Showing posts with label brahmacharya. Show all posts
Showing posts with label brahmacharya. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 1, 2026

Swami on overcoming the sex itch


(Western Hare Krishna/Hindu monk Bhatki Vikasa Swami) Overcoming the Sex Itch | SB 7.9.45

Hindu: Why sex means suffering (ISKCON)


Why Sex Means Suffering
Lord Krishna loves Radha, gopis
भक्ति विकास स्वामी - Bhakti Vikasa Swami(भक्ति विकास स्वामी - Bhakti Vikasa Swami) Oct. 21, 2025: #misery #sex #bvks #sex #misery. Recorded on October 1, 2025, in Vellore, Tamil Nadu, India. Practice brahmacharya (spiritual "celibacy") for Ayurveda, avoiding sinfulness (pāpa). For thousands of ISKCON (Int'l Society of Krishna Consciousness) talks on the Bhagavad-gita, Srimad Bhagavatam, Caitanya-caritamrta, and Bhajans, please see cross platform apps:
Brahmacari (celibacy over chastity for students of the Dharma)

Lovers Radha and Krishna
Krishna's consorts: Radha, Rukmini, Satyabhama, Jambavati, and five other chief queens, plus 16,000 to 16,100 junior queens [8] [Note 2].

On the one hand, Radha is seen as Krishna's lover-consort (although in some beliefs Radha is considered to be Krishna's married consort).

On the other hand, Rukmini and Krishna's many other consorts are already said to be married to him.

Polygynist Lord Krishna had eight chief wives, known as ashtabharyas. Regional texts vary in the identity of Krishna's wives (consorts), some presenting them as Rukmini, some as Radha, all gopis ("milkmaids"), and some identifying all as different aspects or manifestations of the goddess Lakshmi [8, 9].

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Friday, March 24, 2023

Native Buddhist Vegan: Sunday Service (3/26)

CompassionConsortium.org, March 2023; Eds., Wisdom Quarterly

Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz
Join Compassion Consortium for its next monthly Sunday Service on the fourth Sunday of every month (3/26, 4/23, 5/21...) at 1:00 pm Pacific Time (4:00 pm ET).
  • NOTE: May's date is moved to 3rd Sunday due to Memorial Day weekend
On March 26, 2023, at 4:00 pm ET, the Compassion Consortium presents its special spiritual guest Dharmacharya Seven, a Vegan indigenous Buddhist Dharma Teacher (Dharma-acharya) from Los Angeles.

Native American Buddhist?
Seven spent a semester abroad at Oxford before transferring to UC Berkeley, where he did a pre-doctoral internship at Yale University in psychology then became a doctoral student at UCLA, graduating early to travel to India and Southeast Asia to put Buddhist scholarship and yoga into serious practice.

Seven has been a Dharma editor for Wisdom Quarterly: American Buddhist Journal for a dozen years, which emphasizes insight meditation (vipassana) and serenity practices (shamatha or samadhi, the meditative absorptions defined as the first four jhanas).

Vegan spirituality is the way of compassion, living in harmony with our environment.


​The Compassion in Action segment on March 26the will feature the short film Anima: Animals, Faith. Compassion produced by The Guibord Center. More
An Inglorious Columbus (Edward P. Vining)
How the Swans...Buddhism in America (Rick Fields)

Wednesday, June 29, 2022

Yogi Gurudev on SEX (video)

Balance -- not strength, stamina, or flexibility -- is by far the toughest thing in yoga.

Why should we conserve our sexual energy? | Patanjali's Yoga Sutras
(Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, premiered March 26, 2022) Why did ancient yogis, wandering ascetics, monks, and intensive meditators give up sex and take on vows of celibacy and brahmacharya?

Is sex detrimental to spiritual growth? Are there any special powers that get unlocked by abstaining from sex? The no-fap (abstaining from masturbation) movement has become big in recent times even among non-spiritual people.

But if the urge for sex should come, what to do? Breathe (pranayama).

Humans (along with eating) have been having sex since always. So what is the basis for humans trying to move to a practice of semen or essence retention?

Is sex a problem, or is an obsession with it unhealthy? Does it make us weak, stressed, angry, frustrated, anxious, or sad whatever immediate pleasure it gives (which if it did not we would not do it)?

Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, in this commentary on Patanjali's Yoga Sutras, shares some incredible knowledge on sexual energy (shakti) and how conserving it could unlock doors to limitless happiness and aid us in our path to enlightenment.
  • 0:00 - Is obsession of sex healthy?
  • 1:26 - The concept of kama-agni or "fire of passion"
  • 3:43 - The role of celibacy for growth
  • 5:32 - How is brahmacharya or renunciation different from celibacy?
  • 7:07 - What is the importance of brahmacharya for spiritual growth?
  • 8:19 - Is sanyasa or monasticism a prerequisite for enlightenment?
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Sunday, June 24, 2018

Enlightenment by noble friendship (sutra)

Dhr. Seven (ed.) Upaddha Sutra (SN 45.2), "Half (of the Purified Life) Discourse," based on corrected trans. of Ven. Thanissaro (accesstoinsight.org), Crystal Quintero, Wisdom Quarterly


Getting to hear the Dharma is the start.
Thus have I heard. On one occasion the Blessed One was living among [his family clan] the Shakyians [Scythians and Indo-Scythians, see ranajitpal.com for this revelation].

"Now there is a Shakyian town called Sakkara. There Ven. Ananda went to go see the Blessed One and, arriving, bowed respectfully, sat to one side of the Blessed One, and exclaimed:

"This is half of the purified life,* venerable sir: noble friendship, noble association, noble companionship!**"
  • [*The way leading to the supreme, namely, to nirvana. **As AN 8.54 points out, this means more than associating with noble ones, for it includes LEARNING (hearing the Dharma) from them and emulating the noble qualities they evince.]
Ananda reflected and figured it out.
"Do not say so, Ananda, do not say so! Noble  friendship, noble association, noble companionship is the WHOLE of the purified life.

"When a meditator has noble friends, noble associates, noble companions, such a person person can be expected to [hear the Dharma and] practice and develop the Noble Eightfold Path [leading to enlightenment and nirvana].
 
"How does a meditator with noble friends, associates, and companions [get to hear] pursue and develop the Noble Eightfold Path?

"In one case a meditator develops right view dependent on withdrawal [seclusion from unwholesome, defiled states], dependent on dispassion, dependent on cessation, resulting in letting go (relinquishment).

"One develops right intention... right speech... right action... right livelihood... right effort... right mindfulness... right concentration dependent on withdrawal, dependent on dispassion, dependent on cessation, resulting in letting go.

"This is how a meditator with noble friends, associates, and companions develops and pursues the Noble Eightfold Path.
 
"Through this line of reasoning, one may know how noble friendship, noble association, noble companionship is actually the whole of the purified life:

The Buddha as our best noble friend
I've done a lot of bad things, sir! - Listen.
"It is depending on [the Buddha] as [the ultimate] noble friend that
  • beings who are subject to rebirth gain release from rebirth
  • beings who are subject to aging gain release from aging [and sickness]
  • beings who are subject to death gain release from death
  • beings who are subject to sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, and despair gain release from sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, and despair.
"It is through this line of reason that one may directly realize how noble friendship, noble association, and noble companionship is in fact the whole of the purified life." 

Wednesday, October 11, 2017

What makes one an outcast? (sutra)

Lankarama Buddhist Temple, La Puente; Amber Larson, Dhr. Seven (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly


Vasala Sutra: Discourse on Outcasts
Thus have I heard: On one occasion the Blessed One was living near Savatthi at Jetavana in Anathapindika's monastery.

Then in the forenoon the Blessed One [the Buddha] having dressed himself, took bowl and (double) robe, and entered the city of Savatthi for alms. Now at that time a fire was burning, and an offering was being prepared in the house of the Brahmin Aggika Bharadvaja. Then the Blessed One, while on alms round, came to the Brahmin's residence. 
 
"Stay there, you outcast!" said the Brahmin.
The Brahmin, seeing the Blessed One at a distance, yelled: "Stay there, shaveling! Stay there, you wretched wandering ascetic. Stay there, you outcast!"

When the Brahmin spoke in this way, the Blessed One said to him: "Do you know, Brahmin, what an outcast is and what conditions (actions, attributes) make one an 'outcast'?"

"No, indeed, Venerable Gautama, I do not know who an outcast is nor the conditions that make one an outcast. It would be good if Venerable Gotama were to explain the Dharma to me so that I might know who an outcast is and what the conditions are that make one an outcast."
 
"Listen then, Brahmin, pay attention, and I will explain."
 
"Yes, venerable sir," replied the Brahmin.
  
What karma makes a person an "outcast"?

1. "Whoever is angry, harbors hatred, and is reluctant to speak well of others (discounting the good of others), twisted in views, deceitful -- know that person as an outcast.
 
2. "Whoever in this world kills living beings, once-born or twice-born, in whom there is no sympathy for living creature -- know that person as an outcast.
 
3. "Whoever destroys and besieges villages and hamlets and becomes notorious as an oppressor -- know that person as an outcast.
 
4. "Be it in village or forest, whoever steals what belongs to others, what is not given -- know that person as an outcast.
 
5. "Whoever having actually incurred a debt runs away when pressed to pay, saying, 'I owe no debt to you' -- know that person as an outcast.
 
6. "Whoever coveting anything, kills a person going along the road, and grabs whatever that person has -- know that person as an outcast.
 
7. "One who for one's own sake, or for the sake of others, or for the sake of wealth utters lies (perjury) when questioned as a witness -- know that person as an outcast.
 
8. "Whoever by force or with consent associates [has sex] with the spouses of relatives or friends -- know that as an outcast.
 
9. "Whoever being able does not support mother and father who have grown old -- know that person as an outcast.
 
10. "Whoever strikes and annoys by (harsh) speech mother, father, brother, sister, mother-in-law, or father-in-law -- know that person as an outcast.
 
11. "Whoever when questioned about what is good, says what is detrimental, and talks in an evasive manner -- know that person as an outcast.
 
12. "Whoever having committed a harmful deed wishes that it may not be known by others and so commits it in secret -- know that person as an outcast.
 
13. "Whoever, having gone to another's house and partaken of choice food, does not honor that host by offering food when repaying the visit -- know that person as an outcast.
 
14. "Whoever deceives by uttering lies a Brahmin (priest) or  wandering ascetic, or any other mendicant -- know that person as an outcast.
 
15. "Whoever when a Brahmin or wandering ascetic appears during mealtime angers that (holy) person by harsh speech and does not offer a mendicant (any alms) -- know that person as an outcast.
16. "Whoever in this world, shrouded in ignorance, speaks harsh words (asatam) or falsehood expecting to gain something -- know that person as an outcast.
 
17. "Whoever debased by pride exalts oneself and belittles other -- know that person as an outcast.
 
18. "Whoever is given to anger, is miserly, has base desires, and is selfish, deceitful, shameless and fearless (about doing harm) -- know that person as an outcast.
 
19. "Whoever reviles the Enlightened One (the Buddha), or a (noble) disciple of the Buddha, whether a recluse or householder -- know that as an outcast.
 
20. "Whoever not being an arhat, a fully enlightened person, pretends to be one is (the worst) thief in the universe -- such a person is the lowest of outcasts.
 
21. "Not by birth is one an outcast; not by birth is one a Brahmin. By deed (karma, actions) one becomes an outcast; by deed one becomes a Brahmin.
 
22. "Know by the example I now cite (the fact that by birth alone one is not an outcast). There was an outcast's son, Sopaka, who became known as Matanga.
 
23. "This Matanga attained the highest fame so difficult to gain. Many were the warriors (kshatriya caste) and Brahmin (caste) who went to attend on him.
 
24. "Mounting the celestial chariot (the Noble Eightfold path, and coursing) along the passion-free high road (Sopaka, now a monk), reached the Brahma realm having given up sense desires.
  • [MEANING: By spiritually-motivated sexual abstinence/celibacy (brahmacharya="vehicle or way to Brahma") poor Sopaka, who was considered an outcast, reached the heavenly Realm of Brahma (considered the God Supreme by Brahmins) by his karma/conduct of having relinquished sensual craving that leads to rebirth in lower-heavenly, human, animal, and subhuman worlds within the "Sensual Sphere" or Kama Loka. And and by so doing Sopaka was reborn as Matanga, so famous (holy) he went from "untouchable" to someone attended on by members of the two highest castes, warriors and priests.]
25. "His (lowly) birth did not prevent him from being reborn in the Brahma realm. [On the other hand,] there are Brahmins born in the family of preceptors, kinsmen of (Vedic) hymns.
 
26. "They are often seen committing harmful deeds (bad karma). In this life itself they are despised, in the next they are reborn in an unwished for state of existence. High birth does not prevent them from falling into a miserable state or from censure (here and now).
 
27. "Not by birth is one an outcast; not by birth is one a Brahmin. By deed one becomes an outcast; by deed one becomes a Brahmin."
 
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When the Buddha finished speaking, the Brahmin Aggika Bharadvaja said to the Blessed One: 

"Excellent, O Venerable Gautama, excellent! O, Venerable Gautama, it is just as if a person were to set upright what had been overturned, or were to reveal what had been hidden, or were to point the way to one who had gone astray, or were to hold a lamp in the dark so that those with eyes might see things!

"Even so in many ways has the Venerable Gautama expounded the Dharma. I go for guidance to the Venerable Gautama, the Dharma (the Teaching that leads to enlightenment), and the Sangha (the noble community of practitioners who have for themselves verified this Teaching).

"May the Venerable Gautama accept me as a lay follower who has gone for guidance from this day onwards as long as life lasts." More

Sādhu Sādhu Sādhu! ("It is good, it is good, it is good!" -- an exclamation of praise or agreement common in Theravada Buddhist countries).

Tuesday, June 21, 2016

What is human life? (Buddhist sutra)

Ashley Wells, Amber Larson, Dhr. Seven (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly based on translation by Ven. Thanissaro/Geoffrey DeGraff (Wat Metta) of the Arakenanusasani Sutra (AN 7.70)
The largest Buddha statue in Thailand, Wat Muang (KrunjaPhotography/flickr.com)
 
The Buddha taught: "Meditators, once there was a teacher named Araka, an [ancient Brahmin] teacher who was free of passion for sensual pleasures.
 
"He had many hundreds of students and he taught them dharma in this way:

"'The life of a human being, Brahmins, is next to nothing -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one born here is not free of death.
 
"'Just as a dewdrop on the tip of a blade of grass quickly vanishes with the rising of the sun and lasts but a brief time, in the same way, Brahmins, human life is like a dewdrop -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one born here is not free of death.
 
"'Just as when the rain-gods (weather modifying devas) send rain in fat drops, and a bubble on the water quickly vanishes and lasts but a brief time, in the same way, Brahmins, human life is like a water bubble -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one born here is not free of death.

Even Araka knew: Human life is like a line drawn in the water; it quickly vanishes (WQ).
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"'Just as a line drawn on water with a stick quickly vanishes and lasts but a brief time, in the same way, Brahmins, human life is like a line drawn on water with a stick -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one who is born here has no freedom from death.
 
"'Just as a river flows down from the mountains, goes far, its current swift, carrying everything with it, so that there is not a moment, not an a second, not an instant when it stands still, but instead it goes and rushes and flows, in the same way, Brahmins, human life is like a river flowing down from the mountains -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one born here is not free of death.

The Buddha weeks after enlightenment sought out and found the Five Ascetics to teach.
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"'Just as a strong man forming a drop of spit on his tongue would spit it out with little effort, in the same way, Brahmins, human life is like a drop of spit -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one born here is not free of death.

"'Just as a sliver of meat thrown onto a red hot iron pan heated all day quickly shrivels and vanishes and lasts but a brief time, in the same way, Brahmins, human life is like a sliver of meat -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one born here is not free of death.

"'Just as a cow being led to slaughter with every footstep comes closer to slaughter, closer to death, in the same way, Brahmins, human life is like a cow being led to slaughter -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one born here is not free of death.'

Buddhas point the way (dreamtime).
[The Buddha continued:] "Now at that time, meditators, the human life span was 60,000 years and girls were marriageable at 500 [symbolic not literal number]. And at that time there were [only] six afflictions:
  1. cold,
  2. heat,
  3. hunger,
  4. thirst,
  5. [the need for] defecation,
  6. urination.
"But although people were so long-lived, long-lasting, with so few afflictions, that teacher Araka taught dharma to his disciples in this way:
 
"'The life of a human being, Brahmins, is next to nothing -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one born here is not free of death.'

"Meditators, at present one speaking rightly might say, 'Next to nothing is the life of human beings -- limited, trifling, full of disappointments and despair. One should touch this [truth] like a sage, do what is skillful, follow the high life. For one who is born here is not free of death.'

"At present, meditators, one who lives a long time is 100 years old or a little older. Living 100 years, one lives for 300 seasons: 100 seasons of cold, 100 seasons of heat, 100 seasons of rain.

"Living for 300 seasons, one lives for 1,200 months: 400 months of cold, 400 months of heat, 400 months of rain. Living for 1,200 months, one lives for 2,400 fortnights [two week periods between new and full moon phases]: 800 fortnights of cold, 800 fortnights of heat, 800 fortnights of rain.

"Living for 2,400 fortnights, one lives for 36,000 days: 12,000 days of cold, 12,000 days of heat, 12,000 days of rain.

"Living for 36,000 days, one eats 72,000 meals: 24,000 meals in the cold, 24,000 meals in the heat, 24,000 meals in the rain -- counting the taking of mother's milk and these obstacles to eating:

"When one doesn't eat due to anger, when one doesn't eat due to suffering or pain, when one doesn't eat due to being sick, when one doesn't eat due to lunar observance days (uposatha fasting days of Buddhist Eight Precept observance), when one doesn't eat due to being poor.
 
Basic meditation (Ajahn Brahm/bswa.org)
"Thus, meditators, I have reckoned the life of a person living for 100 years: I have reckoned the lifespan, reckoned the seasons, reckoned the years...
  • [The actual reckoning is implied in the lifespan.]
"reckoned the months, reckoned the fortnights, reckoned the nights, reckoned the days, reckoned the meals, reckoned the obstacles to eating. Whatever a teacher should do -- seeking for the welfare of students (disciples), out of sympathetic-compassion for them -- that have I done for you.

"Over there are the roots of trees [to sit under]; over there, empty dwellings [to take up secluded residence guarding the senses]. Practice meditative absorption (jhana), meditators. Be heedful so that there is no regret later. This is the message to you."

Monday, July 16, 2012

The Seven Bonds of Sexuality (sutra)

Dhr. Seven, Wisdom Quarterly translation (Methuna Sutra, AN 7.47)
What does Buddhist philosophy say about sexuality? (Suite101.com)
   
WARNING: These "bonds" are applicable only to monastics and intensive practitioners (such as those on retreat) adopting Eight Precepts, which goes beyond the ordinary Five Precepts.
 
SAVATTHI, ancient India - The Brahmin Jāṇussoṇī approached the Buddha and exchanged greetings with him. When this courteous exchange was concluded, Jāṇussoṇī sat down respectfully at one side and said:
   
“Does the Blessed One profess to be a celibate practitioner (brahmachari)?”
  
“Brahmin,” the Buddha replied, “if rightly speaking one were to say of anyone, ‘He lives the perfect and pure supreme (brahmachari) life, unbroken, untorn, undiluted, spotless,’ he would rightly be speaking of me. For, Brahmin, I live the perfect and pure supreme life, unbroken, untorn, undiluted, spotless.”
  
“But, Master Gautama, what is the break, the tear, the dilution, the blotch of the supreme life?”
 
7 Faults of the False Brahmachari 
Prince Siddhartha prior to his spiritual quest
1. “Herein [within this Dharma], Brahmin, a certain ascetic or Brahmin, declares that he is a real brahmachari. For he does not indulge in sexual intercourse (coupling) with women. But he consents to being rubbed, massaged, bathed, and kneaded by women. He relishes it, longs for it, and savors it. This, Brahmin, is a break, tear, dilution, and a blotch of the supreme life.
  
“This, Brahmin, is called one who leads the impure supreme life, who is devoted to indulging in coupling. He is not freed from birth, decay-and-death, sorrow, lamentation, physical pain, mental pain: He is not freed from disappointment, I say!

2. “Furthermore, Brahmin, a certain ascetic or Brahmin, declares himself to be a total brahmachari. Nor does he indulge in coupling with women. Nor does he consent to being rubbed, massaged, bathed, or kneaded by women. But he jokes with women, plays with them, jests with them. He relishes it, longs for it, and savors it.
   
“This, Brahmin, is a break, tear, dilution, and a blotch of the supreme life. This, Brahmin, is called one who leads the impure supreme life, who is devoted to indulging in coupling. He is not freed from birth, decay-and-death, sorrow, lamentation, physical pain, mental pain: He is not freed from disappointment, I say!
   
Kinnari, beautiful (bird) people (Crorlz/Flickr)
3. “Furthermore, Brahmin, a certain ascetic or Brahmin, declares himself to be a real brahmachari. For he does not indulge in coupling with women. Nor does he consent to being rubbed, massaged, bathed, or kneaded by women. Nor does he joke, play, or jest with women. But he gazes and looks eye to eye at women. He relishes it, longs for it, and savors it.... He is not freed from disappointment, I say!
 
4. “Furthermore, Brahmin, a certain ascetic or Brahmin, declares himself to be a real brahmachari.... But he listens to the sounds of women through a wall or through a fence as they laugh, talk, sing, or weep. He relishes it, longs for it, and savors it.... He is not freed from disappointment, I say!
 
5. “Furthermore, Brahmin, a certain ascetic or Brahmin, declares himself to be a real brahmachari.... But he recollects his former laughing and chatting and playing with women. He relishes it, longs for it, and savors it.... He is not freed from disappointment, I say! 
  
Mara tries to tempt an enlightened nun
6. “Furthermore, Brahmin, a certain ascetic or Brahmin, declares himself to be a real brahmachari.... But he sees a householder or a householder’s son being entertained, showered, and serviced with the cords of sense-pleasures.... He relishes it, longs for it, and savors it.... He is not freed from disappointment, I say!
 
7. “Furthermore, Brahmin, a certain ascetic or Brahmin, declares himself to be a real brahmachari. For he does not indulge in coupling with women. Nor does he consent to being rubbed, massaged, bathed, or kneaded by women. Nor does he joke, play, or jest with women. Nor does he gaze or look eye to eye at women. Nor does he listen to the sounds of women through a wall or through a fence as they laugh, talk, sing, or weep. Nor does he recollect the previous laughing and chatting and playing with women. Nor does he see a householder or a householder’s son being entertained, showered, and serviced with the cords of sense-pleasures. 
 
“But he lives the supreme life aspiring for rebirth among one of the groups of devas (shining ones) thinking, ‘By this observance or vow or austerity or supreme life, I shall become a deva or one [reborn] among them.’ He relishes it, longs for it, and savors it. This, Brahmin, is a break, tear, dilution, and a blotch of the supreme life.
 
“This, Brahmin, is called one who leads the impure supreme life, who is devoted to indulging in coupling. He is not freed from birth, decay-and-death, sorrow, lamentation, physical pain, mental pain: He is not freed from disappointment, I say!”
 
The Buddha has overcome all bonds
Ascetic Siddhartha accepts food from a woman
“And as long as I noticed that one or more of these seven bonds of sexuality were as yet unabandoned by me, to that extent, Brahmin, I did not claim to be supremely awakened in the peerless full enlightenment in this world with its devas, maras, brahmas, this generation with its recluses and Brahmins, its rulers, and people.
 
“But, Brahmin, when I did not notice any of these seven bonds of sexuality unabandoned in me, to that extent, Brahmin, I claimed to be supremely awakened in the peerless full enlightenment in this world with its devas, maras, brahmas, this generation with its recluses and brahmins, its rulers and people.

“And the knowledge and vision arose in me, ‘Unshakable is this liberation of mind/heart. This is my last birth. There is no more rebirth to come.’”
   
Jāṇussoṇī goes for guidance
When this was spoken, the Brahmin Jāṇussoṇī said this to the Buddha: “Excellent, Master Gautama! Excellent! Master Gautama! It is just as if one were to set upright what had been overturned, or were to reveal what was hidden, or were to show the way to one who was lost, or were to hold up a lamp in the dark so that those with eyes could discern forms. In just the same way, by numerous examples, has the Dharma been made clear by Master Gautama.
  
“I go to Master Gautama for guidance and to the Dharma and to the community of [accomplished] disciples. May Master Gautama remember us as lay followers who have gone for guidance from this day forward as long as life shall last.”

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Celibacy: Helpful vs. Unhelpful (cartoon)

Wisdom Quarterly (SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS COMMITTEE)


The high or supreme life (brahmacharya) is one of study, self restraint, and a vehicle to the world of the brahmas, which are neither male nor female and without sex. These heavens were the goal of Brahmins in the Vedic Brahmanism of the Buddha's time.

Sages, mendicants, yogis, ascetics, monks, spiritual seekers, shaman wanderers (shramans), temple priests (brahmins), and magicians all found it useful to turn away from sensual indulgences. Even food became a healthy necessity taken in moderation (often combined with complete fasts).

This left a surplus of life-energy (spiritus, prana, or chi) that could be dedicated to spiritual exertions -- cultivating an open, unbiased heart, a serene and luminous mind, a receptive attention span, unswerving dedication to knowing and seeing, enlightenment, liberation, or various meditation objects to cultivate such useful qualities as:
  • mindfulness
  • loving-kindness
  • concentration (samadhi)
  • serenity
  • absorption
  • supersensual bliss
  • purification
  • intensified or higher mind
With all the benefits that come of withdrawing and secluding oneself from sensual pursuits, there are few benefits to guilt, shame [unless it guards against karmically unprofitable actions], or hypocrisy. When one eats, one should enjoy it mindfully. When and if one has sex, one should enjoy it. Since there is value to restraint, when one is practicing restraint, one should enjoy it, reflecting on the benefits.

To do otherwise makes celibacy a farce, a front, a hypocritical veil. What benefit is there to deny the body while obsessing and indulging the mouth and mind and waiting for an opportunity to act on it?

Friday, November 5, 2010

When the Buddha was Bad (in College)

Seven Dharmachari (Wisdom Quarterly)

The Bodhisatta endured many rebirths on the way to sambodhi* (buddhasdharma blog)

Before gaining supreme enlightenment the Buddha did a few things he wished he hadn't. Prior to becoming a buddha (a supremely enlightened being) the Buddha is referred to as the Bodhisatta. A buddha is always good. It is one of the nine characteristics of those who have reached the pinnacle of compassion, virtue, and wisdom. Because having perfected the Ten Paramis, one is able to rediscover and effectively teach the timeless Dharma to beings swept away by the flood of Samsara and suffering.

But before one reaches buddhahood, one spends an almost incalculable amount of time to get to perfect-enlightenment (sambodhi). That's when the Buddha was bad. During those aeons as a bodhisatta (Sanskrit, bodhisattva) striving to develop the Ten Perfections, mistakes were made.

Many rebirth stories (such as Jataka Tales 498, 421, and 282 recounted here) abound with the Buddha-to-be's goodness, kindness, and developing virtue. The Bodhisatta generated a tremendous amount of good karma. He was even a Buddhist monk on a few occasions (in the dispensations of former buddhas in the very distant past).

Far rarer, but perhaps more instructive, are the few cases when the Bodhisatta -- who would eventually become Siddhartha, the historical Shakyamuni* -- was bad. After all, a buddha is a human being, not a divinity (brahma) or radiant being (deva) claiming moral perfection at birth.

Going to College with Ananda-to-be

Archeological remains of the Buddha and Ananda's alma mater: UT (Taxila College)

On account of unwholesome, unskillful actions (i.e., bad karma), one experiences unpleasant and unfortunate circumstances, such as rebirth in states of deprivation. Even if the results of skillful actions intervene and one avoids those destinations and instead is reborn in a fortunate destination, like the human world, one may nevertheless meet with the results of unskillful actions here. This happened on numerous occasions to the future Buddha and Ananda.*

The Bodhisatta and Ananda-to-be (his cousin in a previous life) were once born as outcasts due to some bad karma ripening in this fortunate world. Their job was fumigating fetid smelling places. In order to escape the contempt and discrimination they experienced, they decided to disguise themselves as brahmins and go to college.

They entered the great university at Takkasila (Taxila in Gandhara, India, the first university in known history). Alas, their deception was discovered. They were beaten up by very privileged and conceited students (the equivalent of "Frat boys" in the Indo-Greek system). A kind and wise professor ordered the students to stop and suggested the outcasts become ascetics, one of the few upwardly mobile positions in ancient India, which at that time spread far to the west.

They followed this good advice. Yet when they died, as a consequence of their unwholesome karma (the deceit involved in passing themselves off as brahmins and trying to steal a precious higher education), they were reborn in the animal world as deer. Even then they were inseparable and were shot by a hunter with the same arrow. Following that -- since it is very difficult to ever make it out once one has fallen into subhuman planes -- they were reborn as sea hawks, who were again killed together by a hunter (Jataka 498).

Having exhausted whatever unprofitable karma had led to those rebirths, they were reborn once again in the human world. Ananda-to-be was a prince; the Bodhisatta was born the son of a brahmin priest in the royal service.

Reborn as Kings
Ananda-to-be had more power and influence, but the Bodhisatta could remember more of his former lives.* Eventually, the Bodhisatta became an ascetic striving for wisdom and liberation, teaching the happiness of renunciation and the danger of being infatuated with sense pleasures.

Ananda-to-be, who was able to remember his former human life as an outcast, understood. But he was unable to let go of his infatuation with sensuality. He explained that he was like a noble elephant mired in a swamp unable to shake the morass of addiction to sense pleasures that he knew would eventually drag him down.

The ascetic advised him to nevertheless practice virtue, thus storing up merit which is useful in every future endeavor (even unwholesome ones): "Don't overtax the people, support the educated and those who renounce the world [brahmins and recluses]. Instead of giving into passion, look on women as you would your mother or sister. Honor your parents, without whom you would never be king..."

The advice stirred the prince. Both undertook to be ascetics in that life and as a result were reborn as "gods" (brahmas) in the Brahma World, which is attainable only through dispassion.

Gods (Brahmas) is neither male nor female but are beyond sex. The Indian conception of the "holy life" (brahmacariya) not only means "celibacy," it literally means "the way to [rebirth in the] brahma[-world]."

After living aeons as powerful divinities in exalted heavens, with the exhausting of that skillful karma, they were again reborn in the human world unaware of their former lives. The Bodhisatta became a poor low-caste laborer, but he resolved to keep the Lunar Observance (Uposatha, the practice of observing additional precepts four times a month) and as a result was reborn as a king. Ananda-to-be was a lowly water-carrier in his kingdom. He had only one coin, which he kept hidden under a rock.

On a festival day his wife encouraged him to celebrate, asking if he had any money. He explained that he had but one coin, hidden 12 miles away. She told him to go get it for she had saved the same amount. He set off in the heat with the expectation of having enough to buy flower garlands, incense, and drinks. He passed the king along the way while singing. The king asked him about it and was moved, offering him a coin so he would not have to travel all that way.

He said he would still travel in order to have two coins. The king gave him two, but still... until the king offered him millions of coins. Yet still Ananda-to-be wanted to fetch his coin. The Bodhisatta offered him a post on top of the money, but since he still wanted his coin, he offered him half his kingdom. They divided it and he was given the name King One Coin.

Such is "evil" (in Buddhism this term refers to latent greed, hatred, and delusion in beings who are not yet enlightened) that the two kings went hunting. Becoming tired, the Bodhisatta placed his head on his friend's lap to nap. King One Coin saw his chance to become king of the entire kingdom. He drew his sword to kill his friend but remembered how he was a poor nothing before being given half. In gratitude, he place his sword back in its sheath. But a second and third time greed overtook him, and he pulled out his sword. Finally, realizing this lust for power would again overtake him, he threw away his weapon. This awoke the king.

He explained and begged forgiveness for his dreadful intentions, but the king offered him the entire kingdom saying he would serve as viceroy. Instead, he chose to renounce his half wanting instead to become an ascetic to uproot lust and greed of all kinds. The Bodhisatta remained in the world as king. Ananda-to-be went to the Himalayas to meditate (Jataka 421).

Later they were both reborn as neighboring kings. But the Bodhisatta, as king of Benares, was too kind. When Ananda-to-be tried to conquer him, the Bodhisatta gave up his kingdom without a fight and was imprisoned. There he practiced loving-kindness meditation towards his conqueror who was overcome with guilt and a fever until he wanted nothing of his spoils. He returned Benares and swore to be a faithful ally. Seeing the danger in ruling, which could be the cause of many being harmed and killed in war, the Bodhisatta renounced his kingdom and became an ascetic and as a result was reborn in the Brahma world heaven, whereas Ananda-to-be remained in the world as king. Source: Great Disciples of the Buddha

*NOTE ON NOT-SELF (anatta, emptiness)
There is a great danger in thinking that the Bodhisatta and the Buddha are one in the same person. They are not. One led to the other -- in a conventional sense -- but is not one and the same person, not a soul, not an identical self traveling through the flood of Samsara. This cannot be emphasized enough. For anyone who insists that it is in some real (ultimate) sense the same person being transmigrating or being "reincarnated," it is necessary to read the entry on anattā in Buddhist Dictionary: Manual of Doctrines and Terms. It is a fundamental teaching of Buddhism that we are not reincarnated but in fact are always "becoming": flowing impermanently and unsatisfactorily as an impersonal process motivated by craving, trapped by ignorance, dependently-arisen, and perishing from moment to moment until such time as nirvana allows for an escape from the suffering of ignorance to the freedom from rebirth of liberation.