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Tuesday, October 29, 2024

Actor Teri Garr passes away at 79 (video)


Teri Garr has passed away, after decades of surviving with muscular dystrophy and retiring from the Hollywood limelight. Radio host and spiritual intuitive relative Lisa Garr and family are handling it as Teri passed away in peace surrounded by family.

Young Frankenstein: Put the candle back!
(Andrea YT) Young Frankenstein is a 1974 American comedy horror film directed by Jewish genius Mel Brooks (Blazing Saddles). The screenplay was co-written by Brooks and actor Gene Wilder, who also starred in the leading role as the title character, a descendant of the infamous Dr. Victor Frankenstein (creator of Frankenstein's monster), and Peter Boyle as the monster. The story, which became a novel published in 1818, was originally composed by a very young Mary Shelly, referring to Frankels and Steins (Jews) making a lot of trouble in Europe, England in particular. She was simply engaging in a parlor game with other writers, who all went on to become famous, but she herself is now most recognized for the monster story Frankenstein and the legendary creature she created. It has haunted countless children since then right along with bloodsucker Dracula (and the female version Elvira, Mistress of the Dark, who has troubled countless young boys).

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Teri Garr, Young Frankenstein star, dead at 79
(Entertainment Tonight) Oct. 29, 2024: Teri Garr has died. She was 79. A rep for the actress confirmed, Garr died "surrounded by family and friends" today (Tuesday), following a two-decade battle with multiple sclerosis. She was best-known for her memorable comedic roles in Young Frankenstein and Tootsie, earning an Academy Award nomination for the latter in 1983. In the 1990s, she was tapped as a guest star opposite Lisa Kudrow on the TV sitcom Friends, matching her on-screen daughter's trademark quirkiness as Phoebe Buffay's long-lost mother.

Young Frankenstein Bloopers and Outtakes (Wonder Movies) Oct. 29, 2017. Teri was a beauty and a comedian, actor and a relative of our beloved free speech radio host and intuitive Lisa Garr on KPFK 90.7 FM (The Aware Show), Coast to Coast, and Gaia TV (The Aware Show Presents Lisa Garr):


Wednesday, November 22, 2023

Correcting MYTHS of the first Thanksgiving

Kinsey Crowley, USA Today via MSN; Xochitl, Crystal Quintero (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly
National Day of Mourning, Thanksgiving, 11/25/21, Plymouth, MA (Bryan R. Smith/AFP/Getty)
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It's a myth that the pilgrims invited Native Americans to a feast
I've got my eye on you, Baby. I'm coming for ya
In the fall of 1621, a handful of English Pilgrims and Native Americans feasted together after a misunderstood confrontation in Plymouth, near Boston.

Four hundred years later their American descendants celebrate Thanksgiving as a national holiday, but for the Native Americans of the region it's considered a National Day of Mourning.

Native American Paula Peters remembers learning about the pilgrims' arrival in North America in elementary school, the backstory behind Thanksgiving Day.

Gotcha! I'm taking you home with me.
As the teacher explained how "friendly Indians" came to help settlers arriving on the Mayflower, Peters was excited to hear about her own history in the classroom.

She's a citizen of the Mashpee Wampanoag Tribe who grew up to become an independent scholar of the history of the Wampanoag, who have inhabited present-day Massachusetts and Eastern Rhode Island for more than 12,000 years, according to the tribe.

"As a kid, I'm thinking to myself, 'This is great. She's talking about me, and she's talking about my history,'" Peters told USA Today in an interview this month.

"All the Real Indians Died Off" (Dunbar-Ortiz)
But her wonder was squashed when a classmate asked what happened to those friendly Indians after Thanksgiving. "They all died," the teacher said.

Peters remembers being shocked at the erasure of a long history that preceded the Mayflower and the Wampanoag's continuation into today. 

"That's the way that our history was being taught for the longest time, and still is in some areas of the country," she said.

With the upcoming American holiday, known by many as Thanksgiving but recognized by Native American communities as the National Day of Mourning, Peters and other Indigenous activists and scholars are advocating for the recognition of the Wampanoag's true history.

They say that must be grounded in the fact that they existed far before and long after the pilgrims' first harvest feast.
  • Blueprint survey reveals Americans’ Thanksgiving traditions, who gets into most arguments (KXAN Austin)
"I mean, you can't argue with people coming together and celebrating family, good fortune, and being thankful. That's an important holiday to have," Peters said.

"But it is also a platform that we as Indigenous people have to step on and remind people of the significance of our story and the myths that are perpetuated by the Thanksgiving holiday."
The myth of Thanksgiving
Visitors look over Thanksgiving exhibit at Pilgrim Hall Museum on 11/25/21, Plymouth, Massachusetts. Native American historians have said that there is not much evidence that suggests they ate what is traditionally served at Thanksgiving today (© Bryan R. Smith, AFP via Getty).
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The Plymouth colonists and the Native American Wampanoag people "shared an autumn harvest feast that is acknowledged as one of the first Thanksgiving celebrations in the colonies" in 1621, according to the History Channel.

The History Channel says that the pilgrims invited the Native Americans to the feast, but Peters said that part is a myth. "There wasn't an invitation extended to invite the Wampanoag to come and feast with them," she said.

"It was really quite by accident that there were any shared festivities at all."

The pilgrims were celebrating their first harvest when they fired off muskets repeatedly, a form of entertainment for the settlers. Hearing the blasts, the Wampanoag thought it was a threat. The supreme leader Massasoit Ousamequin assembled a small army of approximately 90 warriors and approached the settlement, much to the surprise of the pilgrims.

Statue of Chief Massasoit, leader of the Wampanoag Tribe, towers above people marching during the National Day of Mourning, Thanksgiving Day, 11/25/21, Plymouth, Massachusetts (© Bryan R. Smith/AFP/Getty).
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After deescalating the situation, the pilgrims and the Wampanoag feasted together, though historical texts don't indicate what they might have eaten besides deer hunted by the Wampanoag, as Peters writes in an introduction to "Of Plimoth Plantation."

"The contemporary holiday perpetuates the myths of the Wampanoag and Pilgrim relations," Peters writes in the book.

"It further buries the truths of kidnappings, pestilence, and subjugation and ignores the scant details of the tense encounter, while it conjures up Hallmark images of happy Natives and Pilgrims feasting on a cornucopia of corn, pies, and [dead animals], including a fully dressed roast turkey."

What the Thanksgiving story misses about Indigenous history
Native Tisquantum ("Squanto") spoke English
Peters said that the years leading up to the arrival of the Mayflower and the first harvest are just as important as what followed.

The pilgrims were aided by a couple of Indigenous men who remarkably knew how to speak English, including a man named Squanto.
  • PHOTO: The wooden head likeness of Native American Squanto, which is the only surviving piece of the wooden pediment that was installed on the Pilgrim Hall Museum building in Plymouth, Massachusetts in 1880 (Christine Hochkeppel/Cape Cod Times/USA Today Network).
His acquired tongue was not a miracle, but a byproduct of tragedy: In 1614, he was part of a group of Native Americans lured onto a ship and sold into slavery in Spain.

When he returned in 1619, his home village of Patuxet had been ravaged by a great plague. In fact, the settlers who came to that same land had to move decaying bodies to make the village that later became Plymouth.

Peters said that story is rarely told and demonstrates an example of the erasure of Indigenous histories.

That erasure exists in part to gloss over the ugly parts of American history, said Harvard Prof. Joseph Gone, an enrolled member of the Aaniiih-Gros Ventre Tribal Nation of Montana, who researches the intersections of coloniality and mental health in American Indian communities.

That can have an impact on those whose stories are not being told, he said. "We are aware of much more than most people would realize the weight of history and the realities of dispossession that even though these might have happened centuries ago, they linger on in our relationship to America," Prof. Gone said.

"So we engage today in a constant tussle with American myths about who we were and who we are, in the effort to better imagine a future."
Reconciling the holiday and the history
Jordan Marie Brings Three White Horses Whetstone participates in Truthsgiving Run,Virginia

Just read one history book: Roxanne: Dunbar-Ortiz
Although the Wampanoag and the pilgrims did not exist as harmoniously as many are taught, many tribal members still take the holiday to celebrate family, Prof. Gone and Peters said.

Jordan Marie Brings Three White Horses Whetstone of the Lower Brule Sioux Tribe in South Dakota started the Truthsgiving Run to bring awareness to Indigenous perspectives and issues.

The virtual, 4-mile run was created in the summer of 2020 to try to counteract some of the myths around Thanksgiving and the first interactions of between pilgrims and the tribes of first contact, said Whetstone, also the founder and executive director of Indigenous grassroots organizing group Rising Hearts.

"We really wanted to highlight the truth coming..." More

Friday, August 4, 2023

Barbie coffin for dead beauty Miss Venezuela?

Euro.eseuro.com/lifestyle; Crystal Quintero, CC Liu, Ashley Wells (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly
DEAD: Beauty Queen Miss Venezuela Ariana Viera posted chilling message (nypost.com)
English translation: “I'm recording myself for my future funeral because it’s always me the one in the videos and no one else does it,” she posted two months before falling asleep at the wheel.


Barbie (Margot Robbie) gets "deep" contemplating death.

Funeral home joins pink fever with a pretty coffin: “So you can rest like a Barbie”
Sexy enough for you? I was an attention-seeker in need of everyone's attention. I got it.
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Oh, no, U died too soon!
The Barbie movie might not be so bad, promoting feminism and denouncing Ken's toy doll "patriarchy." It's not exactly for kids except as indoctrination that parents will understand. Like sugary box cereals and sentimental plastic toys, ad agencies are on overdrive to promote pink Barbie everything. Christians, Republicans, and other conservatives may detest it, but the movie is only helping to promote whatever Barbie [Mattel, Inc.] says.
(Sky News Australia, 8/4/23) LGBTQI+ enough for ya? Ken's pregnant!

Car crash: Miss Venezuela Ariana Viera (RIP)
Latin American beauty queen Miss Venezuela Ariana Viera, 26, dead after chilling post

TikTok fame!
Who will be the first to use a gaudy pink coffin with a Barbie doll placed on it? Maybe beauty queen Miss Venezuela. Ariana Viera was killed in tragic car crash just as the Barbie Dream Coffin went viral in Latin American and around the world. Everyone wants one ever since the movie character "Barbie" dared to utter the one word never heard in Dreamland: "dying."
Mexican funeral home offering Barbie-inspired coffins

I crashed. It was an accident. Bye.
(The Independent) Summer, July 31, 2023. Funeral homes are now offering bright pink Barbie-themed coffins to dedicated fans, following the release of the hit film. One company, Olivares Funeral Home, is using the slogan: “So you can rest like Barbie” to advertise its new “Barbie House” casket design.

The firm shared a clip of the promotion on TikTok, where it went viral with 1.6 million views and nearly 5,000 comments. Other funeral homes -- located in Mexico, El Salvador, and across Latin America -- have also joined the trend, cashing in on the success of the Barbie film as they also launch bright pink coffins.

[There is now also a shortage of pink paint in the U.S. due to "pink fever" brought on by Barbie's super-successful ad campaign.]

SUTRA: What to contemplate at time like this?
The Future-Buddha Maitreya is decorated like a doll.
Here are two English translations of the original Pali (Buddhist language) text of the "Five Remembrances":

1. I am sure to become old; I cannot avoid aging. // I am subject to aging, have not gotten beyond aging. Jarādhammomhi jaraṃ anatīto....

2. I am sure to become ill; I cannot avoid becoming ill. // I am subject to illness, have not gotten beyond illness. Vyādhidhammomhi vyādhiṃ anatīto....

3. I am sure to die; I cannot avoid death. // I am subject to death, have not gotten beyond death. Maraṇadhammomhi maraṇaṃ anatīto....

4. I am sure to be separated and parted from all that is dear and beloved to me. // I will grow different, separate from all that is dear and appealing to me. Sabbehi me piyehi manāpehi nānābhāvo vinābhāvo....

But what if I don't believe in karma? - No matter.
5. I am the owner of my karma [actions of thought, word, and deed], heir of my karma, karma is the womb [from which I have sprung here], actions are my relations, actions are my protectors. Whatever actions I do, skillful or unskillful, of these I shall be heir [2]. //

What if I die? - You'll be reborn.
I am the owner of my actions, heir to my actions, born of my actions, related through my actions, and have my actions as my arbitrator. Whatever I do, for benefit or ill, to that will I fall heir [3]. Kammassakomhi kammadāyādo kammayoni kammabandhū kammapaṭisaraṇo yaṃ kammaṃ karissāmi kalyāṇaṃ vā pāpakaṃ vā tassa dāyādo bhavissāmī... [4].

The Buddha advised: "These are five facts that one should often reflect on, whether one is a female or male, layperson or monastic" [5].

Since the Buddha clarified, defining karma ("action") as the intention (cetana) behind a deed motivating it (Nibbedhika Sutta), "intentions" or "intentionally committed deeds" may be better translations of karma in the fifth contemplation or recollection above. More

The plandemic: It was on purpose, and they lied. And almost everyone fell for it.

Monday, February 24, 2020

LIVE: Kobe Bryant Tribute, L.A. (video)

Ruptly; CBS This Morning; Pfc. Sandoval, Ashley Wells, Seth Auberon (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly


LIVE: Thousands flock to Staples Center for Kobe and Gianna
Ara Zobayan's pilot error killed everyone?
(MARCA) Ruptly is live from Los Angeles today (Monday, February 24, 2020) as over 20,000 fans arrive at the Staples Center for a planned tribute to NBA legend Kobe Bryant and his daughter Gianna, who lost their lives in a helicopter crash last month with seven others.

"The Celebration of Life for Kobe and Gianna Bryant" saw nearly 90,000 people apply for tickets, outstripping supply four-fold, and the L.A. Police Department has threatened strongly advised the public to avoid the downtown area as the memorial service takes place. Tributes have flooded in for Bryant from across the world since the January 26th helicopter crash, which also claimed the lives of six other passengers and one pilot, who seems to be at fault. An investigation into the crash has been launched by two federal government agencies, with focus expected to fall on bad weather, mechanical failure, or pilot error. Suscríbete al canal de Marca (bit.ly/2J0YIm6).

New video shows Kobe Bryant's helicopter before crash


CBS Los Angeles is on all Kobe Bryant news.
Federal investigators are looking at new clues about the final moments of the ill-fated helicopter flight that ended in tragedy for nine people, including former Lakers' basketball player Kobe Bryant. They say all the wreckage has been removed from the crash site and is being sent out of state for analysis.

Newly surfaced video taken before the crash appears to show the aircraft in mid-flight, before it crashed into the Calabasas hillside. Whether the copter crashed on that hillside or the next, it was doomed due to the way the pilot was speeding in blinding fog and descending at 184 MPH points out Kris Van Cleave, who reports on the ongoing investigation. CBS This Morning (Facebook).

Sunday, January 26, 2020

Coping with DEATH: Kobe Bryant (video)

CBS News; Flow Station; Pfc. Sandoval, S. Auberon, A. Wells, Dhr. Seven, Wisdom Quarterly
Kobe Bryant meditated every day. It put him in that flow state and set him up for the day. Be like Bryant. Fortunately, Coach Phil Jackson knew about Buddhist mindfulness and meditation.
UPDATE: Shaq's son Shareef reveals texts from Kobe before fatal copter crash (iheart.com)



Good thing I meditated to prepare myself.
Kobe Bean Bryant (Aug. 23, 1978–Jan. 26, 2020) was an American professional basketball player. A shooting guard, Bryant played his entire 20-year career in the National Basketball Association (NBA) with the Los Angeles Lakers. He entered the NBA at 17 directly from high school and won five NBA championships. Bryant was an 18-time All-Star, 15-time member of the All-NBA Team, 12-time member of the All-Defensive team, and the 2008 NBA Most Valuable Player (MVP). Widely regarded as perhaps the greatest basketball player of all time, but not according to Shaq, Magic, Metta World Peace, or... Rape allegations dogged him for a while, but he managed to shake them and carry on.

They retired his number along ago
He probably should not have been riding in helicopters to escape horrific L.A. traffic, or maybe the pilot should not have been crashing into hills, but either way the City of L.A. is devastated. People care more about Kobe's death than their own. Death touches us all. However, few were prepared to have their wife's Grammys Award Show ruined by the pall of this shocking tragedy, which took out many passengers including Kobe's daughter Gigi.

That's Samsara (the Cycle of Wandering on through Rebirth) for you! Just when you think you're 41, rich, popular, on top of the world looking forward to a very promising post-sports career job, Mara says "Hello." Then Yama has a talk with you.

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Man, I had so much to do! Who knew Life had D?
The dead are dead (to us), and we can share merits with them. We can learn from them and honor their memory. But they are not dead to themselves; they are not suddenly nonexistent. They exist elsewhere. The Buddha, when repeatedly asked about deceased family and friends, said: "Few are the living; many are the dead."

Many more people are dead than are now alive, so the living are more precious, more important to focus on, more significant to be concerned about. Of course, we cling. He's gone, but he'll never be gone. (He's not really gone. He's just not here). He IS somewhere. That's how it is with Samsara. We wander and wander.

Kobe is like a hero of old, a city state warrior. So common people who never met him feel like they lost a member of their family. Coping with death is an issue for the living. The dead are taken care of and guided. Kobe's in the Bardo now.

Transfer him merit; pray for his safe journey to a fortunate rebirth; hope he had good karma (merit) to help him along. We've talked about all of these in recent posts.

Thursday, November 28, 2019

No Thanks, No Giving: Nat'l Day of Mourning

AJ+; Olivia B. Waxman (time.com, 11/21/19); Xochitl, Crystal Q. (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly
(AJ+) Thanksgiving is actually a National Day of Mourning: Native Americans in New England have been hosting an annual protest in Plymouth, Massachusetts since 1970. When was the "first Thanksgiving"? According to demonstrators, it was in 1637, when Gov. John Winthrop hosted a dinner to celebrate the return of soldiers who had massacred 700 Native Americans. These demonstrations are intended to highlight the myth that natives and pilgrims lived together peacefully and that "Indians" gave up their God-given land willingly for some trivial consumer goods the way European invaders claim.
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“I was teaching a lot of misconceptions.” We used to indoctrinate American kids about the “First Thanksgiving”
Lies My Teacher Told Me
On a recent Saturday morning in Washington, D.C., about two dozen secondary-and-elementary-school teachers experienced a role reversal.

This time, it was their turn to take a quiz: answer “true” or “false” for 14 statements about the famous meal known as the “First Thanksgiving.”

Did the people many of us know as pilgrims call themselves Separatists? Did the famous meal last three days? True and true, they shouted loudly in unison. Were the pilgrims originally heading for New Jersey? False.

But some of the other statements drew long pauses, or the soft murmurs of people nervous about saying the wrong thing in front of a group. Renée Gokey, Teacher Services Coordinator at the National Museum of the American Indian and a member of the Eastern Shawnee Tribe of Oklahoma, waited patiently for them to respond.

Uprooted near Wrigley Field (apmreports.org)
The teachers at this Nov. 9 workshop on “Rethinking Thanksgiving in Your Classroom” were there to learn a better way to teach the Thanksgiving story to their students. But first they had some studying to do.

When Gokey explained that early days of thanks celebrated the burning of a [Native American] Pequot village in 1637, and the killing of Wampanoag leader Massasoit’s son, attendees gasped audibly.

“I look back now and realize I was teaching a lot of misconceptions,” Tonia Parker, a second-grade teacher at Island Creek Elementary School in Alexandria, Virginia, told TIME.

It can sometimes seem that the way kids are taught about Thanksgiving, a staple of American education for about 150 years, is stuck in the past; an elementary school in Mississippi, for example, drew backlash for a Nov. 15 tweet that included photos of kids dressed up as “Native Americans,” with feather headbands and vests made of shopping bags.

But the approximately 25 teachers at that Washington workshop were part of a larger movement to change the way the story is taught. More

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Dealing with Death

It's an inevitable fact that, al-though one need not go any time soon, eventually... But more than that, there's radical-impermanence right now. We are not persisting from moment to moment. Things (mental states, feelings, experiences, circum-stances, physical conditions) arise, turn, and instantly pass away. They don't last for two consecutive moments.

The arising is a birth, the turning is decay, and the passing is a minor -- and after millions of minors, there's a major episode. We don't mind passing. But we mind when others pass. It's not fair! It shouldn't have happened!

We can, in fact, tolerate everything but our own passing. To increase our tolerance, it is just our own passing we should focus on and contemplate. Doing so enriches life, gives rise to gratitude and appreciation, and leads to the accrual of a great deal of merit.

In one sutra the Buddha explains that, as the Bodhisatta, he wished to give on a grand scale. But there was no one worthy, no Arhats, to receive it. Better than all that giving would have been contemplating impermanence for just the duration of a finger snap.* Whereas it's beneficial to cry, it's harmful to mope. Reflect or rest instead (and after the rest, again reflect).

Dharma for Coping
Ven. Samahita

REFLECTION
· Why do we grieve when a loved one dies?: SN XLII.11
· Understanding of Death as a basis for Right View: MN 9
· Five subjects for frequent recollection: AN V.57
· Death comes rolling, crushing everything. Ready?: SN III.25
· Life flies by, faster than any arrow. What are we to do?: SN XX.6
· No shelter from aging and Death: SN II.19
· Your last day approaches -- no time to be heedless! Thag VI.13
· Life is brief -- practice ardently! Ud V.2
· As one of seven beneficial reflections: AN VII.46
· As a call to abandon grief and lamentation: Sn III.8
· The greatest protection for the layperson: Sn II.4

BEREAVEMENT
· Ven. Ananda's grief over Ven. Sariputta's Death: SN XLVII.13
· The Buddha's reaction to Ven. Sariputta's Death: SN XLVII.14
· Death by a runaway cow: MN 140, Ud I.10, Ud V.3
· Death by murder (see also Murder): Ud 4.3
· Death of daughter: Thig III.5
· Death of grandson: Ud VIII.8
· Death of son: MN 87, SN XLII.11 Ud II.7, Thig VI.1
· Death of spouse: AN V.49

OVERCOMING
· Overcoming Death by regarding the world as empty: Sn V.15
· Overcoming fear of Death: Thag XVI.1
· Four ways of overcoming fear of Death: AN IV.184
· Heedlessness leads one to Death: Dhp 21
· Putting aside worries as Death nears: AN VI.16
· Citta's deathbed conversation with some devas: SN XLI.10
· Sariputta's teachings to a dying Anathapindika: MN 143

Buddha: "O disciples! Do not grieve! Even if I were to live in the world for as long as a kalpa (an "aeon" or a full "lifespan"), our coming together would have to end. You should know that all things in the world are impermanent; coming together inevitably means parting. Do not be troubled, for this is the nature of life. Diligently practicing right effort, you must seek liberation immediately. Within the light of wisdom, destroy the darkness of ignorance. Nothing is secure. Everything in this life is precarious."

BEYOND
· "Beyond Coping: Buddha on Aging, Illness, Death, Separation
· "Facing Death Without Fear" (Lily De Silva)
· "The 1st Noble Truth" in the Path to Freedom pages
· "Our Real Home" (Ajahn Chah)
· "The Last Sermon" in Inner Strength (Ajahn Lee)
· Straight From the Heart (Ajahn Maha Boowa)
· To the Last Breath: Talks on Living & Dying (Ajahn Maha Boowa)

*This "contemplation" did not refer to ordinary mulling over of an idea, but rather to seeing in an instant the rise and fall of phenomena in deep meditation.
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PHOTOS: 1. "Help" (ghpublications.com), 2. "Aging" children in Amritsar, India dress up like Mahatma Gandhi on the 139th anniversary of his birth (BBC), 3. "Grieving" bomb blast in Mumbai, India (BBC).