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Friday, October 9, 2009
Lust? Supermodels Then and Now (photos)

(NBC Miami) What do the world's most beautiful women look like after careers as supermodels? For example, twenty years later Paulina (pictured) is a three season judge on fellow supermodel Tyra Banks' show America's Next Top Model.
CLICK HERE TO SEE MORE:The Buddhist way of dealing with lust in meditation
(MeditationExpert.com) In the Surangama Sutra, twenty-five indivivuals report on how they attained samadhi. Three great bodhisattvas — Kwan Yin, Manjushri, and Samantabhadra — extolled hearing or listening in one form or another as a way to enter into the Tao [stream-entry]. When I asked my own teacher the best method for beings in this world, he also mentioned this entryway, as well as the use of breathing methods using the nose.
However, you can find countless other methods in the Surangama Sutra. One such meditation method was reported by Ucchushma to the Buddha and his assembly when the Buddha asked his great students what cultivation or meditation technique they had used to achieve samadhi. More>>
Is Lust Only Natural?
(Beliefnet.com) Buddhism encourages renouncing sensual pleasures. Sensuous lust is considered one of Buddhism's Five Hindrances. The Buddha taught that lust is a result of [tanha], which must be abandoned to reach enlightenment.
(Newbuddhist.com) FORUM QUESTION: What is the Buddhist view on lust? How do you deal with it?
VIDEO: Lust and Buddhism (3 mins.)
(Empty Gate Zen Center) Short excerpt from regular Wednesday evening talks, 9/23/09.
Friday, September 5, 2008
Sex Addiction: David Duchovny is not alone
More becoming addicted to “quick click” self-gratificationSex Rx with Ian Kerner, Ph.D.
Sex therapist and relationship counselor
TODAYShow.com contributor
Sept. 4, 2008
For years David Duchovny, as agent Fox Mulder, chased down aliens and told us that we’re not alone. Now he's a sex addict who struggles with the issue in real life. He’s not alone either.
His recent entry into rehab for a self-described obsession with Internet porn has cast a national spotlight on a widely misunderstood issue that affects millions of Americans: sex addiction, specifically compulsive use of Internet-based pornography.
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Once viewed as rare and obscure, the rapid proli-feration of Internet porn has brought the issue very much into the mainstream, affecting men and women alike. Porn addiction and sex addiction have become synonymous; a “quick click” of self-gratifica-tion can escalate into a self-destructive pattern of behavior (Christie Brinkley’s former hus-band, Peter Cook, is alleged to have spent more than $3,000 per month on his porn habit). Like any substance of abuse, porn becomes a form of escape — from depression, anger, stress, boredom, intimacy, as well as an array of other issues. Self-gratification becomes a way of self-medicating. More>> Condition Not Limited to Humans
"London Zoo's newest gorilla is addicted to sex"

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The Problem in a Larger Context
What-Buddha-Taught.net
"Recluses, which do you think is more, the stream of tears that you have shed as you roamed and wandered on through this long course, weeping and wailing because of being united with the undesir-able and separated from the desirable–this or the water in the four great oceans? The stream of tears that you have shed as you roamed and wandered on through this long course…this alone is greater than the water in the four great oceans…For such a long time, recluses, you have experienced suffering, anguish, and disaster, and swelled the cemeteries” (Assu Sutra, S.15.3).“There will come a time when the mighty ocean will dry up, vanish and be no more…There will come a time when the mighty earth will be devoured by fire, perish and be no more. But yet there will be no end to the suffering [dukkha = unsatisfactoriness, see Buddhist terms] of beings roaming and wandering this round of rebirth, hindered by ignorance and fettered by craving” (Gaddulabaddha Sutra, S.22.99)
“Through many a birth I wandered in Samsara,
This precious human birth
“Recluses, suppose this great earth were totally covered with water, and one were to toss a ring with a single hole in it. A wind from the east would push it west; a wind from the west would push it east. A wind from the north would push it south; a wind from the south would push it north. And suppose a blind sea-turtle swimming therein would come to the surface once every hundred years.Who knows by tomorrow, one may still be living or dead.
“I teach one thing and one thing alone, namely, suffering and the end of suffering.
“Develop a mind of equilibrium.

