Showing posts with label Middle Way. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Middle Way. Show all posts

Thursday, April 30, 2026

Reality comes before thought (podcast)


We believe we are experiencing reality. But by the time we notice anything — a sound, a face, a feeling — the mind has already named it, judged it, labelled it, and wrapped it in a story.

The Buddha traced this [nearly automatic] process with extraordinary precision, showing how a single moment of sensory contact explodes into an entire world of speculations, fears, and suffering.

He also showed where the stifling chain can be broken — and what remains when we stop adding to, embellishing, and distorting what is already here.

This teaching changed Bāhiya of the Barkcloth's life in a single breath, as he achieved enlightenment more quickly than anyone in the recorded history of Buddhism, having heard a single stanza from the Buddha.

It might change the way we see our own "reality."
  • 00:00 - The question that stops the mind
  • 03:47 - The trap: searching for a pure reality behind thought
  • 07:27 - So what is actually happening?
  • 13:29 - Seeing clearly: the space where freedom lives
  • 19:08 - The teaching to Bāhiya: the ultimate answer
  • 25:52 - The lesson that changes everything
  • Reality Before Thought: Buddhism on Seeing Things as They Are

Tuesday, November 25, 2025

The Path to Enlightenment (in brief)


Buddhism (the Dhamma) reached ancient Greece
Continued: Siddhartha had previously turned his back on fundamental "meditation" (lit., jhana/dhyana, the pleasant meditative absorptions that unite the mind in a highly coherent state called samadhi), thinking instead that the path must be one of penance, suffering, striving, austerities (tapas [blaming the body as if it were in control of the mind]), self-torture, self-abnegation, and manly (virile) effort (viriya) when it is really the Middle Way that avoids both extremes of hedonism and self-torture. (There is such a thing as "sane asceticism" undertaken with a competent monastic).

He one day realized that he had been avoiding the bliss and pleasure (piti) of absorption as if it were like sensual pleasure. Realizing that it is utterly unconnected to the ordinary pleasures of the senses, he allowed himself to pursue these eight super states (the four material and four immaterial absorptions). This provided the temporary purity of mind/heart necessary for breaking through and realizing the ultimate truth of mentality and materiality, of mind and body.
  • The Heart Sutra is about the anatta of khandha
    The five phenomena (form; feeling, perceptions, mental formations, consciousness) are referred to as the Five Aggregates clung to as self throughout the Buddhist sutras and commentaries of the Pali canon and are the focus of the world-famous Heart Sutra, the favorite Mahayana Buddhist text nearly no chanter of the Sanskrit seems aware of.
What we take to be real is an illusion, whereas what is in fact verifiably real is at a more basic level of reality. What we have been calling "mind" all along breaks down to feelings, perceptions, mental formations, and consciousness. Cittas or "mind moments" are the ultimate constituents of these impersonal processes. And what we have been calling "body" is not "me" or "mine" but ultimate matter (the Four Elements or qualities and characteristics of particles called kalapas).
  • It is completely mistaken to assume that the Buddha's use of the term "Four Elements" has anything to do with the ancient Greek or classical Indian understanding. There are not four "things" in matter. Instead, there are four categories of characteristics/processes or potentialities of matter: fluidity, density, support, temperature... for a total of 12 traits or states of material phenomena.
  • This is a practical, tangible, realizable reality (Four Elements Meditation by Pa Auk Sayadaw) not a theory of particle physics. This is about name-and-form (nama-rupa) not Western science. It is personally verifiable here and now. It is not going to win anyone a Nobel Prize in theoretical physic or microbiology. It is a PRACTICE of clear-seeing (vipassana), not a theory or paradigm to be argued about so that one becomes entangled in a thicket of views.
When one sees this directly, the mind/heart let's go, and one is freed. Free from what? Free from delusion, free from ignorance about these things, free from identity and personalization, free from suffering (pain, disappointment, unfulfillment, distress). So every five-minute version of the life of the Buddha should include these eleven elements:
  1. Raised in privilege and comfort
  2. Feels lack (unhappy, unfulfilled)
  3. Renounces position, power, privilege
  4. Sets off on spiritual quest for ultimate truth
  5. Learns meditation (jhana practice) and yoga (restraints, practices, pacification of mind and body)
  6. Avoids the tempting extremes of penance and sensual pleasures
  7. Gains stillness (samadhi) through the absorptions
  8. Emerges from jhana and takes up fourfold mindfulness (of body, feeling, mind, and mind-objects)
  9. Practices Dependent Origination
  10. Awakens to the ultimate truth that all things are impermanent, unsatisfactory, and impersonal
  11. Letting go (real renunciation takes places) and light dawns, knowledge-and-vision arise.

Monday, November 24, 2025

Story of the Buddha in five minutes


The Scythian Prince Siddhartha: The Buddha
(Dhamma Super Rich) Here is the life of the Buddha, or at least an attempt at the highlights, told in five minutes. Sadly, it makes the usual mistake of emphasizing the wrong thing while giving a gist of the allegory that is the Awakened One's life. The Buddha literally means "the Awakened One." Where does it go wrong?

Anyone listening to this summary might conclude that the reason the wandering ascetic Siddhartha was able to "awaken" (become enlightened) is because he made a strong determination (a vow to sooner shrivel up and have his blood turn to dust before getting up from) under the Bodhi tree. He determined to awaken by a massive effort.

Clear vision happens if we strain and strive?
Anyone familiar with the story of in detail of how Siddhartha became the Buddha might notice that this is exactly why for nearly seven years he failed and could not awaken, not breakthrough, not bring about ultimate realization (penetrating insight).

It was only when he, in a sense, "gave up" pushing (extreme asceticism) and muscling (efforting) -- and instead surrendered self will -- that awakening happened on its own.
  • (By Sayalay Susila, Dhr. Seven)
    The Truth is always there. It's just that we do not notice it, do not comprehend things as they really are, do not penetrate what we have learned and memorized to the heart of the matter. What is missing is not the Truth to be perceived. What is missing is our clear-vision, our undistorted knowing-and-seeing. And this will not be accomplished by more and more effort. That would be like straining and squinting the dust-covered eye as if by mere effort-of-will things would become clear. They will not. We must first purify the mind/heart that knows and sees. That is temporarily by the absorptions. CONTINUED

Monday, May 12, 2025

Tonight, Siddhartha attains enlightenment


How did the phase of the moon play into it?
Tonight commemorates three (possibly four) amazing events in the life of the Buddha. It was his birthday under the month of Vesak's moon one year. Twenty-nine years later, it was the night he decided to let go and renounce it all to go on a quest for enlightenment to make an end of suffering for everyone.
 (This would mean that his son Rahula had the same birthday). Six years after that, under the full moon of the same month, he experienced the great awakening of a supremely enlightened teacher. Then 45 years after that, under that very same moon, he made an end of all further rebirth and suffering by reclining into final nirvana. All that happened on full moon of this night, different years, same moon. Because he was reborn, because he renounced, because he practiced without giving up, Siddhartha became the Buddha, which means "the Enlightened One." Without this full moon, without these trees (a different kind of tree being involved in each event (sal, banyan, bodhi, and twin sals), would it have happened? We can only hope it would have. The way the story (told as an allegory) of the Buddha's life gets retold, it would be safe to say that Siddhartha became the Buddha in the last watch of the night, at dawn (with the dawning of insight) after a long, dark night of struggle with Mara* and his legions of ogres (yakkhas).

Light arose, knowledge arose = enlightenment.
What does it mean that the wandering ascetic Siddhartha Gautama (Siddhattha Gotama), 35, having renounced his palace and kingdom six years earlier, at age 29, had a Great Awakening (maha-bodhi)?

It means that after six years of struggle as a yogi learning the meditative absorptions but following the wrong path of penance through severe austerities (tapas), made a profound breakthrough to the ultimate Truth.

Having nearly died in his strenuous efforts to overcome the mental defilements, blaming the body as if it were the slave's fault that the master was all along the defiled one dragging it along, it occurred to Siddhartha to not be averse to pleasure. So long had this been his custom that it seemed wrong even to delight in the bliss of absorption (the jhanas, samma-samadhi). Realizing that such supersensual pursuits are blameless, not connected to sensuality, and followed by the wise, he pursued them and found what had eluded him for so long.

While his five wandering ascetic companions thought he had softened and given up, he set off on his own with the help of the milkmaid Sujata and her servant. They nursed him back to health, feeding him solid food. This disgusted his companions -- eating over fasting, receiving dana (donations) from the hand of a woman. Was this any way for a recluse, hermit, and wandering spiritual nomad to behave?

How did Siddhartha become "the Buddha"?

Scythians (Sakas) of Gandhara
It was! Not only did Siddhartha realize that the body was not the enemy but a potential vehicle to enlightenment, his dingy and clouded mind brightened, and he was able to think more clearly. He realized that he had been avoiding the very Path that avoids both extremes of hedonism on the one hand and severe asceticism on the other, the Middle Way.

He recalled that age 7 he had spontaneously entered such an absorption at the Spring Festival while his father, the King Suddhodana (a Scythian/Shakyian chieftain in the Saka Land called Kapilavastu or Kapilavatthu), was engaged in the ploughing ceremony.

That absorption was possible because he was left alone under the shade of tree by his nannies, who were more interested in joining the festivities. Left to his own devices, he did what he had always done in past lives -- enjoyed the serenity of samatha meditated. (It's interesting that the words samana, "wandering ascetic," and samatha, "calm meditation," are so much alike since one is primarily engaged in the other).


This Doctrine is for the wise with eyes to see
This may have made him a "saint" (holy man, sadhu, bhagavan) in the eyes of his fellows at the time, but it in no way made him a "saint" (arahant, arhat, enlightened one) in the Buddhist sense. For that, Siddhartha used the foundation of serenity, with the temporary mental purity it provided, and added insight (vipassana or "clear seeing") practices. Namely, he entered one or more of the eight absorptions, emerged, and practiced systematic mindfulness (satipatthana) on one of four themes, today referred to as the Four Foundations of Mindfulness. This was the Dependent Origination practice he rediscovered, as other buddhas before him had found.

Asking the question, "Why is there suffering (dukkha, disappointment, pain, misery)?" he realized the answer lay in a causal chain of 12 links: Present suffering is due to... list of the 12 causes. The general realization is that ALL things arise from causes: "When this is, that comes to be. When this is not, that does not come to be." So to put it less simply:
  1. Why is there aging, decay, death (dukkha, loss, woe)?
  2. It is because there is rebirth. Why is there rebirth?
  3. It is because there is becoming. Why is there becoming?
  4. It is because there is clinging. Why is there clinging?
  5. It is because there is craving (greed, desire). Why is there craving?
  6. It is because there is feeling (sensation). Why is there feeling?
  7. It is because there is contact. Why is there contact?
  8. It is because there is sense (the six sense bases). Why is there sense?
  9. It is because there is name-and-form. Why is there name-and-form?
  10. It is because there is consciousness. Why is there consciousness?
  11. It is because there is volitional formation [karma, fabrication, construction, intention, choices, doing]. Why is there volitional formation?
  12. It is because there is ignorance (delusion, illusion, unknowing).
Therefore, IF ignorance (avijja) is the problem, what is the solution? The solution is enlightenment (clearly seeing how things really are) because this leads to letting go. Who would be interested in such a trap after seeing the danger, folly, and emptiness inherent in it? This letting go (nekkhamma, abandoning, releasing, relinquishing, internal-renunciation) at such a profoundly foundational level) is why the Truth sets one free. It is not an act of willful doing.

We cannot will ourselves to let go of everything with our heads (intellect) and expect that the heart will really follow suit. Try it. If it were so, any smart person could be free just by study and an intellectual grasp or understanding. It is because once we see Truth as it is (things as they really are), the letting go happens naturally.


  • Who wants a [p**p] burger?
    EXAMPLE
    : Imagine being a little boy. You see your older brother holding a fat burger in front of everyone craving it, begging for it, ready to fight each other to get it. You see it, want it, and are ready to beg or fight for it yourself -- you can't help it -- but you're smart. So you reason with him, "Brother, let me have it; you love me, and we're brothers, and you would do anything good to help your brother, as brothers do. So let me have it."
  • "No, Dummy, get out of here!" he says to you, as older brothers like to say. He knows you. He knows you're going to beg and fight and plead like a clingy dummy like all the rest of them. So out of love, he tells you the secret, which he knows there's no possible way you're going to believe just by him telling you. So he simultaneously tells you and shows you: "It's poop in the center, look." What happens to your craving, clinging, and desire right at that instant? It evaporates, shrinks back, is replaced by disgust and letting go (of that desire), completely abandoning it. That wouldn't have happened if he had just TOLD you. But since you saw it yourself, there's no doubt. And you know he loves you and wants the best for you, and he is holding it away from everyone. "What, but, how?" you stutter, but who cares how or why or when? There's only the what. And the what is that it's poop. Where has all your desire gone for it? He has liberated you from the flesh-craving, from that clinging, from that avarice for food of any kind, until your customary delusions and hungers return.
  • SLIDE: Worms poke out of hamburger on lettuce
    That example is too harsh. So let's change it. Let's say, what he shows you is not directly poop between buns but a microscope slide of what's really in flesh-burger: worms, rot, traces of feces and salmonella, pus, uric acid, sweat, mucus... Now where's your craving, your clinging, your desire? You realize he really does love you and has been telling you all along, but until you saw it with your own eyes, you would've never believed it. You've been eating this cr*p the whole time. That's what flesh is; that's how the sausage (churned burger) is made. *Vomit* You feel love and gratitude for your brother for NOT giving you what you were sure you wanted and begged for and were ready to fight for. You feel love for him because instead he gave you what you didn't know you needed so desperately -- wisdom and compassion. Out of compassion for you, he shared his wisdom by giving you a "clear seeing" of what was really there all along. 
It is like dropping a feather (or a modern plastic bag) into a fire. It shrinks back, pulls away, retracts by a natural reaction. It does not will to shrink away. It just does. The heart/mind will let go of all conditioned (composite) "things." And there is only one [unconditioned element] that is not a thing and therefore does not have all the faults and attributes of things -- and that is nirvana.

I was obscured by clouds, then all became clear.
Nirvana (nibbana) is not enlightenment (bodhi) as so many scholars and ordinary people seem to loosely equate. Awakening gives a glimpse of what has never before been seen in this entire Round of Rebirths (samsara), this Wheel of Life and Death: real freedom (liberation) from any further rebirth or suffering. The dependently originated formation (fabrication, construction) of these Five Aggregates clung to as "self" is no more -- and one is completely freed. This comes in stages, which may all happen following after the other or be spread out over as many as seven more rebirths. These are the Paths and Fruits (magga-phala), the stages of enlightenment, of those who have become the "noble ones."

*The struggle with Mara
Wisdom Quarterly Wikipedia edit
Astasahasrika Prajnaparamita Mara
Mara ("Death," "Obstacles," "Defilements") Devaputra in Buddhism is a malignant being of light (a Satan figure), a king of the ogres (yakkhas), who tried to stop Prince Siddhartha from Awakening (becoming enlightened and liberated from the Sensual Sphere) by trying to seduce him with his "daughters" (Lust, Discontent, and Passion) and an army of ogres.

In various legends, visions of beautiful women are said to be Mara's daughters [1]. In Buddhist cosmology, Mara is the personification of Death, rebirth, and sensual desire [2].

Western Buddhist monk Ven. Nyanaponika Thera has described Mara as "the personification of the forces antagonistic to enlightenment" [3].

Mara is Yama the King of the Dead's fearsome persona. And all beings associated with him, darkness and death, become forces of Mara. These forces consist of yakkhas, rakshasas, pisacas, aratis, asuras, and animals [4]. More


Vesak Day | So Sri Lanka
Ven. Sanghamitta brings Bodhi tree
(Sri Lanka Tourism) The Vesak festival commemorates three events in the Buddha’s life: his birth, his enlightenment, and his passing. It is a joyful season in Sri Lanka.

It is a festival of light that dispels the darkness of ignorance and a time to recall his teachings, the Dhamma, of wisdom, compassion, and peace.

This Vesak, let us appreciate humanity and practice peaceful coexistence that will raise us to greater heights. To good health!

#HappyVesakDay #Vesak2021 #SoSriLanka #VesakFestivalnSriLanka #VisitSriLanka #ExperienceSriLanka #ExploreSriLanka #SriLanka

Friday, August 19, 2022

Vedantic Self vs. Buddhist Non-Self (video)


Vedantic Self and Buddhist Non-Self | Swami Sarvapriyananda
(Vedanta New York, June 2, 2022) Swami Sarvapriyananda speaks on the difference and similarities between the Vedantic concept of "Self" (Atman) and the Buddhist concept of Non-self (an-atman or anatta).
ABOUT: Vedanta ("the Best of the Vedas") is one of the world’s most ancient religious philosophies and one of its broadest. Based on the Vedas, the ancient sacred scriptures of pre-Indian Vedic Religion embraced by Hindus as Hinduism and India's great heritage. Vedanta affirms the oneness of existence, the divinity of the soul, and the harmony of religions.

ABOUT US: The Vedanta Society of New York is affiliated with the Ramakrishna Order of India. In fact, this is the Order's first Center started by Swami Vivekananda in 1894. It was a historic event, for the seed of the world-wide Ramakrishna Movement was sown in New York over a century ago. Swami Sarvapriyananda is the present resident minister and spiritual leader of the Vedanta Society of New York.

Friday, March 13, 2020

"The Way of Mindfulness" (Soma Thera)

Bhikkhu Bodhi (born Jeffrey Block), intro to The Way of Mindfulness: The Satipatthana Sutta and Its Commentary by Soma Thera; Dhr. Seven, Pat Macpherson (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly
Remember the real original Volkswagen VW logo? Of course we do (Mandela Effect).
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The Satipatthana Sutra, the "Discourse on the Foundations of Mindfulness," is generally regarded as the canonical Buddhist text with the fullest instructions on the system of meditation unique to the Buddha's dispensation.

The practice of satipatthana meditation centers on the methodical cultivation of one simple mental faculty readily available to all of us at any moment. This is the faculty of mindfulness, the capacity for attending to the content of our experience [without the overlays of grasping, resisting, or confusion] as it becomes manifest in the immediate present.

What the Buddha shows in the sutra is the tremendous, but generally hidden, power inherent in this simple mental function, a power that can unfold all the mind's potentials [for direct insight] culminating in final deliverance from suffering.

To exercise this power, however, mindfulness must be cultivated systematically. This sutra shows exactly how this is to be done. The key to the practice is to combine energy, mindfulness, and clear comprehension in attending to the phenomena of mind-and-body summed up in the "four rousings [or foundations] of mindfulness":
  1. body
  2. feelings
  3. consciousness
  4. mental objects.
Most contemporary meditation teachers explain satipatthana meditation as a means of generating insight (vipassana). While this is certainly a valid claim, we should also recognize that satipatthana meditation also generates concentration (samadhi).

Unlike the forms of meditation that cultivate concentration and insight sequentially, satipatthana brings both of these faculties into being together. Naturally, in the actual process of development, concentration will have to gain a certain degree of stability before insight can exercise its penetrating function.

In satipatthana, the act of attending to each occasion of experience as it occurs in the moment fixes the mind firmly on the object. The continuous attention to the object, even when the object itself is constantly changing, stabilizes the mind in concentration, while the observation of the object in terms of its qualities and characteristics brings into being the insight-knowledges.

To practice satipatthana successfully a trainee will generally require a sound theoretical knowledge of the practice along with actual training, preferably under the guidance of a qualified teacher. The best source of theoretical knowledge, indeed the indispensable source, is the Satipatthana Sutra itself.

However, although the sutra is clear and comprehensible enough as it stands, the instructions it offers are extremely concise, often squeezing into a few simple guidelines directions that might need several pages to explain in a way adequate for successful practice.

For this reason, from an early period, the ancient masters of Buddhist meditation began to supply more detailed instructions based on their own practical experience. These instructions eventually evolved into a lengthy commentary on the Satipatthana Sutra, which was then incorporated into the complete commentaries on the two collections in which the sutra appears, namely, the Long Discourse Collection (Digha Nikaya) and Middle-Length Discourse Collection (Majjhima Nikaya).

The two commentaries that have come down to us today, based on the older Sinhalese [Sri Lankan] commentaries, are called the Sumangala-vilasini (on the Digha Nikaya) and the Papañca-sudani (on the Majjhima Nikaya). These commentaries are ascribed to Ven. Buddhaghosa, an Indian Buddhist monk who worked in Sri Lanka in the 5th century A.C., but are securely based on the old commentaries, which record the explanations devised by the ancient masters of the Dharma.

The commentary has in turn been further elucidated by a sub-commentary, or tika, by Acariya Dhammapala, who worked in South India, near Kancipura, perhaps a century or two after the time of Buddhaghosa.

This book, The Way of Mindfulness, contains all of the authorized instructions on satipatthana meditation passed down in the Theravada Buddhist tradition: the Satipatthana Sutra stemming from the Buddha himself (in the more concise version of the Majjhima Nikaya, which omits the detailed analysis of the Four Noble Truths found in the Digha Nikaya's Maha Satipatthana Sutra), the commentary by Buddhaghosa, and selections from the sub-commentary by Dhammapala.

While the volume of material found here will certainly exceed the amount a beginner needs to start the practice, the book will prove itself useful at successive stages and will eventually become a trusted friend and advisor in all its manifold details.

Readers should not be intimidated by the detail and the sometimes formidable technical terminology, but should continue reading, selecting whatever material is found useful and leaving until later whatever presently seems difficult to grasp.

The book was originally compiled in the late 1930s by Ven. Soma Thera (1898-1960), a monk from Sri Lanka, and has been maintained in print since the early 1940s. The Buddhist Publication Society in Kandy has published the work since 1967 in several editions. This latest version contains several minor changes in terminology authorized by the present writer.

Proofreaders of the Pali texts Christine Chan and her friends in the Buddhist communities of Malaysia as well as Rev. Suddhinand Janthagul from Thailand deserve appreciation for their hard work in transcribing the book and for making it available for free distribution. I am sure this book will prove a valuable road map for everyone who has entered the steep and rugged road of satipatthana meditation, leading to final release from all suffering. More

CONTENTS
Message by Bhikkhu Bodhi
Foreword by Dr. Cassius A. Pereira
Translator's Note
Introduction by the Translator
The Discourse on the Arousing of Mindfulness
The Commentary to the Discourse on the Arousing of Mindfulness
The Section of the Synopsis
The Contemplation of the Body
The Section on Breathing
The Section on the Modes of Deportment
The Section on the Four Kinds of Clear Comprehension
  • 1. Clear comprehension in going forwards and backwards
  • 2. Clear comprehension in looking straight on and in looking away from the front
  • 3. Clear comprehension in the bending and the stretching of limbs
  • 4. Clear comprehension in wearing shoulder-cloak and so forth
  • 5. Clear comprehension in the partaking of food and drink
  • 6. Clear comprehension of cleansing the body
  • 7. Clear comprehension of walking and so forth
The Section of Reflection on Repulsiveness
The Section of the Reflection on the Modes of Materiality
The Section on the Nine Cemetery Contemplations
The Contemplation of Feeling
The Contemplation of Consciousness
The Contemplation of Mental Objects
The Five Hindrances
  • 1. Sensuality
  • 2. Anger
  • 3. Sloth and torpor
  • 4. Agitation and worry
  • 5. Doubts
The Aggregates
The Sense-bases
The Factors of Enlightenment
  • 1. Mindfulness
  • 2. Investigation of mental objects
  • 3. Energy
  • 4. Joy
  • 5. Calm
  • 6. Concentration
  • 7. Equanimity
The Four Truths
Notes

Friday, June 15, 2018

Midsummer Night's Dream, LA (June 30-Sept 2)

Independent Shakespeare Co. LA (ISCLAa.org); CC Liu, Crystal Quintero, Wisdom Quarterly


A MIDSUMMER NIGHT'S DREAM
It’s hard to tell where reality ends and dreams begin in A Midsummer Night's Dream, an intoxicating joyride of a play, perhaps Shakespeare's best, certainly his most accessible. Otherworldly creatures (Puck and faeries), sexy lovers on the run, love potion, and a group of ridiculous actors all converge in a deep forest outside of Athens, Greece. When their worlds collide, chaos ensues and nothing but magic has the power to set things right before the sun comes up. (Begins June 30. Plays in rep with Titus Andronicus through September 2).

  • Independent Shakespeare Co., L.A.
  • The Old Zoo, Griffith Park, L.A., near the Autry
  • Free parking (downloadable parking map)
  • Look for the hot pink signs directing audience to parking lots near Griffith Merry-Go-Round. Parking Lot 2 is the closest to the performance stage. Downloadable directions
  • All summer performances are FREE! Donations gratefully accepted.
  • No reservations required.
  • Bring beach chairs (legs 3"), picnics, blankets

Monday, October 9, 2017

Buddhist SEX: Moderation, Tantra, Freedom!

Dhr. Seven, Amber Larson, Ashley Wells, CC Liu, Crystal Quintero (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly; Wiki; MBG; Maurice O'Connell Walshe (Wheel 225, BPS); Andrew Olendzki (accesstoinsight.org)
What secret ingredient is a must for my post-flow yoga refuel? Great sex? Thank you.
The future Buddha's beautiful mother, Maya Devi, was -- it is said -- a kind of "virgin" or "pure person" in one sense: She was free of sexual misconduct going back seven generations.
Our sexy-spiritual, Los Angeles yoga teacher Psalm Isadora (RIP) loved tantric sex.
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Chakras light up during intimacy with partner
This is an age in which sexual matters are discussed with great openness.
 
There are many who are puzzled to know what the Buddhist attitude towards sex is, and it is therefore to be hoped that the following guidelines may be found helpful towards an understanding.

It is, of course, true to say that Buddhism, in keeping with the principle of the Middle Way, would advocate neither extreme puritanism nor extreme permissiveness.

You are sacred. Act like it: Five Precepts
But this, as a general guiding principle without further explanation, is not sufficiently helpful for most.

In the first place, we have to distinguish between training rules adopted by different kinds of Buddhists:
Celibacy for deeper meditation
for their path toward enlightenment in this very life. If one does not reach enlightenment in this life, the practice will at least produce a very advantageous rebirth.
 
Guiding principles for lay Buddhist practitioners are easy and quite freeing: avoid violating the Five Precepts and enjoy sex with appropriate partners even if you're unmarried.

Or go celibate. Or be a serial-monogamist. Or secure consent and do whatever you want. As a Buddhist you're free. More

Speaking of Buddhist-Sex, what is tantra?
Ashley Wells, Dhr. Seven, Amber Larson, Crystal Quintero (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly Wiki edit
Do you think I'm sexy? Yes, well, don't stare too much. I died earlier this year. - P. Isadora
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Use birth control. I may not want to be born!
Tantra (Sanskrit तन्त्र, literally "loom, weave") denotes the esoteric traditions of Buddhism and Hinduism that co-developed most likely about the middle of first millennium CE.
  • VIDEO: Tantrika talks about her childhood sexual abuse (below)
In Indian traditions the term tantra also means any systematic broadly applicable "text, theory, system, method, instrument, technique, or practice." This may be thought of as a stratagem or modus operandi to achieving some end.
 
In Buddhism, the Vajrayana tradition is known for its extensive tantra ideas and practices.


Various tantric symbols (Sarah Welch)
In Hinduism, the tantra tradition is most often associated with its goddess tradition called Shaktism (worship of the Goddess Shakti), followed by Shaivism (Lord Shiva) and Vaishnavism (Lord Vishnu).

Tantric Buddhist and Hindu traditions have influenced other religious traditions such as Jainism (a surviving wandering ascetic tradition like Buddhism), Sikhism, the Tibetan Bön (pre-Buddhist shamanic) tradition, Taoism, and the Japanese Shintō (pre-Buddhist animistic kami worship) tradition.

Tantra as genre of literature in Hinduism (upholding as best it can the far more Ancient Vedic tradition) have been influential to its arts, icons, and temple building practices.
 
Mas amor por favor ("More love, please") Sexual trauma and breast cancer link?
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Wait, sex can be empowering?
Hindu rituals (pujas), temples, and iconography are tantric in nature. The Hindu texts that describe these topics are called Tantras, Āgamas, or Samhitās

In Buddhism, its tantra-genre literature has influenced the artworks in Tibet, historic cave temples of India, and imagery in Theravadan Southeast Asia. More

Like a Lotus: Why Tantra?
Andrew Olendzki, (Thag 15.2) "Udayin Thera: The Blooming Lotus" (excerpt) edited by Dhr. Seven, Amber Larson, Wisdom Quarterly


Tantric Buddhists of Californian, Bhutanese, Nepalese, Mongolian, Tibetan Vajrayana were drawn to the contrast in the imagery of the lotus flower.

The contrast is between the ordinary, defiling mud rooting the plant in the water and the sublime beauty of the blossom rising above it.

Relentless in their non-attachment to dichotomies (polemics, polarities, extremes) and their demolition of opposites, the tantric approach is to be capable of embracing both sides or opposites without clinging to either.

Although the emphasis changes, we can see that the essential teaching of non-clinging or non-attachment (nopalippati="is not stained") -- to objects of sensual-perception, to a particular mode of teaching, or to conventional dualities -- remains carried through the ages by this simple image of a white lotus growing out of muddy water:

As the flower of a lotus,
Arisen in water, blossoms,
Pure-scented, pleasing the mind,
Yet is not drenched by the soiled water,
In the same way, born in the world,
The Buddha abides in the world,
Yet like the lotus by water, is not
Drenched by the sullied world.
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in memory of Psalm Isadora (edited by Wisdom Quarterly)
We all lost a great member and friend of the mbg community (mindbodygreen.com), Psalm Isadora. According to her Facebook page, she passed away.

Psalm became a contributor for mindbodygreen.com and made an immediate impression. That was the thing about her: she always made an impression. To those who knew her, she was an unapologetic force of nature!

Whenever she walked into a room, she wanted you to know it. She oozed confidence, rarely compromised, and always said exactly what was on her mind. She was fierce. She was a warrior princess. And she was also a mother to a son.

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She survived what many people cannot -- extreme sexual trauma in a sinful, hypocritical Christian cult that lasted much of her childhood. She channeled those horrific experiences into a message of female empowerment through sexuality and tantric principles.

She shared this message of empowerment with the world through her articles, classes, and workshops.

She even shared her deeply personal and emotional story about overcoming sexual trauma in a powerful talk at our last Revitalize event, which received a standing ovation. Watch the talk
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  • Buddhism and Sexuality: An Exploration Among Buddhists there is a wide diversity of opinion about homosexuality. Buddhism teaches that sensual pleasure and craving in general, sexual obsession in particular, are hindrances to enlightenment, far inferior to the kinds of metaphysical "spiritual pleasure" (pīti, bliss, joy, "rapture") integral to the practice of meditative absorptions or jhānas. The Five Precepts avoids "sexual misconduct" -- 10 persons to avoid having sex with, which is often also interpreted according to local social norms. Still, some Asian Buddhists hold prejudices against gay, lesbian, and transgender persons.