Monday, July 15, 2019

Stop it: Why people dislike you (video)

Charisma on Command; Crystal Quintero, Sheldon S., CC Liu (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly



A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with her. Even as an audience member, it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing. What can we all learn from these gaffs and situations? And how can we prevent ourselves from falling into these specific behavior patterns that make people dislike a person without anyone intending it or even realizing it.

TIMESTAMPS
0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in ambiguous situations.
1:15 - Issue #2: Not realizing that sarcasm requires a “tell”
4:33 - Issue #3: Jumping on every opportunity to praise or call attention to yourself.
7:15 - Issue #4: Trying to win each moment of banter.
9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly.

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