Showing posts with label discipline. Show all posts
Showing posts with label discipline. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 15, 2026

Why won't brain allow change, Chase Hughes?

Chase Hughes needs to be silenced at all costs. Destroy him. Start with his reputation.

The Passport for PUA players
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People (operatives?) who hate Chase Hughes want to shut him up

The Passport by Chase Hughes (2007)
Who is Chase Hughes? (Zach Elwood wants to tell us on the behavior-podcast.com, The Chase Hughes podcast series. Here's a shot from the back cover of Chase Hughes' 2007 pick-up artist book The Passport.

Chase Hughes' 2007/2008 website allegedly sold a supplement he called "Redshift with Neuridium." He claimed it was used by "all branches of the United States Armed Forces" and that it had "international recognition," neither of which seems to be the case.




I'm a handsome success. Buy from me.
Why is Chase Hughes popular? Chase has appeared on popular podcasts and shows, including Joe Rogan's podcast, the podcast Diary of a CEO (as seen in the clip above), and the Dr. Phil Show.

There are a lot of people leaving positive reviews for his books on Amazon.com and his YouTube videos.

But the truth is, haters say, that Chase Hughes has been lying about his credentials and experiences for most of his adult life. His "success" and popularity are based on a few factors.


(Liven) PRIVATE RESULTS: Your ADHD patterns suggest your brain may be locked in an avoidance cycle — treating important tasks as low-level threats and redirecting your energy toward anything that offers immediate relief. This is often fueled by years of accumulated pressure between high capability and low output. Over time, this can take a significant toll — chronic procrastination, task paralysis, and a widening gap between your intentions and your actions. This cycle is extremely difficult to break through willpower alone, as your neurology is prioritizing short-term safety over long-term execution.

Friday, May 29, 2026

Why Zen monks never "fight" bad habits



Why Japanese monks never fight bad habits
You seem so happy. Do you have any problems?
KODEN OBSCURE(KODEN OBSCURE) May 26, 2026: Zen Wisdom: Been struggling to break a bad habit for years and feel like it's losing battle using willpower?

Many of us are fighting a war we were never meant to wage. In this video, we explore a profound piece of wisdom from the Japanese monastic tradition: Zen monks never fight their habits.

Instead of using force, they use intelligent design. Discover the five unusual and quiet methods used in Zen monasteries to redirect energy, change environments, design time, and observe urges without judgment.

Learn why treating our mind with patience rather than going to war with it is the ultimate secret to lasting freedom. What this video covers: 
  • Why willpower almost always fails in the long run
  • The "replacement gesture" and how to redirect energy
  • How breaking the spatial anchor of a room can instantly stop an urge
  • The danger of "empty time" and how monks structure their day
  • Why harsh self-judgment actually feeds our bad habits.
CHAPTERS
  • 0:00 The monk who couldn't break a habit
  • 1:29 The secret monastic view of habits
  • 3:01 Method 1: The replacement gesture
  • 4:10 Method 2: Breaking the spatial anchor
  • 5:29 Method 3: Eliminating undesigned time
  • 6:50 Method 4: The practice of conscious permission
  • 8:15 Method 5: Escaping the loop of self-judgment
  • 9:37 - Why fighting keeps the habit alive
  • 10:29 - Wrestling the shadow (a Zen metaphor)
  • 11:37 - How to finally become free.
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Tuesday, March 3, 2026

Hidden Birth of Zen (as Taoism)

Bodhidharma: Nothing you do... - Are you crazy, then why do anything? - Be. Go with the Tao
What are you doing, Zen Master? - I'm going with the Tao. - You're not doing anything. - Yes.

  • So much of what people call "Zen" (capitalized as opposed to zen or jhana/dhyana) sounds more like Taoism (with a stiff dose of Confucianism) than Buddhism, and here's why. It was all picked up in translation. So what was lost? Those may be beautiful spiritual/temporal traditions with which to blend, but what is obscured is the historical Buddha's message until it is almost completely lost and replaced by Hinduism (with its Tantra, yoga, and magic that gave rise to another branch Vajrayana/Shingon attached) to a new religion that came to be called Mahayana, far from the Buddha's Dhamma.
Everything Zen

We silly Westerners have no idea! We think we know
"Zen" is a silly word, carrying so much meaning in American English. Goodness knows what it means in Japan or China nowadays, a dying religious sect taking sides in the jiriki versus tariki battle?

We aim to find out on Thursdays in Los Angeles at the Pasadena Zen Sangha. There is a path. What is it? If one were to ask the average American Zen practitioner, then everything likely to be heard in response would be some derivation of Taoism, not Buddhism or any relation to relation to the Doctrine of the historical Buddha.

Shikantaza: just do it because it's just sitting.
Lao Tzu (Laozi) was not a Buddhist. He was possibly a celestial (deva), descended to Earth to philosophize and guide the Chinese.

For all that, on "Buddhist Radio" (Alan Watts - KPFK 90.7 FM, 8:00 am, Sunday, Feb. 15, 2026) Alan Watts explained Zen in 18-minutes.

His brief talk lays bare the root of every misconception. Moreover, Buddha's Wisdom (in the video displayed above) does much to add context and clarify. Zen can be grasped.
 
KPFK Public Radio - Online Archives Archive
Watts says the problem with understanding Zen is that unless one were raised Japanese -- very punctilious, rigid, formal, ritualistic, deadly afraid of a faux pas, losing face, or doing things incorrectly -- one will not be able to appreciate what Zen (Taoism) offers as relief.

Zen promotes spontaneity, naturalness, flow, being at ease, comfort, and relaxing into a kind of "just being" present and mindful (of the moment) without so much thinking (premeditation).

Sunday, February 1, 2026

Real Happiness Meditation Challenge

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Real Happiness: Power of Meditation: 28-Days
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    American Buddhist teacher Sharon Salzberg
    ABOUT: Sharon Salzberg is a pioneer in the field of Buddhist meditation, a world-renowned teacher, and New York Times bestselling author. She has played a pivotal role in bringing Buddhist insight meditation (vipassana) and mindfulness (sati) into mainstream American culture since 1974. She is cofounder of The Insight Meditation Society in Barre, MA, and has authored 10 books, including the New York Times bestseller Real Happiness. Acclaimed for her down-to-earth and relatable teaching style, she offers a secular, modern approach to Buddhist teachings, making them instantly accessible. Her writing can be found on Medium, On Being, the Maria Shriver blog, and Huffington Post. She is also the host of her own podcast The Metta Hour, with 100+ episodes, featuring interviews with the top leaders and voices in the meditation and mindfulness movement. Learn more at sharonsalzberg.com.

    Monday, June 23, 2025

    Message of love from the Dalai Lama


    (Dechen wangdi 🇨🇦) H.H. the 14th Dalai Lama has an important message for all religions, a message of love and unity (mutual respect, tolerance, celebration, amity, peaceful coexistence). #tibetanvlogger #tibetanyoutuber June 21, 2025. Background music: "Tears" (Produced by MX Audio Library) Link: • Tears - No Copyright M...

    • Dalai Lama (dalailama.com); CC Liu, Crystal Q. (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly

    Saturday, May 24, 2025

    Why Zen is the 'easiest' path to satori

    Whatcha doin, SpongeBob? - Just sitting. - You mean shikantaza? - Uh, what? I mean, yeah, that.

    Why Zen is the EASIEST path to enlightenment (but few understand it)
    Can we speed this up? I've got things to do.
    (Cinematic Bible Lore) May 16, 2025: 🌿 Is Enlightenment (redefined in Zen as satori or kensho rather than bodhi) really about effort, rituals, or sutra study, or could the simplest path be the most powerful?

    ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
    • 0:00 What is Zen? [It's not monkey mind]
    • 0:45 Bodhidharma: The Origin of Chan
    • 2:48 Dōgen Zenji’s awakening
    • 4:55 Why zazen is not meditation
    • 6:58 Living [in] the present moment
    • 8:20 Zen in daily life
    • 11:08 How to practice zazen
    • 16:41 The power of just sitting
    • 18:49 Zen is Now
    Don't think, Monkey. Zen mind is beginner's mind
    This video dives deeply into the essence of Zen Buddhism — a tradition that goes beyond concepts and leads to direct experience of awakening through simplicity.

    Discover the story of Bodhidharma, the teachings of Dōgen Zenji, and why zazen (seated meditation) is not just a technique — but a way of mindfully living in the here and now.

    Whether new to Zen or deep in practice, this guide reveals why Zen is the easiest — and most overlooked — path to enlightenment.

    🧘 LEARN:
    • Why Zen rejects dogma, rituals, and intellectual striving
    • The power of zazen: how “just sitting” (shikantaza) becomes awakening
    • How Dōgen’s teachings dissolve the illusion of time and ego
    • Why the present moment holds everything we seek
    • How to bring Zen into daily acts like washing, walking, or breathing
    💬 Question: Ever felt fully present — free from discursive thought, self, and striving? Share the experience in the comments.

    📺 Explore more: 🎥 The Deepest Teaching of Buddha 🎥 The Secret Behind Zazen Meditation 🎥 Buddhism vs. Zen – What's the real difference?

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    Tuesday, March 4, 2025

    Lent: Will Devil tempt us? (Alan Watts)

    Impatient? Rush to Minute 2:37 to hear Christian approach and the Devil's opposition to being good

    What is the Zen way to liberation? Kindergarten
    Imagine beginning the Rains Retreat (Buddhist Lent known as Vas) with the idea of being good. Mara will come right at you like an angel of light (Mara Devaputra, Cupid, Eros, Kamadeva) and undermine your efforts, won't he? That's his modus operandi, as Alan Watts explains. But Taoism, and therefore Zen Buddhism, has a solution: Don't let him know what you're doing. One must act without intention, without premeditation, without the goal or outcome in mind so as to not let him know what we're up to on our path to be good. Otherwise, he'll just come along and ruin our efforts like taking candy from an old person or trying to give veggies to a baby: They'll fight you.
    What does Alan Watts know?
    By understanding both cultures, he's a bridge.
    Not 40 days, but for more than 40 years, Alan Watts has earned a reputation as one of the foremost Western interpreters of Eastern philosophy.

    Beginning at age 16, when he wrote essay for the journal of the Buddhist Lodge in London, Watts developed an audience of millions who were enriched by the wisdom of the East through his books, recordings, radio shows, public television programs, and public lectures.

    In all, Watts wrote more than 25 books and recorded hundreds of lectures, all building toward a personal philosophy that he shares in complete candor and joy with readers and listeners throughout the world.

    Insight can do what the ego cannot do by doing. - Philosophy or sophistry? Does Watts go too far?

    Sixties icon? He was at it since before the 1950s.
    His overall body of work has presented a model of individuality and self-expression matched by few philosophers, modern or ancient.

    KPFK 90.7 FM Los Angeles continues to air Watts on Sunday mornings (8:00 am) and during Something's Happening midnights on Thursdays overnight to Friday.

    The three main sources for Alan Watts are the Pacifica Radio Archives, (800) 735-0230, pacificaradioarchives.org, the Electronic University (415) 460-0825, alanwatts.org, and Wisdom Quarterly.

    Tuesday, October 18, 2022

    Parent without yelling: Connect Method (audio)

    Andee Martineau (connectmethodparenting.com/book-offer); Eds., Wisdom Quarterly
    What if there were a way to get children to listen without yelling, bribing, or threatening?


    I'll kill'ya, you little motherfather! - No, mommy
    I'd like to be a more mindful parent, a more compassionate parent, a more effective parent -- and I'd like to stop yelling. What to do, what to do?

    But do you know what it's like? It drive a person crazy! If only there were a way to connect, like author Andee Martineau promises.

    Could there possibly be a way to get my kids to want to listen...without the yelling, ultimatums, or bribes? Here's a FREE book offer to find out: Free Parenting Book – Connect Method

    Andee Martineau appeared on a podcast explaining Connect Method

    Thursday, January 2, 2020

    Habit: How to keep a resolution (video)

    Matt D'Avella, Dec. 31, 2018; Ananda, Dhr. Seven, Jen, Ashley Wells (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly


    Get help. Spiritual progress is an inside job.
    What we need is committment, discipline, and GRIT. That's passion and perseverance combined. Passion gets us started then fails us, so we then switch to perseverance that doesn't need motivation or emotion, just committment. That's the discipline. Get help, a party to be answerable and accountable to. Be a friend, and you'll have a friend. Keep at it until the habit forms. Then it gets easier. Join a group if necessary. The more resources we have, the richer and more successful we get.

    Get your New Year's resolutions to stick
    Matt D'Avella (patreon.com/mattdavella) has advice, and his channel is ad-free. He helped and asked for help from:
    Is a daily meditation practice the goal -- to someday be serene and find enlightenment? Then here's the chance of a lifetime at Los Angeles' Dharma Buddhist Meditation group sitting: meetup.com/zen-07.

    Saturday, September 21, 2019

    Kung fu Buddhist monks FIGHT (video)

    Fight Light 1/19; Pfc. Sandoval, Dhr. Seven, Pat Macpherson, CC Liu (eds.), Wisdom Quarterly


    Kung fu monks vs. other masters
    This is a motivational video for those who train in kung fu. It contains various fights between Shaolin Buddhist monks practicing kung fu and other martial arts.

    Kung fu Buddhist monks
    Wiki edited by Wisdom Quarterly
    The umbrella term kung fu (功夫) or wushu (武術) refers to Chinese martial arts. There are several hundred fighting styles that developed over the centuries.

    These styles are often classified according to common traits, identified as martial arts "families" (家/jiā), "sects" (派/pài), or "schools" (門/mén).

    Examples of these traits include Shaolin-quan (少林拳), physical exercises involving mimicry of the Five Animals (五形), and training methods inspired by old Chinese philosophies, religions (animism, Buddhism, Confucianism, shamanism, Taoism), and legends.

    Styles that focus on chi (qi, kyi, prana, spiritus) manipulation are called internal (内家拳/nèijiāquán), while others that concentrate on improving muscle and cardio fitness are called "external" (外家拳/wàijiāquán)....

    Fighting Shaolin Temple monks

    Shaolin Temple was built in 495 AD on Song Mountain, and the first Buddhist monk who taught Buddhism there was the Indian monk Ven. Buddhabhadra (佛陀跋陀罗/Fótuóbátuóluó), called Batuo (跋陀).

    His first two Chinese disciples, Huiguang and Sengchou, had exceptional martial abilities. Sengchou's skill with a tin staff is documented in the Chinese Buddhist canon.

    After Ven. Buddhabadra, there came a western South Indian Buddhist monk named Ven. Bodhidharma (菩提达摩/Pútídámó), called Damo (达摩). It was 527 AD. His Chinese disciple, Huike, was also a skilled martial arts expert.

    The implication is that these first three Chinese Shaolin monks -- Huiguang, Sengchou, and Huike -- may have been military men before entering the Buddhist monastic life.

    The Shaolin style of kung fu is regarded as one of the first institutionalized Chinese martial arts.

    The oldest evidence of Shaolin participation in combat is a stele from 728 CE. It attests to two occasions, a defense of Shaolin Monastery from bandits around 610 CE, and their subsequent role in the defeat of Wang Shichong at the Battle of Hulao in 621 CE.

    However, from the 8th to the 15th centuries, there are no existing documents that provide evidence of Shaolin participation in any combat. More

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