Wisdom Quarterly: American Buddhist Journal: Vesak (Buddhist X-mas) Hollywood (5/25)

Sunday, May 25, 2025

Vesak (Buddhist X-mas) Hollywood (5/25)

What special thing did Siddhartha do under the Bodhi tree that caused his enlightenment?

Documentary: The Buddha, PBS documentary (narrated by Richard Gere) with the Dalai Lama

WHAT HAPPENED?

It was like practicing in a peaceful forest

Practitioners arrived early for a 7:00 am start by taking the Eight or Ten Precepts (a chanting ceremony led by monks). There were more than 50 practicing, with a large support crew of food donors and onlookers, serving us breakfast and preparing lunch delicacies.

Before the first walking meditation session could begin, Mara reminded us that life is samsara: A devotee passed away, and the abbot and assistant abbot had to race off to provide the ceremonial blessings (the transfer of merit ritual), leaving the responsibility of providing an hour-long Dharma talk to Wisdom Quarterly.

That talk covered this basic question. Play along at home. "What is better, what is hard or what is easy?"

Someone yelled, "Hard!" Wrong. Another person yelled, "Easy!" Wrong. It was a trick question. It can neither be said that the hard way is the better way, nor that it's the easy way. It depends. Sometimes what is "the hard way" is actually the easy way in the long run. The Buddha did not hand us a needlessly difficult path. He made it as easy as a normal person could expect.

There's a difference between easy and lazy. We all would like a shortcut, but a lazy person seems to prefer no cut, no effort, nothing to do. That's what sells. Hard work starts looking pretty good by comparison. The Buddha was criticized severely for stealing rich kids from their riches because he would give a talk, and rich, handsome, and prominent young adults would ask to ordain and live a life of wandering asceticism. Parents would berate the Buddha that he was cheating those kids out of their right inheritances because they could have been rich and prominent and lived a life full of pleasure but were now instead doomed to the drudgery of austerities and poverty and deprivations (no children, families, houses, kingdoms).

The Buddha countered that he would never give someone the lesser thing for a greater thing. What he was saving those disciples from were exactly the painful vicissitudes of a household life in exchange for liberation, wisdom, and freedom -- that far more valuable than kids, a spouse, and a household to look after like everyone else. They were, of course, free to disrobe and return to the "lower" life if the "high" life did not suit them. But their karmic merit for having been monastics almost ensured a superior rebirth hereafter. So far from losing, they were gaining even in a worldly sense.

What would you rather, brown rice or mangoes?

Farmers were working in a field in ancient Magadha (proto-India) when the Buddha was set to speak. Brahmins were eager to defeat him in debate. One farmer asked the other what was going on. Why were people taking dana (generous donations) in that direction. The other farmer explained that those people were going to see the great Samana (Wayfarer), whereas they as farmers were poor and had to work planting rice.

The Compassionate Teacher

Just then the Buddha and his retinue came walking in direction of the talk. The farmers were thrilled to see him and donated rice. The Buddha asked what they were doing. They explained they were planting rice, too busy to attend his talk. Strangely, the Buddha asked if they wouldn't prefer mangoes. "Well, of course, we'd prefer mangoes. But we're rice farmers. We plant rice. We get rice. "Still," the Buddha said, "wouldn't you prefer mangoes." "Of course we would," they said, "but we plant rice, we get rice."

"What if after planting the rice, you prayed for mangoes?" the Buddha asked. The farmers thought him daft and no sadhu ("holy man") they needed to worry about missing hearing give a sutra. He obviously knew nothing about farming. "Praying won't change anything if one has planted rice, venerable sir." The Buddha shocked them by saying:

"In exactly the same way, the karma you do gives you the vipaka/phala (karmic resultants and fruit) you get. It won't matter if, sowing bad deeds, you pray for good results. You will get bad results all the same." Suddenly, the farmers thought he was very wise and did know farming after all.

They asked him, "What will you be talking about today, venerable sir?" "The Brahmins will ask me about karma and try to trick me and best me in debate. Not engaging them, I will try to teach them about the efficacy of actions. I only hope they understand me as well as you have." The farmers bowed and made offerings, overjoyed that they had had the chance to hear and see (drishti) the Great Teacher in the flesh.

Then the example of the layperson's problems was given: See 83 Problems: A Buddhist Sutra (parable).

A drunk man was desperately searching for something under a lamp. A sober man passed and asked what was going on. The drunk man said he lost something very valuable. The sober one started looking and asked, "You lost it around here?" pointing to the area. The drunk said, "No, I lost it over there," pointing to the dark. "Then WHY are you searching here?" exclaimed the sober fellow. "The light is better," the drunk explained. In other words, "it's easier." It isn't about what easy, is it? It is about what is fruitful, profitable, easier in the long run. What's easier -- going to college, doing homework, getting good grades, and sticking to it until there's a degree in hand or blowing smoke, living on the couch, and watching lots of TV, then getting a menial job when it's time to eat and consume more blowable smoke?

The answer seems obvious but isn't. The first way is easier. That's why we do it. The second way is going to lead to an impossible life of hardships, privations, and eventual starvation and trouble when, with preparation (keeping one's nose to the grindstone in the early years when it would have been more fun to do otherwise) it could have been avoided. What seems "easy" will become very hard. This is why the Buddha always encouraged strenuous effort to practice the path, but when on the mat, one has to calm down. The Dharma talk made the distinction between samvega (a "sense of urgency" to practice, such as when we experience a great deal of pain or loss, as by the death of a relative or a failure of a relationship), santosha (contentment, a sense of effortless ease), and laziness.

Too much effort and too little effort are faults, whereas contentment in practice is the Middle Way the Buddha advised. Of course, we have to get our behinds to the mat in the first place. That's when a sense of urgency comes in handy. And, of course, we have to be well rested. That's when a little laziness goes a long way. Over-efforting, straining, striving is no way to gain calm, such as that of meditative absorption (jhana), but laziness will surely never get it either. The easy way, in this case, is balance, the middle way that avoids extremes of effort and indolence, just as hedonism and severe asceticism are avoided. It's tempting to think that contentment is easy, but it isn't. Try it. Try to be content. It's quite hard. Throwing everything away, taking vows of poverty and austerity, is even harder -- and it won't help BECAUSE real letting go is not external.

But I want it all!

It's an inside job. It is internal letting go that the Buddha called nekkhamma, the basis of dana ("letting go," generosity, giving, sharing, relinquishing, or what is generally termed "renunciation"). What is the use of being rich if one clings to those riches, worries, is sleepless, is unable to share, comes to events and gives but leaves early to go check on one's stuff? That is no "giving," no "letting go," no ease of mind that enjoys the riches. Now imagine another rich person, who attends events, gives, and doesn't even lock the door when leaving home. "Did you lock your door when you left?" a caring friend asks. "I don't know. I think so, maybe not." "What are you crazy? You'll be robbed!" "Eh, then I'll get some more." Now, that's a rich person, enjoying those riches, doing what should be done to ensure future wealth (sharing), and not losing sleep over it. We can learn from this by practicing letting go even as we have things and our comfortable Western lives.

The Buddha did not say (as Jesus was reputed to have said), "Give up everything and follow me." The Buddha gave advice to householders on how to grow rich and hang on to their riches. This is the Householder's Dhamma found in the Sigala Sutta. Sigala was a young man, and the Buddha advised him that as for money, the best Buddhist practice was to divide into four equal parts and

Pay bills (to cancel out past debts)
Secure new inventory (for future profits)
Save for a rainy day (anticipating unexpected costs)
Spend now for enjoyment.

This is the way to grow rich AND enjoy one's riches here and now. That sutra is FULL of valuable advice on friendship and many other things particularly suited for ordinary householders wishing to live in the world rather than externally renouncing it. Buddhism is not an ascetic tradition for the vast majority of Buddhists. It is so for sincere monastic practitioners, but as most of them seem to have gone the way of temple priests, they more resemble the ancient Brahmins (priestly caste) of the Buddha's day than the samanas (wandering ascetics) the Buddha laid down as the direct path to enlightenment and liberation in this very life. It seems everyone prefers immediate riches.

How long is samsara (the continued wandering on called the Wheel of Death and Rebirth)? It is endlessly long, coming to no natural end. We can get off the carousel, but that takes some hard effort that pays off in endless ease and peace. We foolishly think it's easier to just keep doing what we've been doing and praying for a different result. But our ease is going to cost us. It won't feel easy or wise to have been lazy when effort was called for, and greed is no match for contentment. Contentment is the way to meditative success because balance (the middle way) is the key, avoiding extremes of effort and laziness.

How do I let go to go deep in zen?

"There is no way to happiness..." What, why? "...because happiness is the way." Ease is the way to success in meditation, not gritting one's teeth and straining. It leads to calm, absorption to purification, purification to success in insightful realization (vipassana). Jhana begets wisdom.

Then the chief monks returned, lunch was served, with devotional offerings to the Buddha preceding the rich and varied meal and gift bags for all, chanting blessings. We rested, socialized, did another round of meditation, then Juan, a bright student of Ven. Punnaji (RIP), detailed the Four Noble Truths from Ven. Punnaji's idiosyncratic perspective, altering nearly all the traditional terms. More blessings followed, with a trip outside to pay homage to the Bodhi Tree next to the stupa on the grounds of the vihara. We were all offered blessed wrist threads for protection and "holy" (blessed) water.

Event details

VESAK is Buddhism's "Christmas" as it celebrates the Buddha's birthday, but it much more than that.

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Buddhist Center of North Hollywood

But it's much more than that, as it commemorates when the wandering ascetic Siddhartha became the Buddha (supremely enlightened) and passed into final nirvana, events that all occurred on the full moon day in May (technically on the ancient lunar calendar's month of Vesakha).

It is a massive celebration around the world nowadays. And the party comes to North Hollywood on Sunday, with the tradition lunar observance, free island cuisine, chanting, blessings, devotional activities, and insight/mindfulness meditation known as vipassana.

This is so cool, just wish you were here to be.

This year is special because the Center has asked Wisdom Quarterly to answer questions, lead meditation, and give a Dharma (Dhamma) talk on the attainment of enlightenment in this very life (what Siddhartha did under the Bodhi tree that caused his spiritual awakening) and/or the development of merit for riches, sensual pleasures, and incredible rebirth possibilities as taught by the Buddha.

O, Buddha, what is the true nature of existence?

Theravada Buddhist countries like Sri Lanka off the tip of India celebrate these three amazing events on a single day, sometimes carrying on the holiday season for a week or more.

It is the year's most important all-day lunar observance called the Uposatha ("Sabbath" day). If one were only going to do one, this would be it.

Curries of Ceylon, Serendib, Lanka

This is a time of intensive Buddhist practice of the Eight Precepts, meditation (bhavana), chanting of sutras, protective blessings (parittas), devotion activities (pujas), and lots of Sri Lankan island delicacies.

Wisdom Quarterly's own teacher, Dharma editor, and meditation guide invites ANY QUESTION on life, the universe, and everything (sex, drugs, rock 'n roll, Zen, existence, koan riddles, even imponderables), addressed from the perspective of the historical Buddha. Wear white as was the ancient custom of the Buddha's day.