Lovemaking or "Mating in Captivity"? (video)

What do you want? - What do you think? - To have kids and commitment. - Your skateboard.

"There are only two tragedies in life. One is to not get what you want. The other is to get it." It's starting to feel like spring. That's what it's like to have erotic desire disconnected from the joyful burden of having children. Mating in Captivity: Reconciling Intimacy and Sexuality is a book to improve our lives by Belgian psychotherapist Esther Perel. She gave this talk in the summer of 2012 at the Smart Marriages Conference (smartmarriages.com) in Orlando, Florida. For relationship resources, visit estherperel.com.