Sunday, January 15, 2023

Dr. Gabor Mate: childhood LIE ruining lives

Dr. Gabor Mate, The Diary of a CEO, 11/6/22; Seth Auberon, Sheldon S. (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly

Dr. Gabor Mate, MD: The childhood lie that’s ruining all of our lives | Ep. 193
(The Diary of a CEO) Dr. Gabor Mate is a multi-bestselling author and a leading expert on trauma and how it affects us throughout our lives. A Holocaust survivor and a first-generation immigrant, Dr. Gabor’s knowledge and wisdom on the scars trauma leaves behind is deep and drawn from personal experience.

TOPICS
  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:04 Early context
  • 08:16 How does someone correct their traumatic events?
  • 09:33 How did your traumatic event show shape you?
  • 14:54 What did you focus on in your career?
  • 16:40 What did working with patients towards the end of their life teach you?
  • 20:34 The importance of following our passion
  • 27:13 The Myth of Normal
  • 30:57 How would our approaches change if we took away the concept of normal?
  • 41:06 How parents' behavior can impact a child
  • 44:27 How do you define trauma?
  • 46:57 Does everyone have trauma?
  • 50:51 Why can two people with the same trauma turn out differently?
  • 01:01:44 Being controlled by our trauma
  • 01:04:20 Do we ever cut the putter master strings?
  • 01:05:56 How does someone become more aware?
  • 01:09:18 Additions and how we develop them
  • 01:13:28 How do we find our sense of worth?
  • 01:14:05 Why is authenticity so important
  • 01:18:51 Taking personal responsibility
  • 01:20:09 The 5 Rs to take control of your life
  • 01:26:36 ADHD
  • 01:40:40 Do you think society is getting more toxic?
  • 01:50:27 What are you still struggling with?
  • 01:54:25 The last guest’s question
Dr. Gabor Mate online: Instagram, Twitter, Dr. Mate's book, The Myth of Normal.

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