- His guru A. C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada
- Brahmacharya: restraint, sexual abstinence
- Misogyny: literally "hatred of females," figuratively promoting separation of the sexes or normative sex role stereotyping [or saying there are only two genders]
- Ashtanga (The Eight Limbs of Yoga)
- Celibacy: choosing to abstain from sex
- Bhakti Yoga: union by way of devotion
- Vedas: ancient Indian "knowledge books"
- ISKCON: Int'l Society of Krishna Consciousness
- The Dharmic religions of India
Wednesday, July 1, 2026
Swami on overcoming the sex itch
Hindu: Why sex means suffering (ISKCON)
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Friday, March 24, 2023
Native Buddhist Vegan: Sunday Service (3/26)
| Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz |
- NOTE: May's date is moved to 3rd Sunday due to Memorial Day weekend
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| Native American Buddhist? |
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| An Inglorious Columbus (Edward P. Vining) |
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| How the Swans...Buddhism in America (Rick Fields) |
Wednesday, June 29, 2022
Yogi Gurudev on SEX (video)
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| Balance -- not strength, stamina, or flexibility -- is by far the toughest thing in yoga. |
- 0:00 - Is obsession of sex healthy?
- 1:26 - The concept of kama-agni or "fire of passion"
- 3:43 - The role of celibacy for growth
- 5:32 - How is brahmacharya or renunciation different from celibacy?
- 7:07 - What is the importance of brahmacharya for spiritual growth?
- 8:19 - Is sanyasa or monasticism a prerequisite for enlightenment?
Sunday, June 24, 2018
Enlightenment by noble friendship (sutra)

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| Getting to hear the Dharma is the start. |
"This is half of the purified life,* venerable sir: noble friendship, noble association, noble companionship!**"
- [*The way leading to the supreme, namely, to nirvana. **As AN 8.54 points out, this means more than associating with noble ones, for it includes LEARNING (hearing the Dharma) from them and emulating the noble qualities they evince.]
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| Ananda reflected and figured it out. |
"When a meditator has noble friends, noble associates, noble companions, such a person person can be expected to [hear the Dharma and] practice and develop the Noble Eightfold Path [leading to enlightenment and nirvana].
"How does a meditator with noble friends, associates, and companions [get to hear] pursue and develop the Noble Eightfold Path?
"In one case a meditator develops right view dependent on withdrawal [seclusion from unwholesome, defiled states], dependent on dispassion, dependent on cessation, resulting in letting go (relinquishment).
"One develops right intention... right speech... right action... right livelihood... right effort... right mindfulness... right concentration dependent on withdrawal, dependent on dispassion, dependent on cessation, resulting in letting go.
"This is how a meditator with noble friends, associates, and companions develops and pursues the Noble Eightfold Path.
"Through this line of reasoning, one may know how noble friendship, noble association, noble companionship is actually the whole of the purified life:
The Buddha as our best noble friend
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| I've done a lot of bad things, sir! - Listen. |
- beings who are subject to rebirth gain release from rebirth
- beings who are subject to aging gain release from aging [and sickness]
- beings who are subject to death gain release from death
- beings who are subject to sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, and despair gain release from sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, and despair.
Wednesday, October 11, 2017
What makes one an outcast? (sutra)
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| "Stay there, you outcast!" said the Brahmin. |
1. "Whoever is angry, harbors hatred, and is reluctant to speak well of others (discounting the good of others), twisted in views, deceitful -- know that person as an outcast.
- [MEANING: By spiritually-motivated sexual abstinence/celibacy (brahmacharya="vehicle or way to Brahma") poor Sopaka, who was considered an outcast, reached the heavenly Realm of Brahma (considered the God Supreme by Brahmins) by his karma/conduct of having relinquished sensual craving that leads to rebirth in lower-heavenly, human, animal, and subhuman worlds within the "Sensual Sphere" or Kama Loka. And and by so doing Sopaka was reborn as Matanga, so famous (holy) he went from "untouchable" to someone attended on by members of the two highest castes, warriors and priests.]
Tuesday, June 21, 2016
What is human life? (Buddhist sutra)
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| The largest Buddha statue in Thailand, Wat Muang (KrunjaPhotography/flickr.com) |
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| Even Araka knew: Human life is like a line drawn in the water; it quickly vanishes (WQ). |
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| The Buddha weeks after enlightenment sought out and found the Five Ascetics to teach. |
| Buddhas point the way (dreamtime). |
- cold,
- heat,
- hunger,
- thirst,
- [the need for] defecation,
- urination.
"Meditators, at present one speaking rightly might say, 'Next to nothing is the life of human beings -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one who is born here is not free of death.'
"At present, meditators, one who lives a long time is 100 years old or a little older. Living 100 years, one lives for 300 seasons: 100 seasons of cold, 100 seasons of heat, 100 seasons of rain.
"Living for 300 seasons, one lives for 1,200 months: 400 months of cold, 400 months of heat, 400 months of rain. Living for 1,200 months, one lives for 2,400 fortnights [two week periods between new and full moon phases]: 800 fortnights of cold, 800 fortnights of heat, 800 fortnights of rain.
"Living for 2,400 fortnights, one lives for 36,000 days: 12,000 days of cold, 12,000 days of heat, 12,000 days of rain.
"Living for 36,000 days, one eats 72,000 meals: 24,000 meals in the cold, 24,000 meals in the heat, 24,000 meals in the rain -- counting the taking of mother's milk and these obstacles to eating:
"When one doesn't eat due to anger, when one doesn't eat due to suffering or pain, when one doesn't eat due to being sick, when one doesn't eat due to lunar observance days (uposatha fasting days of Buddhist Eight Precept observance), when one doesn't eat due to being poor.
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| Basic meditation (Ajahn Brahm/bswa.org) |
- [The actual reckoning is implied in the lifespan.]
"Over there are the roots of trees [to sit under]; over there, empty dwellings [to take up secluded residence guarding the senses]. Practice meditative absorption (jhana), meditators. Be heedful so that there is no regret later. This is the message to you."
Monday, July 16, 2012
The Seven Bonds of Sexuality (sutra)
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| What does Buddhist philosophy say about sexuality? (Suite101.com) |
“Does the Blessed One profess to be a celibate practitioner (brahmachari)?”
“Brahmin,” the Buddha replied, “if rightly speaking one were to say of anyone, ‘He lives the perfect and pure supreme (brahmachari) life, unbroken, untorn, undiluted, spotless,’ he would rightly be speaking of me. For, Brahmin, I live the perfect and pure supreme life, unbroken, untorn, undiluted, spotless.”
“But, Master Gautama, what is the break, the tear, the dilution, the blotch of the supreme life?”
7 Faults of the False Brahmachari
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| Prince Siddhartha prior to his spiritual quest |
“This, Brahmin, is called one who leads the impure supreme life, who is devoted to indulging in coupling. He is not freed from birth, decay-and-death, sorrow, lamentation, physical pain, mental pain: He is not freed from disappointment, I say!
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| Kinnari, beautiful (bird) people (Crorlz/Flickr) |
4. “Furthermore, Brahmin, a certain ascetic or Brahmin, declares himself to be a real brahmachari.... But he listens to the sounds of women through a wall or through a fence as they laugh, talk, sing, or weep. He relishes it, longs for it, and savors it.... He is not freed from disappointment, I say!
5. “Furthermore, Brahmin, a certain ascetic or Brahmin, declares himself to be a real brahmachari.... But he recollects his former laughing and chatting and playing with women. He relishes it, longs for it, and savors it.... He is not freed from disappointment, I say!
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| Mara tries to tempt an enlightened nun |
7. “Furthermore, Brahmin, a certain ascetic or Brahmin, declares himself to be a real brahmachari. For he does not indulge in coupling with women. Nor does he consent to being rubbed, massaged, bathed, or kneaded by women. Nor does he joke, play, or jest with women. Nor does he gaze or look eye to eye at women. Nor does he listen to the sounds of women through a wall or through a fence as they laugh, talk, sing, or weep. Nor does he recollect the previous laughing and chatting and playing with women. Nor does he see a householder or a householder’s son being entertained, showered, and serviced with the cords of sense-pleasures.
“This, Brahmin, is called one who leads the impure supreme life, who is devoted to indulging in coupling. He is not freed from birth, decay-and-death, sorrow, lamentation, physical pain, mental pain: He is not freed from disappointment, I say!”
The Buddha has overcome all bonds
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| Ascetic Siddhartha accepts food from a woman |
“But, Brahmin, when I did not notice any of these seven bonds of sexuality unabandoned in me, to that extent, Brahmin, I claimed to be supremely awakened in the peerless full enlightenment in this world with its devas, maras, brahmas, this generation with its recluses and brahmins, its rulers and people.
“And the knowledge and vision arose in me, ‘Unshakable is this liberation of mind/heart. This is my last birth. There is no more rebirth to come.’”
Jāṇussoṇī goes for guidance
“I go to Master Gautama for guidance and to the Dharma and to the community of [accomplished] disciples. May Master Gautama remember us as lay followers who have gone for guidance from this day forward as long as life shall last.”
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Celibacy: Helpful vs. Unhelpful (cartoon)

The high or supreme life (brahmacharya) is one of study, self restraint, and a vehicle to the world of the brahmas, which are neither male nor female and without sex. These heavens were the goal of Brahmins in the Vedic Brahmanism of the Buddha's time.
Sages, mendicants, yogis, ascetics, monks, spiritual seekers, shaman wanderers (shramans), temple priests (brahmins), and magicians all found it useful to turn away from sensual indulgences. Even food became a healthy necessity taken in moderation (often combined with complete fasts).
This left a surplus of life-energy (spiritus, prana, or chi) that could be dedicated to spiritual exertions -- cultivating an open, unbiased heart, a serene and luminous mind, a receptive attention span, unswerving dedication to knowing and seeing, enlightenment, liberation, or various meditation objects to cultivate such useful qualities as:
- mindfulness
- loving-kindness
- concentration (samadhi)
- serenity
- absorption
- supersensual bliss
- purification
- intensified or higher mind
To do otherwise makes celibacy a farce, a front, a hypocritical veil. What benefit is there to deny the body while obsessing and indulging the mouth and mind and waiting for an opportunity to act on it?
Friday, November 5, 2010
When the Buddha was Bad (in College)


He explained and begged forgiveness for his dreadful intentions, but the king offered him the entire kingdom saying he would serve as viceroy. Instead, he chose to renounce his half wanting instead to become an ascetic to uproot lust and greed of all kinds. The Bodhisatta remained in the world as king. Ananda-to-be went to the Himalayas to meditate (Jataka 421).
Later they were both reborn as neighboring kings. But the Bodhisatta, as king of Benares, was too kind. When Ananda-to-be tried to conquer him, the Bodhisatta gave up his kingdom without a fight and was imprisoned. There he practiced loving-kindness meditation towards his conqueror who was overcome with guilt and a fever until he wanted nothing of his spoils. He returned Benares and swore to be a faithful ally. Seeing the danger in ruling, which could be the cause of many being harmed and killed in war, the Bodhisatta renounced his kingdom and became an ascetic and as a result was reborn in the Brahma world heaven, whereas Ananda-to-be remained in the world as king. Source: Great Disciples of the Buddha



























