Showing posts with label american nun. Show all posts
Showing posts with label american nun. Show all posts

Monday, September 22, 2025

Train like a Jedi: U.S. nun Pema Chodron



Pema Chodron is a wise woman (Medium)
American Tibetan Vajrayana Buddhist nun Pema Chödrön, author of When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times, is like female Yoda, a character fashioned after a Tibetan Buddhist lama or master (with an ejaculatory speaking pattern and syntax of the 14th Dalai Lama).

Here the great monastic writer has advice on rousing ourselves when energy dwindles. We can train like Jedis under a master and view it as Obi-Wan Kenobi would.

One of Ven. Chödrön's most famous books, When Things Fall Apart, discusses uncertainty and how to find the good in discomfort and difficulty.


It's counterintuitive, but try it.
How can we live our lives when everything seems to fall apart
—when we are continually overcome by fear, anxiety, and pain?

The answer, American Pema Chödrön suggests, might be just the opposite of what we would expect.

Here, in her most beloved and acclaimed work, she shows that moving toward painful situations and becoming intimate with them can open up our hearts in ways we never before imagined.


What will we do then?
Drawing from traditional Buddhist wisdom, she offers life-changing tools for transforming suffering and negative patterns into habitual ease and boundless joy.

Pema Chödrön's perennially best-selling classic on overcoming life's difficulties cuts to the heart of spirituality and personal growth.

Now in a newly designed 20th-anniversary edition, to which she's added a new afterword, it makes for a perfect gift and addition to one's spiritual library.  More

Sunday, June 1, 2025

What about 'When Things Fall Apart'?

It's time to die, and you're next. (Ready? You can't be surprised. You knew Death was coming).


What? This doesn't apply to me. I'm fine. I'm famous, I'm young, I'm pretty, and I'm rich!!!
Beauty queen Ariana Viera dead at 26 after car crash in Orlando, Florida (Samsara Times)
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How can we live our lives when everything seems to fall apart — when we are continually overcome by fear, anxiety, and pain?

The answer, American Buddhist nun Ani Pema Chödrön suggests, might be just the opposite of what one expects.

Here, in her most famous and beloved work, Pema shows that moving toward painful situations and becoming intimate with them can open up our hearts in ways we never before imagined.

Drawing from traditional Buddhist wisdom, she offers life-changing tools for transforming suffering and negative patterns into habitual ease and boundless joy. shambhala.com.

Things don't fall apart; it's all just an illusion, right?

What does Pema know?
American Tibetan Buddhist nun Pema Chodron
Ani Pema Chödrön was born Deirdre Blomfield-Brown in 1936, in New York City.

She attended Miss Porter’s School in Connecticut and graduated from the University of California at Berkeley. She taught as an elementary school teacher for many years in both New Mexico and California.

The venerable nun was once a hot young hippie
Pema has two children and three grandchildren. While in her mid-30s, Ani Pema traveled to the French Alps and encountered Lama Chime Rinpoche, with whom she studied for several years. She became a novice nun in 1974 while studying with Lama Chime in London.

His Holiness the 16th Karmapa came to Scotland at that time, and Ani Pema received her ordination from him.

Why Welcome the Unwelcome? That's crazy
Pema first met her root guru, [sex scandal ridden cult leader] Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche, in 1972. Lama Chime encouraged her to work with Rinpoche, and it was with him that she ultimately made her most profound connection, studying with him from 1974 until his death in 1987.

At the request of the 16th Karmapa, she received the full bhikshuni (Buddhist nun) ordination in the Chinese lineage of Buddhism in 1981 in Hong Kong.

Saturday, September 16, 2023

Seattle: My kid ran off to Buddhist monastery


What to do if your kid goes to a monastery: A Buddhist monk interviews his parents
(Clear Mountain Monastery) Sept. 13, 2023: Clear Mountain Monastery Podcast In this session, Ajahn Nisabho interviews his parents, Sarah Conover and Doug Robnett, about their experience having a son in robes and their own spiritual journeys.

Tune in with fellow practitioners every Wednesday evenings from 6:00-6:45 pm or Saturday mornings from 9:30-11:00 am for a Dhamma Talk and Q&A with Ajahn Kovilo or Ajahn Nisabho.

Saturday mornings begin with a 30-minute meditation. Wednesday evening Q&A's are followed by a discussion on Zoom from 6:45-7:30 pm.



Sept. 16th: Saturday LIVE at St. Mark’s in Seattle: Meditation, Dharma Talk, and Q&A | Ajahn Nisabho
(Clear Mountain Monastery) Started streaming 9/16/23 Clear Mountain Monastery Podcast. To join via Zoom on Saturdays, visit Clear Mountain Monastery's website and click on the link for the Saturday Morning Meditation, Teaching, and Coffee Social (clearmountainmonastery.org... )

To participate in the Saturday chanting, use this PDF: cdn.amaravati.org/wp-content...

Monday, May 29, 2023

Black Catholic nun in Missouri is saint (video)


The body of an incorrupt Catholic nun has been found in Missouri after being deceased for four years
(Dr. Taylor Marshall) [She's Sister Wilhelmina Lancaster. She's Black, a Catholic, foundress of a Benedictine order in Missouri and, now, on her way to being canonized by the Church for being a saint with one miracle under her belt.]

Whoopi, be better! Be like Sister Wilhelmina!
[It's not too difficult to become a "saint" in the Catholic religion. The Buddha is a Catholic saint because once voted in and canonized -- particularly with no more Office of the Devil's Advocate at the Vatican -- one cannot be voted out. The Buddha was brought in by accident because in the Jataka Tales or Rebirth Stories, he was a particularly popular figure. So the Bodhisat (Bodhisatta or Bodhisattva, as the Buddha referred to himself prior to Buddhahood), was remembered as "Saint Josaphat."]

[And the Catholic Church came in to conquer an area, as they are wont to do even today, which they do with swords and flowers, often pick a popular figure to say, "Look, he was saintly." They thus accrue for themselves all popular figures to build their image as the great institution that will convert or kill you, unless you come willingly because, look, this person is actually a Catholic saint.]

[Pope John Paul II didn't like to go to a new country unless he was canonizing a local figure because the local population loves that. Everyone's in need of a patron saint, and no is better than a local.]
  • How can Buddhists explain this? The same way Jains, Hindus, and yogis would: samadhi (stillness, coherence, concentration) that leads to temporary moral purification. Alone it is not enough for salvation, liberation, enlightenment. Systematic practice for insight-wisdom is needed for that. But samadhi alone is enough to make one a "saint" in other religions.

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COMMENTS
buddhist_teaching@yahoo.com(@WQ-001) Is it wrong to be reminded of the Black Jewish actress Whoopi Goldberg in Sister Act? Of course, Sister Wilhelmina is the opposite of her, but as one wise person once said, "All saints have a past, and all sinners have a future." So Whoopi could learn something from Saint Lancaster's example.

@Liam-ix8pv(@Liam-ix8pv) I saw her myself! It’s really amazing how well she looks! The best part is that she started that super traditional order there! It’s the Benedictines of Mary, Queen of the Apostles. They are probably some of the most traditional nuns in the world in my opinion.

@monicaradey815(@monicaradey815) Rest in Holy Peace 🙏🏻 Sister Wilhelmina🙏🏻

@JackieArmB(@JackieArmB) Thanks for reporting this, Dr. Marshall. I knew if I shared it with you, you would look into it. Fr. Pillari saw her. The fabric and coffin walls were disintegrated [corrupted], but her habit [nun's garb] was like new. He said you could feel the body intact (muscle or skin; bit binges) through her sleeve. Thank God for signs like this in these dark days.

Friday, March 17, 2023

Irish female Zen Buddhist saint: O'Halloran

Amber Larson and Dhr. Seven (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly

Score: 4.4 out of 5 stars (with 45 ratings)
It's days like this in LA, sunny and green from the pre-spring rains, that the mind takes to wondering about Zen and Saint Soshin Maura O'Halloran (\oh hollerin\), who attained (kensho) in the Zen tradition.

Maura "Soshin" O'Halloran (1955-1982) was an Irish Zen Buddhist nun known for her book, Pure Heart, Enlightened Mind, which was posthumously published.

She was one of the "first of few Western women allowed to practice in a traditional Japanese Zen monastery."

What is the true nature of things?
O'Halloran was born in Boston, Massachusetts. Her parents then moved back to Ireland when she was 4-years-old. She was educated in a convent school in County Dublin and later attended Trinity College Dublin.

She graduated with a joint degree in mathematical economics/statistics and sociology. Shortly after her graduation, O'Halloran traveled to northern Japan, where she studied to become a Zen monastic at Tōshō-ji in Tokyo and at Kannonji (Iwate Prefecture). More

In 1979, 24-year-old Maura O'Halloran
left her waitressing job in Boston and began
her study of Zen in Japan. Today she is
revered as a "Zen Buddhist saint," and a
statue stands in her honor at the Japanese
Zen Buddhist monastery where she lived.
This is the story of her journey.

At 23 she left Harvard Square for Tokyo?
After the ecstasy, the laundry...and always the dishes.
Commonweal readers already know of Maura O'Halloran, 23, whose mother, Ruth O'Halloran, wrote about her daughter's life in an essay published on Feb. 28, 1992.

A scholarship student at Trinity College, Dublin, who "early gave promise of a rare spirituality," Maura O'Halloran left a waitressing job in Harvard Square at age 23 to begin an apprenticeship as a Buddhist monastic at a zendo in Japan.

There, too, she showed uncommon gifts early on: She glimpsed enlightenment almost immediately and solved koans with the aplomb of a veteran Zen master. She stayed at the zendo for most of two years, resolved to "not stop until I reach complete enlightenment."


In 1982, intending to return to her family in Dublin, she had set out on a trip through Asia when she was killed in a bus accident in Thailand.

Since then "Maura-san," or "Soshin" -- celebrated during her lifetime in the Japanese media as an anomaly of anomalies, a female Irish Zen monastic -- has come to be regarded as a Buddhist bodhisattva or "saint of compassion."

Now, prompted by the Commonweal article, Tuttle & Co. has published the journal Maura "Soshin" O'Halloran kept while at the Buddhist monastery, along with letters she wrote to her family and a series of delicate, lovely drawings by her younger sister, Elizabeth.

Together they form a remarkable record of a life fully lived, a unique and inspiring and even heartbreaking book.

On one level Soshin's personal journal is an account of her determined progress toward Zen enlightenment (satori).

In an afterword, the American Zen monastic Patricia Dai-En Bennage sees it as a "record of a pure heart" (soshin) and a summary of her way, or teaching: "intense meditation, known as zazen, for long hours in natural...  More

Pure Heart, Enlightened Mind: The Life and Letters of an Irish Zen Saint
Maura O'Halloran (author), Beth O'Halloran (illustrator), Ruth O'Halloran (intro)

One of the most beloved Buddhist books of all time — having inspired popular musicians, artists, a documentary film, and countless readers — is now available in an expanded new edition, loaded with illustrations and extras.

It's absolutely absorbing from start to finish. This is a true story to truly fall in love with. At only 24, Maura O'Halloran left her Irish-American family in the States and traveled to Japan, where she began studying under a Zen Buddhist master.

She would herself become recognized as a Zen master, in an uncommonly brief amount of time.

What mighty lass made a go of Zen and satori?
Pure Heart, Enlightened Mind
is Maura O'Halloran's beautifully-written account of her journey. These journal entries and letters home reveal astonishing, wise-beyond-her-years humor, compassion, wisdom, and commitment.

This expanded edition includes never-before-seen entries and poems, the author's unfinished novel, and an afterword that discusses the book's cultural impact.

It will be a must have for her fans and admirers and will surely find her thousands of new ones. More

Friday, February 10, 2023

Pema Chodron quote when we don't feel right

Nicole Cameron (elephant journal, 1/11/23); Ananda (DBM), Dhr. Seven (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly
You want to watch the Big Game rather than come with me to yoga class to get closer?
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Author Nicole Cameron (elephant journal)
Lately, I’ve had the sensation that I’m crawling out of my skin. It’s a constant state of discomfort -- of not being able to sit without feeling antsy.

[It's a feeling] of not being able to lay down without adjusting and readjusting, of feeling like there’s something I’m forgetting to do, of wanting things to feel “just right” but not being able to reach that imaginary point.

I’m not drowning in unhappiness, and I’m not facing major personal drama at the moment. In fact, things feel relatively calm on one level.
Listen to my podcast, Nicole! I'm Sahara Rose!
On another level, there’s a buzz of excitement…of plans and moments that I’m looking forward to. And still, my mind and body struggle to relax. I try to rest, to listen to meditations and will my mind to settle. I pray and light candles and sage [smudge] my space until I get scared I’m going to set the smoke detector off.

I move my body. I stretch and do yoga sun salutations. I dance salsa and swing my kettle bell. I breathe and bend and squat until it feels like my legs are begging for mercy. But that current of discomfort remains a quiet, nagging whisper.

Kendall is miserable when she gets anxious.
My anxiety likes to convince me that this feeling is proof that something is wrong or that if something isn’t wrong right now, it’s most certainly coming ― so I better be ready.
My stubbornness tells me that I just haven’t found the right cure, the right mix of self-care practices, that will allow me to chill the f*ck out. That maybe a different meditation or podcast or ritual will do the trick.

My optimism tells me that I just need to be more gracious, that I need to be outwardly thankful for all the good in my life. That if I can focus more on the positive, those antsy feelings will slowly disappear. 

American Buddhist nun Pema Chodron understands
My anger tells me that I’m holding something in that needs to burst out, that it’s time to take all my latent frustration out on whoever is closest, consequences be damned.

My rational mind tells me I need to call my therapist. The truth is that I could try all of these things and still feel like I want to bust out of my skin.

...Instead, I can be guided by these words from American Vajrayana Buddhist nun Pema Chödrön:

“We think that if we just meditated enough or jogged enough or ate perfect food, everything would be perfect. But from the point of view of someone who is awake, that’s death. Seeking security or perfection, rejoicing in feeling confirmed and whole, self-contained and comfortable, is some kind of death. It doesn’t have any fresh air. There’s no room for something to come in and interrupt all that. We are killing the moment by controlling our experience.”

As crappy as this feeling is, it is also proof of life ― of my life in this moment. It is my fresh air. More

Monday, February 6, 2023

The Freedom to Love: 3 Kinds of Suffering

Pema Chodron, T. Simon, Sounds True, 8/5/22; Ashley Wells, Dhr. Seven (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly

Are you sure you want marriage material.
There's the old joke, true in its own way, that with every marriage there are three rings. Three? Yes. There's the engagement ring, the wedding ring, and the suffe-ring. Similarly, beloved American teacher and Buddhist nun Pema Chodron distinguishes three kinds of
dukkha.

Three Kinds of Suffering with American Buddhist nun Pema Chödrön
(Sounds True) With The Freedom to Love, Pema Chödrön invites us to start wherever we are — with any challenges, frustrations, or fears we may be facing — and use them as the launching pad to awaken the natural and boundless capacity of our heart.

Do we want to love and connect with others more deeply but need a little help? Struggling with matters of the heart? This is the place to bring them through six sessions of intensive learning and practice, this beloved and gifted teacher guides us through Buddhism’s traditional awakened heart training...with a difference.

She might have named this course “Working with the Hard Stuff” — because here she shows us how to use the principles of The Four Immeasurables in our most challenging situations, relationships, and emotional states. Check out the online course, The Freedom To Love: bit.ly/3QeGspl. Subscribe to Sounds True with Tami Simon for more: bit.ly/2EAugMf.

Wednesday, February 1, 2023

Changing heart towards pain: Pema Chodron


Changing our heart towards pain: Pema Chodron
(Sounds True) Aug. 31, 2022. With The Freedom to Love, Pema Chödrön invites us to start wherever we are — with any challenges, frustrations, or fears we may be facing — and use them as the launching pad to awaken the natural and boundless capacity of our heart. #Buddhism

Do you suppose things will fall apart again?
Do we want to love and connect with others more deeply but need a little help? Struggling with matters of the heart? This is the place to bring them through six sessions of intensive learning and practice.

This beloved and gifted American Buddhist teacher guides us through Buddhism’s traditional awakened heart training...with a difference. She might have named this course “Working with the Hard Stuff” — because here she shows us how to use the principles of The Four Immeasurables (Brahma Viharas or Divine Abidings) in our most challenging situations, relationships, and emotional states.
ABOUT: Sounds True was founded in 1985 by Tami Simon with a clear mission: to disseminate [spread the seeds of] spiritual wisdom. Since starting out as a project with one woman and her tape recorder, the project has grown into a multimedia publishing company with more than 80 employees, a library of more than 1,500 titles featuring some of the leading teachers and visionaries of our time, and an ever-expanding family of customers from across the world. In more than three decades of growth, change, and evolution, Sounds True has maintained its focus on its overriding purpose, as summed up in its mission statement. Connect on Facebook, Instagram, or website.

Sunday, October 9, 2022

Journals of Black Buddhist Nun Faith Adiele

Faith Adiele (2005. 4.5 out of 5 stars, 42 ratings); Dhr Seven, Crystal Q. (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly
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Mmm, Pop Tarts. Yummy.
Meeting Faith: The Forest Journals of a Black Buddhist Nun is a wry account of the road from Harvard scholarship student to Theravada Buddhist ordination as Northern Thailand's first Black Buddhist nun.

Reluctantly leaving behind Pop Tarts and American pop culture to battle rumors of flying rats, hissing cobras, forest fires, and decomposing corpses taken as meditation subjects, author Faith Adiele shows readers in this personal narrative, with accompanying journal entries, that the path to faith (saddha, confidence) is full of conflicts for even the most devout.

Residing in a Thai forest temple, she endured 19-hour daily meditations, living on a single daily meal, and days without speaking.

Internally Faith Adiele battled loneliness, fear, hunger, sexual desires, resistance to the Buddhist worldview, and her own rebellious Western ego.

Adiele demystifies Eastern Philosophy and demonstrates the value of developing any practice ― Buddhist or otherwise. This "unlikely, bedraggled nun" moves grudgingly into faith, learning to meditate for 72 hours at a stretch.

Her witty, defiant twist on the standard coming-of-age tale suggests that we each hold the key to overcoming
  • anger
  • fear
  • addiction
  • accepting family
  • redefining success.
It's possible to re-create community and a high quality of life in today's world. 10 illustrations. More

Saturday, October 8, 2022

Meeting Faith, Black Buddhist nun

Dhr. Seven, Crystal Quintero (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly; Faith Adiele (adiele.com), insightla.org
Having been a Buddhist nun, one knows beyond intellect. Faith Adiele (Civitella Ranieri)
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Visiting teacher Faith Adiele (insightla.org)
Faith Adiele’s memoir about leaving Harvard to become Thailand’s first Black Theravada Buddhist nun, won a PEN Award and routinely makes "best travel writing" lists.

She also writes for the meditation app Calm, as well as for A World of Calm, a series co-produced by Calm and HBO, with narration from Idris Elba, Kate Winslet, Mahershala Ali, Lucy Liu, and others. 

She has lived in West Africa and Southeast Asia, worked as a diversity trainer and community activist, and taught travel writing and memoir from Bali to Ghana to Switzerland, including at Esalen with Cheryl Strayed and The Open Center NYC, where she was recently in conversation with Julia Cameron of The Artists’ Way about mindful listening and creativity.

She is now associate professor of creative nonfiction at California College of the Arts and the Stonecoast Low-Residency MFA Program. More
Professor of writing

She began the semester in a classroom teaching creative writing MFAs nonfiction, specifically memoir.... She is a self-described “typical Nigerian • Nordic • American girl.”

She is “Thailand’s first Black Buddhist nun” and has written several books about embodying the intersections of these identities.

She is cosmopolitan, and yet true to Buddhist teaching, deeply aware of her greater responsibility to humanity becoming self-actualized. Her writing reflects this.

“There’s gotta be a social justice mission to [writing across the genres] routing out the institutional racism, homophobia, and sexism that stops our voices from coming out.”

Her teaching philosophy marries these to craft and literary criticism. “Is your teaching about activism, is it about social justice, is it about creating a space and challenging things?” Interview with Faith Adiele (dpwc2020.com)