Showing posts with label religion and health care. Show all posts
Showing posts with label religion and health care. Show all posts

Monday, March 24, 2025

Don't buy love: Rent-a-Grandma 👵

(Solace Fox) Nothing changes until we do this. (Just do this)

Granny, can you get us some chocolate?
Motherhood is strange. It leads to motherhood. Every mother has a mother, who for the next generation is called the grandmother. But not every individual has the luck, karma, or good fortune to have a Grandma to rely on. Thems is the breaks.

"Always Trust Your Grandma" childcare, nannies, and pet care to the rescue. Welcome to Rent A Grandma (RAG), which provides vital, healthy, safe "care providers." RAG specializes in placing caring women, possessing deep life experience with families as nannies, babysitters, and in-home care providers, as well as chefs, cooks, and highly experienced domestic staff.

App Store BadgeLearn more about RAG's services or contact the with any questions or comments. Check out Rent A Grandma in the App Store. Browse grandmas and create an account from an iPhone or iPad.

Remember, these Grandmas offer excellent care as: babysitters, nannies, baby caregivers, after school care, special needs care, housekeepers, senior care/companions, personal assistants, pet care/sitting, cooks, tutors [but not call gals, dates, or Vegas ranch workers, so don't ask, or ask very gingerly because it's not legal outside of Nevada]. Subscribe to mailing list: rentagrandma.com

Wednesday, December 6, 2023

Longest study on happiness reveals...

Dhr. Seven, Pat Macpherson (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly
You wouldn't believe what was in my mouth. - This smile! (Choose to be happy for no reason).

(Veritasium) Nov. 15, 2023: How to lead a happier, healthier, and longer life. Bliss and longevity? Add meaning (purpose, passion, a point), and we're in!

Huge thanks to Prof. Robert Waldinger for all his help with this video. To learn more about what makes for a good life, visit: the-good-life-book.com and • Robert Waldinger: What makes a good life...

Special thanks to Prof. Julianne Holt-Lunstad for her expert advice on the importance of social connections and the detrimental effects of loneliness and social isolation.

Check out our sponsor: https://betterhelp.com/veritasium to get matched with a professional therapist who will listen and help.

References:
  • Waldinger, R., & Schulz, M. (2023). The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness. Simon and Schuster.
  • Lindqvist et al. (2020). Long-run effects of lottery wealth on psychological well-being. The Review of Economic Studies. ve42.co/Lindqvist2020
  • Wen et al. (2011). Minimum amount of physical activity for reduced mortality and extended life expectancy: a prospective cohort study. The lancet. ve42.co/Wen2011
  • Nocon et al. (2008). Association of physical activity with all-cause and cardiovascular mortality: a systematic review and meta-analysis. European Journal of Preventive Cardiology. ve42.co/Nocon2008
  • Blondell et al. (2014). Does physical activity prevent cognitive decline and dementia?: A systematic review and meta-analysis of longitudinal studies. BMC public health. ve42.co/Blondell2014
  • Office of the Surgeon General. (2023). Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation: The US Surgeon General’s Advisory on the Healing Effects of Social Connection and Community. ve42.co/LonelinessEpidemic
  • Holt-Lunstad et al. (2010). Social relationships and mortality risk: a meta-analytic review. PLoS medicine. ve42.co/Holt-Lunstad2010
  • Valtorta et al. (2016). Loneliness and social isolation as risk factors for coronary heart disease and stroke: systematic review and meta-analysis of longitudinal observational studies. Heart. ve42.co/Valtorta2016
  • Shovestul et al. (2020). Risk factors for loneliness: The high relative importance of age versus other factors. PloS one. ve42.co/Shovestul2020
  • Donovan et al. (2017). Loneliness, depression and cognitive function in older US adults. International journal of geriatric psychiatry. ve42.co/Donovan2017
  • Lara et al. (2019). Does loneliness contribute to mild cognitive impairment and dementia? A systematic review and meta-analysis of longitudinal studies. Ageing research reviews. ve42.co/Lara2019
  • Holt-Lunstad et al. (2015). Loneliness and social isolation as risk factors for mortality: a meta-analytic review. Perspectives on psychological science. ve42.co/Holt-Lunstad2015
  • McIntyre et al. (2015). Compulsive Internet use and relations between social connectedness, and introversion. Computers in Human Behavior. ve42.co/McIntyre2015
  • Kahneman & Deaton. (2010). High income improves evaluation of life but not emotional well-being. Proceedings of the national academy of sciences. ve42.co/Kahneman2010
  • Killingsworth. (2021). Experienced well-being rises with income, even above $75,000 per year. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. ve42.co/Killingsworth2021
  • Killingsworth et al. (2023). Income and emotional well-being: A conflict resolved. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. ve42.co/Killingsworth2023
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Directed by Casper Mebius. Written by Casper Mebius, Petr Lebedev, and Derek Muller. Edited by Peter Nelson. Animated by Fabio Albertelli and Ivy Tello. Filmed by Derek Muller, Emily Zhang, and Zyan Treadwell. Produced by Casper Mebius, Petr Lebedev, Han Evans, and Derek Muller. Additional video/photos supplied by Getty Images and Storyblocks. Music from Epidemic Sound. Thumbnail by Ren Hurley.

Sunday, September 25, 2022

Seinfeld: Are you an Anti-Dentite? ✡ (comedy)

I. Rony* (ed.), Wisdom Quarterly; Emily Sigalow; Brain Cranston (dentist Tim Whatley), Seinfeld
May I be funny? - It's not recommended. - It's not disallowed? - Well, no, but do your studies.



American JewBu (E. Sigalow)
According to researcher Emily Sigalow: Today, many Jewish Americans are embracing a dual religious identity, practicing Buddhism while also staying connected to the Jewish roots they were born into.

The book American JewBu tells the story of Judaism's encounter with Buddhism in the United States, showing how it has given rise to new contemplative forms within American Judaism ― and shaped the way Americans understand and practice Buddhism.

Taking readers from the 19th century to today, Sigalow traces the history of these two traditions in America and explains how they came together.

She argues that the distinctive social position of American Jews led them to their unique engagement with Buddhism and describes how they incorporate aspects of both Judaism and Buddhism into their everyday lives.

Sometimes I care more what happens in the CIA's Israel than I do about the US of A at home.
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If only Buddhism could be funny!
Drawing on a wealth of original in-depth interviews conducted across the nation, Sigalow explores how Jewish American Buddhists experience their dual religious identities.

She reveals how Jewish Buddhists confound prevailing expectations of minority religions in America. Rather than simply adapting to the majority religion, Jews and Buddhists have borrowed and integrated elements from each other, and in doing so they have left an enduring mark on the American consciousness.

American JewBu highlights the leading role that American Jews have played in the popularization of meditation and mindfulness -- Theravada vipassana (insight meditation) and more so all forms of Tibetan Buddhism (Shambhala) and Nicheren "chanting for what you want" Buddhism (a Pure Land shortcut) -- in the US.

Sigalow also examines the profound impact these two venerable traditions have had on one another. More


*What is irony?
Irony definition: Different types of irony in literature (writers.com)


Saturday, August 15, 2020

Cop Kamala Harris on Medicare for all (video)

Jimmy Dore (jimmydorecomedy.com); Snopes; Seth Auberon, Ashley Wells, Wisdom Quarterly


Medicare? Single-payer? Prosecutor Kamala Harris does a 180 on her former support for "Medicare for all" now that she's early-onset dementia victim Joe Biden's groping partner.

Would Bernie Sanders and his running mate, AOC, have been any better under the thumb of the DNC (Democrat party) bosses who pull the purse strings? Vote Andrew D. Basiago.


Friday, October 6, 2017

Trump: no birth control. India: no condom ads

Ashley Wells, S.A. Ananda, CC Liu, Seth Auberon (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly; Sanjana Agnihotri (IndiaToday.in); DailyDot.com; Sunny Leone (video, Wiki); Sayitwithacondom.com; BBC.com
Message to Klansman Fred (Trump's dad): Some people should never have been born (DD).
Think India's uptight Not US is full of prudes, but Trump's America will no longer stand for free birth control! Trump pushes back reproductive rights, rescinds free birth control (BBC).

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Use...while you're getting screwed
Pres. Don Juan Trump fulfilled a promise to conservative Christians today. He rescinded a key provision of Romneycare (aka "Obamacare," the ACA or "Affordable Care Act") that allowed citizens to exercise their reproductive rights: Trump rolls back free birth control: The new Trump rule could strip birth control coverage from millions of American females, demolishing an Obama provision. VP Pence is very happy since he wants to ban condoms altogether. (See below).

India: Take down those sexy condom ads!
Filthy and shocking pornographic ad suggests using condoms during holy Navratri (IT)
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I did it for the money. Why are they mad?
Sunny Leone condom ad that says "Khelo magar pyaar se [Play with love] this Navratri" stirs controversy. [The playful meaning here is "Whatever you do this holiday, do it with love," nudge-nudge, wink-wink.] The Confederation of All India Traders (CAIT) has accused Sunny Leone of being irresponsible and going to "any level irrespective of pious and religious occasion of Navratri" to earn money.
 

    Former porn actress Sunny Leone
Who in the world is Sunny Leone? Karenjit Kaur Vohra (1981-), known by her stage name Sunny Leone, is a former pornstar with American citizenship. She is a Canadian-born Sikh Indian-American actress and model, currently active in the Indian film industry ("Bollywood"). She has also used the stage name Karen Malhotra. She was named porn magazine Penthouse's Pet of the Year in 2003, was a contract performer for pornographers Vivid Entertainment, and was named by porn-lite Maxim magazine one of the Top 12 porn stars in 2010. She has played roles in independent mainstream films and TV shows. Her first mainstream appearance was in 2005, when she worked as a red carpet reporter for the MTV Video Music Awards on MTV India.

I may be Indian, but I do what I want (SL).
Indian men have a love-hate relationship with Sunny Leone, the brand ambassador of Manforce condoms. Using sanskaar as their shield, these men harp about how un-sanskaari she is. 


Manforce put up banners across Gujarat that had Sunny Leone advertising condoms with a tagline that mentions Navratri. This did not go down well with some people. CAIT wrote a letter to the Minister for Consumer Affairs Ram ["God"] Vilas Paswan calling this tactic a "clear irresponsible and immature attempt to boost sales by putting all our cultural value system at stake." CAIT wants the ad to be banned now. More
How conservative Vice President Mike Pence feels about condoms...Ban them!
Why do you and Trump want to BAN condoms? - They're "too modern and too liberal"!
In America, we get our condoms the old-fashioned way. We steal them.
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BBC: Why is a condom ad with Sunny Leone angering Indians?
What's the big deal? Men are hypocrites.
A condom company has been forced to pull down an advertisement promoting their popular Manforce brand ahead of the major Hindu festival of Navratri in the western state of Gujarat after protests by some Indians.
 
The BBC's Geeta Pandey in Delhi explains the controversy: Just days before the nine-day festival was to begin on Thursday, huge billboards went up in several cities in the state in which the Canadian actress of Indian origin Sunny Leone is seen advising people to "Play this Navratri, but with love [Aa Navratriye ramo, paraantu prem thi]."
 
OMKrishna, I didn't realize she was a pornstar!
A former porn star who has made a successful transition to the role of leading lady in hit Bollywood movies, Ms. Leone has a massive fan following in India.

And she is now the brand ambassador for Manforce, the country's biggest condom company.
 
American nuns agree with Rev. Trump and India's conservatives: no condoms!
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I'm huge, nuns. That I can assure you.
The advert outraged some conservative Indians who accused the contraceptive firm of "taking marketing to an all-time low."
 
Many took to social media sites to criticize the "offending advert" and the Confederation of All India Traders (CAIT) even lodged a complaint with the government, calling for an immediate ban on it.
 
"This is an irresponsible and immature attempt to boost sales by putting all our cultural values at stake," the organization said in a petition to Consumer Affairs Minister Ram Vilas Paswan.
 
Speaking to the BBC on Wednesday, CAIT general secretary Praveen Khandelwal said: "Navratri is a pious festival which symbolizes the strength of women [by honoring Goddess/Devi Durga, and linking condoms with the festival is highly objectionable." More
Get out of bed with Trump [Ivanka! He doesn't allow condoms. But you knew that.] (AP)
  1. "Our minds can be hijacked": the tech insiders who fear a smartphone dystopia 
  2. USA 4-0 Panama: World Cup 2018 qualifier – as it happened! 
  3. Swedish model gets RAPE threats after ad shows her unshaved legs 
  4. North Korea plans to test missile it thinks can reach US west coast, Russian official says 
  5. FBI terrorism unit says "black identity extremists" pose violent threat 
  6. Why Terence Trent D'Arby became Sananda Maitreya: "It was that or death" 
  7. President Trump disapproval hits 67% in poll 
  8. VIDEO: Trump attempts to use Spanish accent to pronounce Puerto Rico 
  9. British tourist faces jail in Dubai after brushing against man in bar 
  10. The NRA made a concession on bump stocks – but did we all just get played?
I may have big feet and strong hairy legs, but I'm still a Swedish shoe model. Rape threats?

Monday, July 17, 2017

Sex Manual: Halal Guide to Mind Blowing Sex

Author Umm Muladhat; Editors, Wisdom Quarterly; Goodreads.com; Amazon.com

Two years ago, I was congratulating a young Muslimah [female Muslim] on her engagement. She was thrilled about starting married life and you could see the happiness emanating from her as everyone gave her their best wishes.

A few months later, I could tell something was wrong. After some cajoling, she shyly admitted the truth: Her sex life was horrible. In fact, it was fast becoming non-existent. She had been a model Muslimah her entire life.

Before marriage, she had never so much as held a non-mahram’s hand, let alone become physically intimate with one. She had eagerly looked forward to marriage as a chance to finally indulge in all the physical intimacy she had postponed for the sake of Allah.

Radical Cleric vs. Trump (jensorensen.com)
But it wasn’t working. Coming from the medical field, she knew all the relevant biology. She could draw and label all the parts of male and female anatomy. She had taken fiqh [rules training about what's halal, the catechism] classes and knew the legal rulings of menstruation and intercourse. But she didn’t know sex.

Oh, she knew the mechanics. Insert penis into vagina. Climax. Withdraw. But she didn’t know how to make her husband yearn for her in bed. She didn’t know what he liked. She didn’t even know what she herself liked!

"Your religion is bull*hit!"
They had begun eagerly, but after a few weeks realized that neither of them was truly enjoying having sex with the other. And so began my impromptu sex skills workshop.

I threw at her all the information I’d gathered over years of marriage, things I’d learned from experience, tidbits I’d gleaned from friends, tips I’d picked up from magazine articles, one thing here, two things there. All those bits had accumulated into a very healthy and robust sex life between me and my husband.

More Muslims than Jews are Americans.
I gave her everything, fervently hoping that it would help her in her marital life. A month later, I saw her again. This time she had a gigantic smile on her face:
 
“Please, write this down and share it with other Muslim girls. No one teaches this. We’re thrown into marriage and only know the fiqh [technical rules interpreting sharia] and the biology.”

Amazon prints here, we will bomb here.
I wrote down everything I told her on a Word document and emailed it to her. She shared it with her friends who were newly married. They shared it with their friends. Before long, word trickled back to me that people were asking me to write a book on the subject. So here it is. The Muslimah Sex Manual: A Halal Guide to Mind Blowing Sex

Friday, June 5, 2015

Pink female SEX pill approved by FDA

Rob Stein (npr.org); Ashley Wells, CC Liu, Amber Larson, Wisdom Quarterly; New York Times
Now you're all wet, baby! - Shut up, you sexist jerk with your for-profit science.
Oh-my-bodhisattva, what have I done under placebo?
For 15 years, Carla Price and her husband's sex life was great. But then things began to change.
 
"Before, I would want to have sex," says Price, who is 50 and lives in central Missouri. "But over the years my sexual desire has just dwindled to nothing."
 
Price has no idea why. She's healthy. She's not really stressed out about anything. And she's still totally crazy about her husband.
 
A screen shot from the documentary "Orgasm Inc."
Poison all problems.
"It's not that our relationship got boring," Price says. "Because it's actually the opposite -- we became closer as we got older together."

"We live in a culture that has historically discounted the importance of sexual pleasure and sexual desire for women." 
- Terry O'Neill, president, National Organization for Women 

Junior Anti-Sex League (1984)
But her lack of interest in sex almost wrecked their marriage.
 
"It did get to the point where my husband thought that perhaps we just needed to divorce," she says.
 
Women like Price, who see their decreasing sex drive as a problem, are at the center of an intense, emotional debate that's been raging for years over whether the Food and Drug Administration should approve the first drug that claims to boost a woman's libido [sexual desire].
 
NPR reached Price through Sprout Pharmaceuticals Inc., the company that makes the drug.
 
Mountains of "little blue pills" and their chemical kin have transformed the way many people think about sex and aging.
A sea of chemicals
"Men have a number of treatment options for sexual dysfunction, says Cindy Whitehead, Sprout's CEO. "We haven't yet gotten to one for women's most common dysfunction."
 
"Up until now," she says, "the treatment paradigm for women with sexual dysfunction has essentially been: Let's take a drug that works in men and let's see if it works in women."

"The misrepresentation that 'everybody should be having it... has a problem if they don't have it,' is to change what sexuality is into more of a medical thing." 
- Leonore Tiefer, psychologist, New York University 
If you struggle you'll fail (LiH).
None of them did. But Sprout's drug, flibanserin, takes a totally different approach than, say, Viagra. Instead of increasing blood flow to the genitals, flibanserin affects a different part of the body: the brain.
 
Flibanserin shifts the balance of three key brain chemicals, Whitehead says. The drug, she says, increases "excitatory factors for sex" -- dopamine and norepinephrine -- and decreases serotonin, which can dampen the sex drive.
 
But there's a lot of skepticism about flibanserin. The FDA has rejected it twice, saying there wasn't much evidence it works. The agency also questioned the drug's safety, especially with long-term, daily use.
 
Sprouts' Whitehead (Allen G. Breed/AP)
"The combination of...not very robust effectiveness, and the fact that the safety profile had not been really characterized very well at all made us reach that conclusion, that it really wasn't ready for approval," says Sandra Kweder, deputy director of the FDA's Office of New Drugs.
 
The company acknowledges flibanserin can have side effects, including sleepiness, nausea, and dizziness. And there are no results yet, Sprout says, on whether the drug might interfere with the [presumably] helpful action of Zoloft, Prozac, or other SSRI antidepressants, which are thought to work primarily by boosting levels of serotonin in the brain.
 
"Women...want drugs that work.
And this doesn't seem to be one of them." 
- Cindy Pearson, executive director, National Women's Health Network
 
But Whitehead argues that flibanserin is safe and says the company's studies show it can help many women.
 
Katherine Streeter for NPR
Testosterone power!
"We increase their desire by 53 percent," she says of study participants. "We decrease their distress by 29 percent, and then they doubled their number of satisfying sexual events."
 
Whitehead argues the FDA is holding flibanserin to a higher standard than it uses to evaluate drugs for men. And some women's rights advocates worry that might be true.
Choose sex over hypocrisy (Stivers)
"We live in a culture that has historically discounted the importance of sexual pleasure and sexual desire for women," says Terry O'Neill, president of the National Organization for Women. "And I fear that it's that cultural attitude that men's sexual health is extremely important, but women's sexual health is not so important. That's the cultural attitude that I want to be sure the FDA has not, maybe unconsciously, imported into its deliberative process." More
Patriarchy: When sex goes wrong
Patriarchs Dick Cheney and fellow Christian Republican Dennis Hastert, D.C. (AP)

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Oops, wrong party. - Not so fast, Jeff.
What could go wrong as we medicate every perceived problem and inconvenience in America? The medical system has money it needs to make, and we have problems we need solved, so what if our livers suffer in the process of chasing easy cures? Why look into the deeper causes -- institutional sexism, bias, childhood sexual trauma, emotional and physical harm, oppression, and shaming... Then there are the hypocrites and molesters -- Catholic Christian priests, conservative Republican lawmakers, military comrades, and so on.

The gay Church fathers made me do it!
Closet homosexual child molester former Republican House Speaker Hastert: But years before [her brother's] death, his sister said, he told her that his first homosexual contact was with [former Republican House Speaker, former high school teacher and coach, nominal Christian, and hypocrite] Hastert and that it lasted throughout his high school years.

Let's keep this quiet, says hypocrite Hastert
[Her brother] Stephen Reinboldt attended Yorkville High School, where Hastert was a history teacher and coach from 1965 to 1981. In an interview aired Friday on ABC's "Good Morning America," Burdge said Hastert had been a [homosexual] father figure to her [molested] brother but also caused him irreparable harm [through rape and ongoing sexual abuse]. More
 
Yum, yum, that's terrible! I mean, really, guys, quit it! (Rick Perry)