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| Awakened Women of Buddhism in the Therigatha |
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- *Vajja: "fault" can also mean "what is obstructive to spiritual progress."
- **The daytime spent in seclusion in meditation.
- ***Anjali mudra: hands placed palm to palm respectfully.
- "Elder" (theri or thera) refers to nuns and monks of ten years or more.
- Sources: A I,24; Thig 107-111; J 509; Ap 11 No.21 (p.560).
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Wednesday, June 26, 2019
"Women in Ancient India"

Within a week after the birth of Prince Siddhartha, who decades later was to become "the Buddha," his biological mother, Queen Maya, passed away.| Scythian mother and prince |
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| The birth of the Buddha-to-be (Bodhisattva) attended by devas and Scythian ladies |
- [They were cousins born on the same day. She went on to become an enlightened nun and the greatest disputant in the land, who is referred to as Ven. Bhaddhakaccana and Rahulamata, thereby hiding how famous she became when her husband came back as the Enlightened One and she, her son, and many Scythians went forth into monastic life to gain enlightenment.]
King Suddhodana then commented on her great love and said: “Venerable sir, when my step-daughter heard that you were wearing saffron robes [of a wandering ascetic], she also robed herself in saffron. When she heard you were taking only one meal a day, she also did the same. When she heard that you had given up high and luxurious seats, she did the same. When she heard that you had given up garlands and perfumes, she also gave them up. When her relatives sent messages to say that they would maintain her, she did not even look at a single one. So virtuous was my step-daughter.”
The Buddha then said: “Not only in this rebirth, but in a previous births, too, she cared for me.” He then related the rebirth story called the Candakiṇṇāra Jātaka....
3. Visākhā
Visākhā, the devout daughter of Dhanañjaya, a millionaire of Sāvatthī, can be classed as an ideal lay woman.
Judged by modern standards, Visākha remains an example to all women. She was intelligent and gifted with many feminine charms. In addition, she was fabulously wealthy. She was able to win the love and esteem of Puññavaddhana, the son of Migāra, another millionaire of Sāvatthī.
Her young husband did not hold the same spiritual and religious views as Visākhā who, quite early, became a lay follower of the Buddha. Nevertheless, due to Visākhā’s tolerance, there was always domestic happiness.
As a young girl she was so intelligent that she was able to grasp the Buddha’s teaching, the Dharma, when he came, as he often did, to her home on her father’s invitation for alms. It is said that when she heard the Dharma from the Buddha for the first time, she attained the first stage of enlightenment (stream-entry)....
The marriage of Visākhā and Puññavaddhana was a great event in the city. Visākhā received from her father, Dhanañjaya, as an heirloom, an exquisitely rich ornament called the mahālātā pilandhana ("great parure") and Ten Admonitions from her father that were the secret of her happy home life:
Ten Admonitions from a Father
- “Indoor fire should not be taken outside the home.” (Troubles at home should not be discussed with outsiders, as such talk tends to increase troubles in the family).
- “Outside fire should not be brought inside.” (Talk of outsiders who speak ill of the family should not be repeated in the house. Such tale-bearing destroys family harmony).
- “Give only to those who give.” (One should lend to those who will return what is given).
- “Do not give to those who do not give.” (One should not lend to those who do not return the articles).
- “Give to one who gives as well as to one who gives not.” (Poor relatives and friends should be helped even if they do not repay loans).
- “Sit happily.” (She should sit in a becoming way and consider status and seniority. In the presence of her parents-in-law and her husband, she should remain standing [as a mark of respect and deference]).
- “Eat happily.” (She should take food after seeing that seniors and husband are served and that the servants are provided for).
- “Sleep happily.” (Before a wife retires for the night, the needs of the seniors of the family should be seen to, and she should check that doors are locked and other household duties are done).
- “Wait upon the household fire.” (The needs of husband and senior family members in the house should be well attended to as a sacred duty).
- “Honor the household divinities.” (Parents-in-law and husband should be honored as the devas of the home).
4. Sad Kisāgotamī
When the Buddha was residing at Jetavana Monastery, Kisāgotamī came to him with a very sad tale. She belonged to the Gotama (Sanskrit Gautama) clan and was therefore a relative of Prince Siddhartha, the Buddha.
She was remarkably beautiful with a delicate, tender, and frail body. Because of this, she was known as Kisa ("Slender") Gotami. She married well, her husband being a wealthy merchant. But when her baby died... the story is a famous Buddhist one about what happened.
5. Sexy, rich Paṭācārā
When the Buddha was residing at Jetavana, there lived in the neighborhood a young girl named Paṭācārā. She was endowed with beauty, riches, and she could have won the love of any young man in marriage.
Nevertheless, she had a clandestine love affair with one of her household servants. And she was aware that her parents would never agree to her unequal marriage, so she eloped and lived with him in a jungle den.
As time passed and she was expecting her first baby, she had a very keen desire to return home to give birth (as was the custom).
But Paṭācārā’s husband was afraid to face his former masters, as he thought that he would be punished for eloping. She, however, was determined to see her parents, and she ran away.
On the way, however, a baby boy was born and yielding to the pleadings of her husband who had followed her, she returned to their hut in the forest. And a second time with a new baby... leading to a famous Buddhist story... More
Tuesday, January 27, 2015
Buddhism in a Nutshell
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| The historical Buddha carved in stone, Polonnaruwa, Sri Lanka (Sallyrango/flickr.com) |
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| Buddha and His Teachings |
The Buddha did not expect followers to be constantly pondering unsatisfactoriness (dukkha, woe, ill, suffering, disappointment) and lead a miserable or unhappy life. He exhorts them to be
always happy and cheerful, for joy (piti) is one of the Seven Factors of Enlightenment.![]() |
| Buddha Aukana, Sri Lanka (Cyrille Gibot/flickr) |
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| Women visit Anuradhapura (Cyrille Gibot) |
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| The Buddha in Kandy, near the relic of the tooth, Sri Lanka (Tam Church/flickr) |
- Sunita, the timid scavenger, who attained arhatship or full enlightenment, was admitted by the Buddha into the Monastic Order.
- Angulimala, the mass murderer, was converted into a compassionate saint.
- Alavaka the fierce yakkha went for guidance to the Buddha and became a saint.
- Ambapali the courtesan entered the Monastic Order and attained arhatship.
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| Ayya Tathaloka (right) and other Buddhist nuns visit temple, Aug. 2010 (WR) |
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| Buddha at Bentotagama vihara, Sri Lanka |
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Spiritual Makeover: Christine, Buddhist Nun

Raised in Alberta, Canada and a Buddhist for many years, she wanted to become a Tibetan nun, renouncing the household life, a life-altering decision made with confidence.- “Didn’t it feel weird to cut your hair off?”
- “Why did you choose THIS new career?”
She patiently answered my questions with a great deal of humor and did not seem to be insulted at all.
She looks totally cute, though, with her buzz cut and her red [Tibetan] nun outfit, which she recently bought in a clothes store catering to nuns and monks. More

But the monks were very relaxed and amused (bemused?) We posed the question this way: "If we ordain, what underwear will we wear, what color?" They smiled, not understanding. "Westerners ask the strangest things," they confided. But we wanted a complete "spirtual makeover." So we pressed on until they laughed and assured us -- "Any kind you want, any color, whatever you need!" We were sad, of course. We were hoping to gird our loins with, I don't know, something that would make us part of the Brotherhood of the traveling robes. You know, ancient saffron wraps that aid meditation and reduce lust. A Hindu yogi later showed us an interesting orange adjustable girding. It looks like a headband. But he laughed when we tried to put it on our heads. It ties like a bikini wrap and can be used for zazen but probably not yoga due to shifting and loosening. Monastics are human and kinder than average folk.Wandering and Wandering: Spiritual Travel
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Tuesday, March 8, 2011
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Friday, December 11, 2009
Burma Watch International interview
(VOA) Canada-based Burma Watch International Director Dr. Alice Khin Saw Win said May is a significant month in Burma politics. In this week's Women's Corner interview Dr. Alice talks about her views on the current National Convention, the 14th anniversary of Burma's 1990 elections in which Democracy leader Daw Aung San Suu Kyi's NLD party won a landslide victory... Listen now:Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Women's Place in Buddhism
One should not doubt that the sexism that pervades the world outside of shamanistic and Pagan traditions also touched Buddhism. The social reality is that sexism is still very much alive. Even as this lay Buddhist writer sending in a letter to the editor in defense of women at The Island reveals, a great deal of ignorance still surrounds women. Moreover, Sri Lanka, which is where The Island is based, was a British colony and took on a great deal of the bias inherent in the English educational system.
Nevertheless, the letter brings up some good points. There is indeed a text that claims that women -- who are fully capable of becoming enlightened, seeing nirvana, being liberated in this very life, and even teaching the Dharma -- cannot become buddhas unless they were to first be reborn as men. Is this true? It would seem not. Is it true that it is written and believed? There can be no doubt about that. Assuming it is true, one must always bear in mind that living beings are neither male nor female. Rebirth from one sex to the other is common. And beyond the level of brahmas (divinities), there is no sexual dimorphism, no male and female, no sexual distinction. Therefore, men cannot claim to be "men" except that they temporarily manifest a type of body which is predominantly masculine and less feminine.
G.A.D. Sirimal’s letter on "Tragic discrimination against women" in the columns of The Island (11/07/09) prompts me to reply to correct his misinterpretation of buddhahood and womanhood. These are his words:

A buddha-aspirant has to be born as a male in his last birth, not because man is superior to woman. A bodhisattva’s journey to buddhahood or enlightenment in his last birth, is a trying experience, a woman is not equal to. [This is where the writer falls off a cliff trying to defend equality]. For instance, the [superfluous] six year period of austerity Prince Siddhartha practiced, prior to attaining buddhahood or [perfect] enlightenment, is not something that a woman, tender and physically weaker than a man, could withstand. According to the Buddha’s Teachings, gender is not considered a [disqualifier] to attain nirvana (deathlessness/bliss).
The Buddha’s retinue (parivara) consists of four divisions -- monks and nuns as well as male and female lay disciples. Anyone who belongs to one of these divisions can attain the supreme bliss of nirvana in this very life, if one follows the Teachings (Four Noble Truths and the Noble Eightfold Path) diligently. There is no discrimination whatsoever against a female. (Except apparently in the imagination or social conception of the writer).
All beings are equal. One is not superior to another by birth, race, caste, creed, or gender. That is the Buddha’s Teaching. Of the three compendiums (Tripitaka, the three divisions of the Teaching), the Book of Discipline was recited by the enlightened monk Upali, a great elder (maha thera) of the Buddha who was born to a so-called low caste (scavenger) family. There was no discrimination in the Buddha's dispensation (Sasana).
Limited space here does not permit me to further elucidate my point that there is no discrimination against women in the Teachings of Gautama Buddha. The nuns Patachara and Kisagotami are two famous women who were ordained by the Buddha before attaining enlightenment. The nuns Sujata and Visakha are great names associated with Gautama Buddha’s lifetime. One should not rush to hasty conclusions and pass judgment on anything without knowing the facts. Source




















