"Sexual Anorexia" - guilt, shame, fear, worse

Patrick J Carnes, Joseph M. Moriarity (simonandschuster.com); Eds., Wisdom Quarterly

Compulsive behavior? How to overcome feelings of shame (Scientific American)

Isolation caused by the coronavirus pandemic and our responses to it can add to existing traumas.

This can emerge in all aspects of our lives, including sexuality. If this crisis has revealed or exacerbated fear of intimacy or aversion to sex, this book offers hopeful help for healing.

This is a first-time examination of sexual anorexia (an extreme fear of sexual intimacy and obsessive avoidance of sex) by the acknowledged leader in the treatment of compulsive sexual behavior and recovery.

Author Dr. Patrick Carnes begins by defining sexual anorexia and demonstrating how it and its parallel disorder, sexual addiction and compulsivity, often arise from a background of childhood sexual trauma, neglect, and other forms of abuse.

Dr. Carnes explores the numerous dimensions of sexual health, examining key issues which must be addressed and resolved for recovery to proceed.

Utilizing extensive research and case studies, Dr. Carnes develops concrete tasks and plans for

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  restoring nurturing and sensuality,
• building fulfilling relationships,
• exploring intimacy, and
• creating healthy sexuality.

Woven throughout the book are stories of recovery that illustrate sexual healing principles, model new behavior, and support motivation for change.

Sexual Anorexia enables those suffering from this disorder to recognize that sex need not be a furtive enemy to be fought and defeated but, instead, a deeply sensual, passionate, fulfilling, and spiritual experience that all human beings are innately entitled to. More