailout by Mossad. But the Mossad's spy masters could not afford to smile on blackmail.

This book reveals all the shocking reasons why. Eight pages of black-and-white photographs add to this astonishing tale of international intrigue, espionage, the Israeli spying agency, and murder. Robert Maxwell, Israel's Superspy: The Life and Murder of a Media Mogul