Monday, September 12, 2022

Science: When I fall in love, I suffer (TED)

Diana Wais, TEDxThessaloniki, June 20, 2014; Ashley Wells (ed.), Wisdom Quarterly

Emotional laws are the answer for better relationships: Diana Wais, Greece
(TEDx Talks) Nuclear physics, astronomy, and molecular biology truly lack complexity when they are juxtaposed to one word: relationships.

I'm not defensive! You are! Leave me alone!
Interpersonal relationships represent probably the most complicated ideas that have troubled the human mind. Whether it's aristocracy, models, professional athletes, or everyday couples, they all face the same difficulty of making their relationships work.

Diana Wais talks about how "we are all the same" and how we respond with criticism when we feel threatened by words. However, it is important to "respond to the other person's need with empathy," she insists.

It is difficult to understand when we are being emotional and irrational. Her most valid point is that, as individuals, we need to conquer the unconscious emotions and understand that essentially, we are all fighting the same internal fight.

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