Showing posts with label lobha. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lobha. Show all posts

Saturday, January 20, 2024

"Greed" is bad? Yes, very bad (cartoon)


Do you approve of greed? - No, not at all.
"The love of money is the root of all evil."
"Greed is good," we read Wisdom Quarterly say. How could this publication possibly defend "greed" of all things?
That's what the lengthy explanation was for. Is greed good or bad? Actually, it depends how one defines "greed/" Sure, in English it's bad. That's why early British translators of Buddhist sutras into English chose it.

The Buddhist term lobha is meant to connote the bad parts of craving, grasping, greediness, selfishness, possessiveness, clinginess, avarice, stinginess, the unwillingness to share, to help, to care for others. Of course, that's bad.

The enlightened self-interest to plant seeds of good that will only serve us later (unless the mental karma bears its results much sooner, that feeling of contentment, health, generosity, and the Four Divine Abidings or Brahmaviharas).

That is to say, giving, sharing, and sacrificing for others is SO good that, later, one will regret not doing it when one had a chance. Give. Help. Comfort others. We certainly will wish for comfort and kindness. Will we have set out the causes and conditions to receive it? This world is ruled by karma, the ability of deeds to give rise to a later result on a moral plane.

It is wholly wrong to think that someone is going to thank us, that a hungry dog is not going to bite the hand that attempts to feed it. "No good deed goes unpunished." But that is NOT karma. Karma is the fruiting, the ripening of a deed. That act has not yet ripened. So it may be that we have a dog bite, but it is not at all true that we have exhausted our well-intentioned act to provide a canine with sustenance when it was hungry.

King, let go as I let go. It's good.
If we learn nothing else about giving and power of giving, we should know a famous quote the Buddha uttered concerning nongreed (alobha).

So greed (a self-centered unwillingness to give) is bad.

What? Why? "You just said greed was good."

To be exact, Gordon Gekko said it was good. We just found a way in which that statement is self-evidently true. It's semantics. Is greed good? Well, it's good in a common way of speaking, using the meaning of the word "good" in the sense of meaning "what will work." 
  • Will greed work? Will it make someone rich? It could in the short run. What the Buddha was talking about, what we are talking about, is the long run, the full course of the karma (action) playing out. Steal out of greed. What that act of stealing comes to fruition, will it be looked back on as having been a good deed? No way. The act of stealing is incapable of yielding (karmically resulting in) a welcome, pleasing, pleasant, wished for result. But what happens immediately (like being in possession of what was stolen) may indeed feel pleasant and may alleviate the painful desire when one did not have it. That good feeling is NOT the karmic result (vipaka or  phala) of stealing. What is? Deprivation, neediness, wanting, poverty, and so on -- the very things one did not want, was trying to avoid, wished to be rid of. IF one knew the results of bad karma, one would not do it. The results are too painful, too exponential (one single deed bearing many unwelcome results). One would do good deeds because of the pleasant results, which are also exponential. One act of giving leads to receiving many times over. It's a kind of thing of which one might say, "It's not fair. It's not right. It's not just." We know neither what we did in the past (in countless past lives) nor what others did in the past, so how could we begin to judge either ourselves or others or what's fair and what's not? We judge in utter ignorance, full of wrong view (miccha ditthi), and we become confused and confuse others. A Buddha emerges from the world, explains things, and we fail to learn that Teaching that would guide us to the good and be of such benefit. We needn't give up our favorite religion or cultural attachment to learn or practice the Dharma. But, indeed, this Dharma, this Teaching, this Path runs against the stream, counter to our customs. If we were already living in the right way to eventually make us happy and fulfilled, what need would there have been for a Buddha to teach anything? It would be superfluous. But exactly because we have been living for a long time in the wrong way, in a way that yields suffering after suffering (disappointment after disappointment, dukkha in all its forms), the Buddha had something to say, something vital, something of use to the many blind beings with no idea what reality is.
How is greed good? Let's say you're going out tonight because you want to meet someone, and you ask me, "Is this cologne good?" (It stinks! And you smell like a horny skunk!) So, yeah, it's good -- inasmuch as it will get you the attention you seek in the Meat Market you'll be visiting, where everyone's drinking and carousing, being deafened and blinded by drums and lights from a disco ball.

Greed is bad (avarice leads to ruin), which should be obvious but obviously isn't because we need an enlightened world teacher to tell us, "Hey, watch out for this motivation." Greed, in English, means going too far. "How much is enough?" Charlie Sheen asks the Gordon Gekko character. Gordon came up from the streets, so it's not a matter of enough. It's a matter of winning, of taking it all.

And that's the thing with money and sensuality and worldly things, "One thing is too much, and all of it is not enough." Alcohol, for example. One drink is too much, yet all the drinks is still not enough. Stealing one dollar is too much, yet stealing all the dollars would not be enough." That wouldn't fill the void, fulfill us, satisfy us, satiate us, bring us contentment. The same with coke, heroin, sex partners, cars, real estate, gold bars, flesh, fame, glory, and on and on.

What could possibly fill the void?
 
Sir, no cash is allowed in the safe deposit boxes.
But, wait, that's not all. That's not what's wrong with greed. There's something much worse. Not only will it never lead to satisfaction or contentment (whereas internal letting go would), it is going to lead to a lot of troubles.

The Sigala Sutta lists some of them, but karma (what goes around comes around, justice, getting back from the world what we give to others, crime and punishment, cause and effects, law of attraction, calling into our experience what we put other through, and so on) can be thought of as the results of our deed or deeds. Even one deed has many results. Many deeds have an exponential number of results.

Out of greed, I screw over my business partner. Not satisfied with my portion of the profits, I take that person's portion, too. That's greed, right? That's what the English term means. So so far we've been talking about the result of just going after and getting our portion, but now we see what greed is really like. Greed is bad because I can't get enough, and I start to steal more. Does stealing more get me what I want? No. Not good. Now, instead of a fat pension, a golden parachute, a mansion, and a gorgeous arm charm, I'm facing charges, fines, lawyer's bills, and ignominy. Greed has ruined everything. Far from getting me what I wanted, it got me exactly what I didn't want, what I tried so hard to avoid. How could it be? I thought Greed was my friend! Some friend. The Sigala Sutta could have taught us about bad friends and good ones.

Greed leads to ruin, to constant dissatisfaction, to a feeling of poverty and want even when we have plenty. American capitalism is like that.

Killing Osage Indians for cash
There's a better way English writers call "enlightened self-interest." That means creating win-win situations wherever we go. I take from a business, but I make sure that business keeps going, keeps producing, keeps making everyone rich. I keep them healthy to keep myself healthy. I make them healthy to make myself healthy. I, rather than only thinking of myself in a selfish and self-absorbed way, think of others as a means of preserving myself. That means that wherever I go, everyone is happy to see me, happy with me, praising my actions, and profiting me over the long term. Doesn't that sound much better than being greedy, being selfish, being all about Number One? Of course. It's probably harder to do, so people do the easy and come to ruin. Not all greedy people succeed, so greed is not good. Greed is bad. Greed is bad because even when it works (in getting us what we wanted), it screws us in also getting us exactly what we didn't want.

The Buddha pointed this out in terms of karma (actions that have the ability to produce their results much later), saying that because of stinginess one will fail to give, and by failing to give, one will not receive. One wants to receive. That's what we want. But it will not happen because we didn't give. We didn't have enlightened self-interest to think of the future beyond what we could see.

The very person who failed to protect others will not be protected, who deprived others will be deprived...will get what comes around. Is that what you wanted? Is that what you called "good"? No, no way. It's the exact opposite of what we wanted. It's unenlightened. It's ignorant. It's hateful and based on fear. Why? Because it's greedy, and greed is that way. Greed, ultimately, is bad. It gets us what we want at the moment, sure, but it gets us a bunch of trouble we never wanted.

Montaigne's French philosophy

The French philosopher Michel de Montaigne (via Wiki) had something to say about it. Of greed he thought that
  • "It is not want, but rather abundance, that creates avarice."
  • "All moneyed men I conclude to be covetous," and that:
  • 'Tis the greatest folly imaginable to expect that Fortune [Fortuna or Lady Luck] should ever sufficiently arm us against herself;
  • 'Tis with our own arms that we are to fight her;
  • Accidental ones will betray us in the pinch of the business.
  • If I lay up, 'tis for some near and contemplated purpose; not to purchase lands, of which I have no need, but to purchase pleasure:
  • "Non esse cupidum, pecunia est; non esse emacem, vertigal est."
  • [That is, "Not to be covetous is money; not to be acquisitive is revenue." — Cicero, Paradox, vi. 3.]
  • "I neither am in any great apprehension of wanting, nor in desire of any more:
  • "Divinarum fructus est in copia; copiam declarat satietas."
  • [That is, "The fruit of riches is in abundance; satiety declares abundance." — Idem, ibid., vi. 2.]
  • "And I am very well pleased that this reformation in me has fallen out in an age naturally inclined to avarice, and that I see myself cleared of a folly so common to old men, and the most ridiculous of all human follies" [40].
  • Seth MacFarlane. American Dad, "Saga of the Golden Turd"; Pink Floyd; Dhr. Seven, Ashley Wells, Wisdom Quarterly

Tuesday, January 17, 2023

Greed, Karma, Dalai: Golden Turd (cartoon)

Seth MacFarlane, American Dad, TBS, 9/14/20; Dhr. Seven, Amber Larson, Wisdom Quarterly
The Dalai Lama appears alongside Pope, Muslim imam, Jewish rabbi, Hindu sadhu, New Ager.
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American Dad: "The History of the Golden Turd"
(TBS) Watch the full story of Roger’s jewel-encrusted golden turd that corrupts the hearts/minds of all who encounter it. Roger the alien wishes for a super power, not realizing that his turds are treasures on earth.

Greed, hatred, and delusion = unskillful karma
Everyone who comes into contact with his golden turd rots from the inside, overcome by "greed" and impelled to unskillful deeds.

"Greed" is a popular mistranslation of the Buddhist term lobha (attraction, wanting), which manifests as clinging and all sorts of trouble, namely, bad karma.

Due to this passion -- from liking and preferring to avarice and unbridled greed -- beings get into all sorts of karmic trouble, as it motivates unskillful deeds like killing, stealing, sexual misconduct, lying, and taking drugs.

Hey, Popie, and you, too, Rabbi -- don't touch my golden turd! - Shut up, Dolly!
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Back off, Pope. This golden turd I must have!
The Buddha taught the Five Precepts, which is abstaining from these five misdeeds to spare beings from being sucked into lower worlds and terrible situations full of suffering. By temporarily freeing the heart/mind of these, one develops meditation and meritorious deeds leading to calm and liberating insight or wisdom. Seeing things as they really are, one lets go.

In letting go, one is freed from the Wheel of Life and Death. Suffering is ended. And what could have been done was finally done, and there is no more suffering to come.

But letting go will not come about by an act of willpower or fear. It can only come about through insight -- the direct realization of the true nature of things. Once this is seen, one has no interest and effortlessly lets go and abandons clinging. The heart is thus freed.

Ayahuasca with Roger the Shaman

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Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Christian Girl's Guide to Sex (The Kama Sutta)

Amber Larson, Dhr. Seven, Pat Macpherson, Crystal Quintero, Wisdom Quarterly; Wikipedia News; G.P. Malalasekera (Dictionary of Pali Names); Ven. Thanissaro (accesstoinsight.org)
I think sex work is the only way out of this mess. - You or me? - Either way. Sex sells, and now the Church is less prudish about us selling it to anyone with cash. Jesus would approve. - That's blasphemy! - So stone me. I'm a Buddhist, and we're fine with consensual sex.

The Buddhist Kama Sutta is translated below.

Heather Veitch
Woo, do it for the Lord! (Ms.Veitch)
JC's Girls is an Evangelical Christian women's organization in the United States whose members preach the Christian gospel to female workers in the sex industry.

The group does not focus on conversion but rather on communicating its message, which is that Christians exist who are not judging female sex workers and are willing to accept them.

NOW the way is...I'm blushing.
Now based at The Rock Church in San Diego, the organization was founded in 2005 at Sandals Church in Riverside, California, by Heather Veitch (pictured), a naked stripper for four years before becoming a Christian and leaving the rigorous sex industry in 1999.

Terry Barone, spokesman of the California Southern Baptist Convention, said that JC's Girls members "are doing what Jesus [famous Jewish-Buddhist Issa] did...He ministered to prostitutes and tax collectors."

Criticism of the organization has focused on the way members dress -- too ungodly -- and the fact that they do not explicitly encourage women in the sex industry to quit. [How dare they allow them to remain doing what they were doing; critics feel they should at least be shamed into feeling bad about it and guilty and repentant.] Philip Sherwell of the Calgary Herald called the evangelism of JC's Girls "America's most unusual Christian outreach operation." More

"According to our test results: Joseph...you are NOT the father!" (Jeremy Kyle)
Jesus Christ was married to...
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The Buddhist "Kama Sutra"
G.P. Malalasekera (palikanon.com) edited by Wisdom Quarterly
Before enlightenment, Prince Siddhartha was a hedonist.
The Kāma Sutta (the Pali version of the Sanskrit word "sutra") is the first of the Atthakavagga ("Octet Chapter") of the Sutta Nipāta ("Woven Cadences").
The story of the discourse goes that the Buddha spoke to a Brahmin -- who in the Kāmanīta Jātaka is referred to as Kāmanīta Brāhmana (J.ii.212) -- who was cutting down trees on the banks of the Aciravatī river while preparing a field to grow [a monocrop of] grain.

He spoke again to the Brahmin on several other occasions, when the latter was engaged in various operations in the field.

Is Jesus a 2000-year-old virgin, Mary Mag?
The Brahmin, pleased by the Buddha's courtesy, resolved to invite him to a meal when the harvest was gathered. But the day before reaping the corn in the field, heavy rains fell, the river flooded, and the corn was all washed away.

The Buddha had foreseen that this would happen and he visited the Brahmin to console him. It was on this last occasion that the sutra was preached. At the end of the discourse the Brahmin became a stream enterer (sotāpanna, the first stage of enlightenment).
  • Source: Sn.vv.766-71; SnA.ii.511ff; J.iv.167f; cp. DhA.iii.284f; see also MNid.i.1ff.
  • The Kāma Sutta contains questions asked by a deva (fairy, angel, well-born spirit) and the Buddha's answers there: A person should not become a slave or surrender him or self as prey to others [prostitution?], and speech should always be gentle (S.i.44) 
  • Kāma or Kāmaguna Sutta deals with the five kinds of pleasures of the senses (A.iv.458; S.v.60) 
DISCOURSE:  The Kama Sutta
"Sensual Pleasure Discourse" (Sn 4.1), Wisdom Quarterly translation based on Ven. Thanissaro
Porn actress Jesse Jane likes JC's Gs
If one, longing for sensual pleasure, achieves it, yes, that person is enraptured at heart. The mortal gets what is desired.

But if for that person -- longing, yearning -- the pleasures diminish, that person is shattered, as if shot through with an arrow.

Whoever avoids sensual desires, however -- as one would one's foot the head of a snake -- that person goes beyond, mindfully transcends, this attachment in the world.

A person who is greedy for fields (farmland), territory, gold (money), cattle (marks of prestige and prosperity), horses (vehicles), servants (slaves), employees (subordinates), women (sexual partners), relatives (family relations), many sensual pleasures (of all six of the senses, mind being the sixth), that person is overpowered with weakness and trampled by troubles.
  • See the Sigalovada Sutra to see why
For pain invades that person like water rushes into a cracked boat.

So one, always mindful, is wise to avoid [craving for] sensual desires. Letting them go, one would cross over the flood (samsara, the Wheel of Rebirth, and inundation by the defilements and taints of the heart/mind) like one who, having bailed out the boat, has safely reached the farther shore.

    Sunday, February 15, 2015

    Love, Sex, and Attachment (video)

    Amber Larson, Seth Auberon, Wisdom Quarterly; Helen Fisher, Krista Tippett (onbeing.org)

    Love and Sex and Attachment
    Meeting my match (pinterest.com)
    "Americans love romantic love. We just love romantic love. But we don't pay much attention to attachment," says Helen Fisher, chief scientist at Match.com.

    In her TED talks, which have been viewed by millions of people, and the scientific research she does for Match.com, she uses science as a sobering, if entertaining, instrument to see and understand what feels like the most meaningful encounters of our lives.

    She is a leading anthropologist/explorer on the new frontier of seeing into our brains during sex and when we are in love. And she reveals how we can take this knowledge as a form of power -- to give conscious new meaning to the thrilling and sometimes treacherous human realms of love, sex, attachment, and marriage. More
    In the Room The whole interview includes fascinating insights from this biological anthropologist that did not fit into the radio hour. Arranged marriages create the conditions for love and romance to happen, brain science gives nuance to the term “animal attraction.”

    Prof. Helen Fisher, Ph.D. is a Visiting Research Associate and member of the Center for Human Evolutionary Studies in the Department of Anthropology at Rutgers University. She is also the Chief Scientific Advisor to the Internet dating site Match.com. Her books include Anatomy of Love: A Natural History of Mating, Marriage and Why We Stray, and Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love.
    Famous Amy Fischer, teen lover (CBS News)
    Juvenile accused of running child porn Instagram site Pembroke Pines police are asking parents in South Florida to check the online accounts of their children after three juveniles were accused of creating an Instagram account to solicit and post explicit photos of other minors. They arrested two boys, ages 12 and 13, and a girl, 13, on Thursday, following a 10-week investigation. They face charges of electronic transmission of child pornography.
    Police keep killing with impunity. But he was drunk with a rock in hand. Kill. (cbsnews.com)
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    On Being’s special series, "Science on Human Frontiers," delves into new wisdom about the complex mysteries of the universe. From string theory to the search for life on other planets to the science of well being, we explore how science is informing what it means to be human and how we can live.
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    Dark Browns, Peaches, and the Wisdom of Children Children ask questions that challenge the best of parents. They also expose the weaknesses of our responses. A set of reflections from a black South African mother and activist who is confronted by the truth of her daughter's words and embracing the "weirdness" of their "dark brown and peach" family. 
    Human identity is more fluid than ever before. How do we live gracefully in this moment of change, helping to shape it? How do we nurture common life, even as we are reinventing it? With Imani Perry, Richard Rodriguez, Michel Martin, and Nathan Schneider.
    Omid Safi, Feb. 12, 2015
    Islamophobia. The killing of three American college students in Chapel Hill, North Carolina has shaken the Muslim community to its core. Omid Safi remembers the extraordinary human beings we lost and the pain that may lead to a new civil rights movement.
    New iPad App. Work with Us. Omid on Grieving. Harry Potter Teaches Us About Reckoning with Evil. More Than an Icon, a Man Executive editor wraps up the week with stories on thinking about MLK differently and the horrors happening in the news. Trent Gilliss also shares the new On Being iPad app and some openings at On Being for you to consider. More

    Friday, December 13, 2013

    Of Mindsets and Monkeypots

    Petr Karel Ontl, "Of Mindsets and Monkeypots" (BPS/ATI); Dhr. Seven (ed.) Wisdom Quarterly
    I'm going ape over your dancing, baby. Dance, baby, dance! (rawstory.com)
      
    Monkey King
    In rural India, I am told, there are people who earn extra money by trapping and taming monkeys to be sold into slavery as pets.
     
    Over the years, through trial and error, several ways have been devised to capture these clever but greedy/grasping primates. But the simplest method is said to be THE MONKEYPOT. 

    Hey, monkey, it's a trap. Just let go! (redxb9)
    In a clearing, the trapper fastens a short piece of cord or chain to a stake or tree-stump. To the other end is attached a small pot with a narrow neck. Into this pot are dropped several nuts, fruit, or a clump of precious salt, and a few more are scattered on the ground. The trapper then hides out of sight.
     
    Soon a band of monkeys arrives and descends to feed. Before long, one of them discovers the contents of the pot. It puts its hand in the pot easily enough. But having grasped the enticing treat, it cannot pull its clenched fist out through the narrow opening no matter how hard it struggles. 

    [Why? Its narrowed hand can go in the neck, but its full hand is too big to pull out -- and, due to its grasping nature, it never thinks to let go.]

    Lust is the strongest manifestation of SENSUAL CRAVING, tanha and lobha or thirst and greed, just as VIEWS are the mind's obsession (Williams/laluzdejesus.com).
     
    It panics in fear and the trapped monkey creates a ruckus, which brings the trapper running with net and cage or skewer. The monkey's fate, for all its cleverness, is sealed.
     
    At first glance it would appear that the villager is the trapper, the baited pot his trap, and the poor monkey his victim. No doubt the villager sees things this way. The hapless simian, were it able to speak, would probably agree. 

    However, a closer look shows a different perspective. The villager is NOT the trapper, nor the pot the trap, because there is nothing holding the monkey:

    It could very easily remove its hand from the pot and rejoin the free monkey in the treetops if only it would let go of the nuts, the fruit, the salt. If it would only let go!
      
    Monkeys only? 
    I just want more and more love and...
    The monkey in this anecdote does not suspect that it is being held prisoner solely by its mind. It has found some treat. 

    Greed -- unreasonable and unreasoning desire -- has arisen. Though the jungle abounds with nuts and fruits and salt and all kinds of foods, the monkey's conditioned reaction dictates that it must have these as well.
     
    Its narrow mindset is the only thing that imprisons it, that prevents it from letting go, from seeing the absurdity of this predicament, this enslavement, this "trap" -- or the obvious way out of it.
     
    Now, before anyone makes any smug comments about the monkey and its intelligence, or the apparent lack thereof, and before we congratulate ourselves on our vastly superior reasoning powers, let us see where we ourselves stand.
     
    This business of letting go is so easy, yet so hard, for monkey and for human alike. We are both caught up in the same predicament. The details may differ, played out on higher levels of sophistication or complexity [and higher ones where celestial beings are caught up in more alluring space worlds], but the end result is the same: enslavement by concepts and conditioning. 

    While the monkey is done in by its greed for a few nuts, we humans are done in by our greed for wealth, fame, power, status, pleasure, and shiny trinkets and toys which we believe we absolutely must have and cannot live without. 

    You're still not getting it! I want what I want when I want it, and I expect you to know what that is without me having to explain it every single time. I don't think that's too hard!
     
    Even more fundamentally, we become enslaved by our attitudes and feelings toward them.
     
    We endlessly seek gratification for the senses: pleasant things to look at, to listen to, to touch, to taste, to smell. Moreover, we are spurred on by thoughts or concepts created by our ego-driven minds. 

    These last can be the hardest to satisfy since we cannot just please our senses and be content. Rather, we strive to fulfill fantasies of outdoing our peers, of turning them green with envy by having the biggest, the costliest, the latest, the shiniest. We are caught up in competition, in a game of one-up-manship. 
     
    It cannot even be said that we are materialistic: We don't know how to be! We do not genuinely enjoy and appreciate the material things we have, much less life itself. We don't even know how to relax. More
    • Petr Karel Ontl was born into a Bohemian-American family in Prague, Czechoslovakia, in 1942 and emigrated to the USA in 1949. He has been a Theravada Buddhist for the past 20 years affiliated with Bhavana Society, West Virginia, USA.

    Friday, November 29, 2013

    Lust, desire, and craving (video)

    Dhr. Seven and Amber Larson, CC Liu, Wisdom Quarterly; Wikipedia edit raga
    "Greed" lust as lobha in "Mondo Amore" (Williams/laluzdejesus.com)
      
    Craving?
    Young Buddhist Lisa Simpson fails to comprehend wanting stuff. While craving (tanha) is a source of disappointment (dukkha), it is typical of living beings, particularly beings like us living in a Sense Sphere (kama loka) world. Not ALL wanting is unskillful. The wish or desire, for example, for enlightenment (bodhi), complete-liberation (nirvana), wisdom (paññā), or compassion (karuna) is wholesome. Such a wish leads one to strive and eventually find them, even if one must let go even of that beneficial-wish rather than grasping at it to actually attain it. Letting go too soon is a big mistake. In the Parable of the Raft, one fashions a floating device for "crossing over" from enslavement to freedom. The time to let go is once meditation is something one looks forward to and the goal is at hand. Until then, keep doing it until you want to.
     
    GREED (Pali lobha or raga, Tibetan 'dod chags) is usually translated as "attachment," "passion," "lust," or "desire." But this is far too kind. It actually refers to craving, clinging, grasping, or hankering.

    It is craving things within the three spheres of existence, which produces immediate frustration and eventual disappointment.
     
    We crave for what is lasting, pleasurable, and personal in worlds that are radically impermanent, unsatisfactory, and impersonal

    Indian words have a broad range of meaning, and this is true of lobha, which runs the gamut from bias or preference to agonizing lust and hoarding behavior. It is easy to see how hoarding and being unable to let go is harmful, but it is almost impossible for an ordinary person to perceive how the very arising of a preference sets one up for disappointment and dissatisfaction.*
     
    Greed is identified as a factor in the following contexts:
    I lust you. - I love you.
    The Theravada commentarial text the Path of Purification (XIV, 162), which is analogous to the Path of Freedom preserved by Mahayana sources (although likely simply an early draft by the very same author), gives the following definition of "greed" (lobha):
     
    ...[G]reed has the characteristic of grasping an object like a monkey trap [a device where a monkey sticks its hand in a hole to get salt but can't get it out because of its grasped fist, which it never thinks to let go of even as it is captured by approaching hunters]. Its function is sticking, like flesh put on a hot grill. It is manifested as not letting go, like the dye of lamp-soot. Its proximate cause is seeing enjoyment [but not danger] in things that lead to bondage. Swelling with the current of craving, it should be regarded as sweeping (beings) with it to states of loss, just as a swift-flowing river sweeps to the great ocean.

    Lust, lust, lust
    I'm just saying, Tone it down. I was once young, too. - Mom, shaddup. You don't even know!!!
      
    "Why is lust talked about so much in religion? We have to have desire to survive." It is not that lust is the only problem we face on the road to freedom and happiness. Most of us think lust is happiness, or a desperate emptiness that gives us something to fill, which feels good doing.

    The Buddha talked a great deal about sensuality, and sex is promoted to the rank of poster child for the class of sense pleasures. But "greed" includes them all. What is usually translated as sexual misconduct (kamesu micchacara) actually, more broadly, refers to kāma or sensual misconduct.
     
    Go on, take it; it makes me feel like a man. - OMG, my mom warned me about this!!!
     
    What is sensual in this sense? Everything related to the five senses is sensual as is abuse of the sixth sense thinking about again and again enjoying the other five: (1) sights, (2) sounds, (3) tactile sensations [sex would be mostly here but can, of course, encompass all of the senses], (4) tastes, (5) fragrances, and (6) thoughts (or mind/heart as a sense that perceives or stands in for the other senses or takes in its own unique objects not accessible to the other five).
    • Most people think we only have five senses, but we have far more than that. The Buddha talked about six, but that is not a limit, just a handy convention. This is true of other numbers in Buddhism: If one looks carefully, the Five Aggregates of Clinging are not limited to five; those five groupings are pedagogical and can be extended to as many groupings or heaps as one wishes to define. More heaps will not change the fact that there is no being behind them experiencing the process; there is only the process. What are our other senses? According to Vsauce they include, proprioception or kinesthesia, balance, acceleration, temperature, pain reception, time lapse, pulmonary stretch, peripheral chemo reception, distension, esophageal reception, pharynx mucosal reception... If we were, or become, sea mammals we'll gain echolocation (which some humans already enjoy), thermal reception and/or broadened light reception to see in the dark, and so on, and if and when we become devas we will gain refined senses and psychic faculties, and so on, which some people and hybrids (like some Chinese children) already possess. What do chimeras possess?
    What is "sexual misconduct" anyway?
    As ordinary living beings, even as good Buddhists, we will enjoy and delight in the world (whether it be this one or the many superior worlds above it). In moderation and harming no one, this is fine. Lisa, it's okay! In the Sigalovada Sutra ("Advice to Householders," DN 31) the Buddha advises young Sigala the householder to make use of money earned by partitioning it into four parts: one to enjoy, one to pay expenses, one to restock shelves/promote one's livelihood, and one to save for times of need. This is enlightened self-interest: Enjoy now, and make sure there is something to enjoy in the future.

    But in ultimate terms, this will never do. When one wishes to transcend the world (cyclical wandering through birth, death, rebirth, redeath, misery unutterable, and the uncountable lives already lived in worlds of staggering diversity, one must overcome bondage. One must break free of ALL "suffering" (disappointment, dissatisfaction, woe, ill, misery, tragedy, lack of fulfillment, loss, crying, pain, unhappiness...). That means putting away the toys for a minute, so to speak. One cannot attain enlightenment in the thick of one's mental defilements, defilements of the heart (broadly speaking, one's greed, hate/fear, delusion in their various manifestations).
     
    The Buddha taught us to see what he saw.
    One can, however, enjoy sensual pleasures after stream entry, the first stage of enlightenment. Having uprooted the main bonds and weakened others ensures that one will reach full enlightenment and final nirvana within seven lives. Even a once-returner can enjoy all these things and do so without grossly harming others. A non-returner can look forward to rebirth in the Pure Abodes, exclusive enlightened worlds where life is long and things are good yet the beings strive for final knowledge and liberation from rebirth. The Buddha spoke of these rarefied worlds, which should never be confounded with ordinary conceptions of heaven (sagga). They likely led to the devotional extremes of Pure Land Buddhism, a prominent bhakti tradition in Mahayana Buddhism which is an awful lot like the Brahminical conception of the World of Brahma in Hinduism.